If you need a date for your company's holiday party, would it be OK to ask a friend's wife to accompany you to the party?
2006-12-09 20:19:23 · 21 answers · asked by introversive_guy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you crazy? Good night!
2006-12-09 20:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simple Answer: H*ll No
But really? The only logical way that that could even slightly be okay... is because (and I'm not saying this to be malicious) you don't have a lot of friends and are too scared/shy to ask another woman.
I don't know how desperately you need a date, but if you desperately need a date and all parties are okay with it... then by all means... do it.
HOWEVER every action has its consequences. If they "say" they're okay with it and are really not... you're friendship can be affected.
I'm going to my company Christmas party this, I use to always go with my husband, but we have since then been divorced. I took my cousin with me instead last year and we had a blast! Even though it wasn't a guy, I had a great time because I didn't have to worry, too much, about another person, making sure they're entertained. Plus, after the party, we double-teamed it at a bar and met some really great new people.
If you can't get a female date, take a buddy... dude... TAKE YOUR FRIEND!
.pEace.
2006-12-09 20:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by ...Tell Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think this would be rather complicated. Your colleagues would think it rather odd if you brought a friend's wife along as a date, and some might jump to conclusions. I don't think this would be a very comfortable place for your friend's wife.
Of course, your friend and your friend's wife would also wonder about the sub-text here. Frankly, even if she was in an open marriage and you were her lover, it would still be a really odd request.
A much better idea is to ask your friend's wife if she has a friend. If she's the sort of woman you'd like to take to a party, then she probably has friends that you'd also like.
2006-12-09 20:28:22 · answer #3 · answered by Duncan C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man your a guy I'm a guy I know what your thinking, you OBVIOUSLY have some sexual thoughts goin on there, don't tell me you don't you can't lie to yourself. Think about this how is it going to benefit you taking your friends wife out to the party knowing if you do something you are going to ruin a happy marriage and most importantly lose a friend. Here is your answer in a form of a question which will give you the answer you are looking for. Are you really willing to face the concequences of taking his wife out to the party? Good luck!
2006-12-09 20:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by Dispirited 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ask a relative if you mus but taking a married woman to a party is just asking for big trouble. is there no co worker, no neighbor, no old friend that would accompany you? If you are so single why is it not OK for you to go alone to the party? You already know what you want to do is wrong, listen to your inner voice.
2006-12-09 20:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by cindyloo f 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 02:07:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You shouldn't be dating married people. Especially not your friend's spouse. Doing so goes against all the sacred laws of friendship and can result in you getting your a55 kicked.
2006-12-09 20:23:03 · answer #7 · answered by noir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you asked him permission and he knew it would be strictly for company and totally nonsexual. but he'd have to be a good friend. not just a co-worker or someone you barely know.
2006-12-09 20:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by theonlytrueincubusfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only one way to find out.
2006-12-09 20:22:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i wouldn't think so as long as u don't make a move because it will come back 10 fold
2006-12-09 20:21:47 · answer #10 · answered by Nathan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋