Do you think you missed the love of a lifetime?

Question

I had this girl that tried to kiss me when I was 22 yrs old. She was as perfect a girl as I had ever met. I unfortunately had to reject her because my fiancee was pregnant at the time. My Finacee and I got married about a month before the baby was due(I didn't want t make her an unwed mother of my child) When the baby was born he was MEXICAN. And we are both white. And I mean the dark and obvious mexican. God I wish I hadn't been so faithful. Do you have a similar story?

Answer 1

Yes, because I was stupid. I kew this girl since we were in grammer school. Her mother and my mother were best friends. They moved away and I went to stay with them for a vacation. I was only 10 yrs old at the time. I wnt about my life and she went about her's. She was hurt very bad when her boyfriend who was a Marine sent for her. She was so excited she was expecting to get married, when she got there all he wanted is for her to come there for sex. She left and went home broken hearted. She was down in the dumps. Her mother called my mother and asked if iI would call her and ask her out. I did and she said no.The next day her mother called back and said to call her again that she just did not feel good. I teally did not want to make a fool of myself again. But my mom said try again she is a beautiful girl who has been hurt. So I called again and she said yes. We went out for about a month and I really got to like her and I think she was warming up to me. She invited me to upstate to her parents house for a week end I went. I had a good time but all I got from her mother was when I a i going to get married she told me that her daughter had money and a good job and they will help her when she gets married. Well this scared me off and I never called her again. I was stupid because this was not her fault her mother just wanted to find out if I was interested. I as but I ran now I am sorry. I think about her all the time.

Answer 2

hi? I even have 2 testicles, i might desire to have a newborn every time i choose. i don't prefer to via decision (i'm in undemanding terms 40 5). I even have sixteen neices and nephews grown up (all above the age of 25). I even have 19 super-neices and nephews, the youngest 5 days and the oldest would be 8 this coming July and that i babysit each and all of the time, NO, i don't omit having toddlers, i don't have TIME. besides bringing a newborn into the international, just to "have some element of you" accessible is egocentric. i might quite help somebody else fulfill their accountability and do it suited and supply a newborn extra effective than what they might are turning out to be materially from basically one set of parents.

Answer 3

I know that I have missed the love of a lifetime...I was with this guy that was in the Navy....I met him one weekend and we hung out all weekend and had a great time...I was really feeling him....It took him a week to get back to base and when he got back, he called...

We started talking everyday and he found out that there were flights coming to my hometown every weekend and since he had to work every other weekend, he came on his weekends off...I fell so deep in love with him but a year later, I found out he was staying with someone because she called me due to one day she just decided to look in that bag he had on the floor with all my pics and letters and cards in it...She called and we talked for hours and he stopped calling...

I think I will never forget him because what we had was real eventhough he had a girl but she did not much care because she was doing the same to him...

I think about him every now and then as I miss him...

Answer 4

You did the noble thing. And that 22 year old may just be a fantasy in your mind...what COULD have been may have turned out wrong! But it's a nice thing to have imagined. There was a guy in college who thought I was great, but he was 2 years younger than me, so I dismissed him. You should see him now! WOW! But I now have the love of a lifetime, so it doesn't matter.

Answer 5

I do feel this way and its been difficult to deal with. Particularly as I know that my first love has strong feelings about me as well. But we are both married to others with children and he is a noble man (I am alot less noble).

I try to tell myself that things happen for a reason and that things work themselves out for the best. I hope I am right.

Answer 6

Yes, and I think about him often and "What could have been", but no sense crying over spilled milk, so I go on with my life. I can't change my past, but I can change my future.