i have had feelings for my best friend for over 2 and a half years and i never had the strenght to tell her unitl the end of my senior year in high school. we shared everything together and when i finally told her that i was in love with her, she acted weird towards me...that was my senior year, and im a freshman in college now and she talks to me again and i still feel the exact same way about her. one of my friends told me that you cant love someone without dating them first and i dont believe that...is she right?
2006-12-09 20:23:10 · 5 answers · asked by Jake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yup =) when u love someone u tend to wait for her... no matter how long she make u wait ... u will still wait for her ... she acts wierd cos she was stun by ur confess and feel that she was enable to ans u straight but when she try to talk to u again.. tha means she wanna be frien with u again n wanna test if u still have the same feelin and wanna give u a second chance to show urself ... believe me when both of u share more time togethe u will soon find out that everythin that u believe came true ... good luck to u ...
2006-12-09 20:29:28 · answer #1 · answered by keyzin Tan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there are many different kinds of love. I think that you can look someone in the eyes and love them...but pure real true love is fostered. It grows and is rather reminiscent of mold. You can love someone, even if every moment you've spent with them is as friends. I think if she doesn't love you back, try being friends with her so at least you can have her in your life that way...but your friend is wrong. Love is Love it doesn't stay in the boundaries of dates or rules of our society and culture it is like the wind. Unchangeable, invisible, and powerful.
2006-12-09 20:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by OldSchoolLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call it "true love" yet.
"one of my friends told me that you cant love someone without dating them first"
I kinda believe her... you have to spend more time and get to know her more in order for you to call it true love.
2006-12-09 20:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You constantly think about them and you want to be them all the time =)
2006-12-09 20:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by bassfshrgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"cant love someone without dating them first" <---- what crap is this.
yes, so long as you're sure of yourself that you sincerely love her, then you do.
2006-12-09 20:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋