After 3 years and marriage plans, I found out my ex was cheating on me for our entire relationship. I called her and she knew all about me but he had given her the impression that our relationship was nothing serious. To name just a few of the things I found out, he had given me a present she had given him, he practically lived with her only keeping up appearances in his apartment when I came over and been on holidays with her. He told her I was a lying, that he felt sorry for me, then sent me a text saying not to contact him anymore and that his life was with her. She took him back and I was absolutely destroyed. However, ever since the beginning of 2006, he has been texting and calling me saying how sorry he is, how much he misses and still loves me. I have texted back saying that I did not feel the same, some things that are broken can never be mended and that he didn’t know what love was to do such a thing. I have never spoken to him and he is still with the other woman. I have not healed after all this time and tears still fall thinking of the depths of his betrayal. Why is he really calling? Is it worth hearing him out? Or is he simply bored in his current relationship?
2006-12-09 22:59:08 · 7 answers · asked by Mesh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He wants more of what he had, two women, plain and simple. Change your number. It's a pain in the rear but worth every penny to not have to go through this again.
Good luck!
2006-12-09 23:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by Star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mesh, you are a very wise woman and if you want someone to validate your opinion you have it now. This guy is nothing more than a snake in the grass. You know what, he does not even deserve a reply from you. Just ignore him! He is probably getting bored and you seem like easy prey. You have good ideas and just keep thinking in the same clear path. Don't even bother with this creep. For this, the man of your dreams is very near.
2006-12-10 07:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by Conrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes a typical guy! He wants what he cant have! you denied him his cake and he wants it back! God he is such a loser! Why are you even wasting one tear over that idiot! You seem intelligent so text him back with those beautiful words f uck off! Thats it do not write anything else! It will make you feel great and liberated to move on and give that idiot the right message that he deserves at the same time!
2006-12-10 08:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by councillor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hear him out, but don't go back with him. Who knows, maybe it'll help you leave him for good. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-12-10 07:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by babbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sleep with him a few times, after he gets bored with having sex with you and hanging out he will leave a agin for a few more years
2006-12-10 07:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by sevenout7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hear him out then tell him its ova gone good bye neva gunna happen again
2006-12-10 07:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him
its better for u
2006-12-10 07:01:19 · answer #7 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋