My bestfriend...
he left me all of a sudden in our classroom...
(I was in a bad mood actually..I needed someone to be with...)
So I approached him angrily saying "You didn't told me you are leaving...I was alone back there"
he told me
"We can't be too close to each other...You shouldn't be mad when I left you earlier...We should give each other boundaries too......We should not be together all the time or be there for back-up...I am not ready to be attached to someone right now...I am not ready to give the attention as much as you do...Atleast, not for the moment...Don't be so into me...One day you'll be disappointed so I'm telling you this earlier...You now me, I easily tire of a person"
HELP!!! It hurts me so bad...T_T So bad I've been cryin all day...
He didn't even know how much I love him...T_T (I'm starting to fall for him...badly...)
I don't want our friendship to end....he told me once "I can't afford to lose you" WHy does it feel like he wants to lose me now? T_T
2006-12-09 23:17:45 · 17 answers · asked by acerbus18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I told him I'm sorry and asked him
"Are we still friends?"
He nodded with a smile and patted me gently in the back saying
"That's nothing"
Yet still...I feel guilty...
2006-12-09 23:52:07 · update #1
Yes you should be feeling bad
and what does all this "T_T" business mean?
2006-12-10 00:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously he is trying to let you down gently. he obviously knows that you like him more than just a friend and he's trying to let you down it the early stages before you get to hung up on him. I'll admit he could have been nicer about it. But for the time being leave him alone and give him some space.
Leave it for a few days and them ring him up and ask if he's okay and if the two of you could see each other. hopefully by them he would have cooled down and then tell him that you like him as a friend and that will never change but...you didn't appreciate the way that he spoke to you and ask him to clarify exactly what he meant does he want you to be more than friends in the future or what.
You need to know because if he doesn't then at least you know that things will have to be kept on a friendship bases. But if he wants to be more than friends at least you will know where you stand
2006-12-09 23:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those things occur naturally when two persons are falling in love. At least you are talking things out which is very important Take it cool and be patient. Let some time for things to normalize. He will feel guilty for what he did to you.and may be willing to excuse himself. Don't show that you are too overanxious nor too indifferent.
I am not a counselor on these things but this is what my experience tells me are the right things to do.
2006-12-09 23:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may hurt but he is really being nice and thinking of your feelings. He know that your starting to fall for him. By him telling you that he's not ready to be attached is letting you know that he's not interested In a relationship right now. So Give him some space before you lose him all together.
2006-12-09 23:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's young and immature, he wants to play the field by the sound of it but still know that you are there loving him. He sounds like he knows how you feel even if you haven't told him.
Do you really want to be with someone who said that he easily tires of people. What a loser. Give your love to someone more deserving.
By saying nice things occasionally he is making sure you still like him so he has that nice security. When he ends up with someone else he will say that he warned you.
Go find someone else yourself and make him realise what he has lost
2006-12-09 23:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by delphi13 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well hes found someone else and it looks like he is keen on her so give him the space he needs he may or may not come back to you
Get out there and find someone for your self this might make him realise what he has had but be careful when playing games as you may end up more hurt then you are now
2006-12-09 23:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are able to locate Smurfs at this particular time in history--I say knock yourself out! They were annoyingly cheerful little buggers and I would like to see this world rid of them once and for all. But, my major question is-where are you going when you leave? Can I come with?
2016-05-23 01:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes friends are closer than lovers or boy friends and can be told anything without the fear of losing them as they take it too personally.
2006-12-10 02:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by d1ckdeckard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont b upset.may b at that time he leave u but i m sure if anytime u fall in trouble he will help u.feel good when somebody miss u.feel better when somebody loves u but feel best when somebody never forget u.bye & take care ur self. SHAHED.
2006-12-09 23:43:04 · answer #9 · answered by shahed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a copy of "Women Are From Venus, Men Are From Mars". Make sure he reads it, and then comes back to you with a proper answer to your question.
2006-12-09 23:24:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u 2 are bestfriends he should always be by your side regardless, no matther what female he gets or what male u get
2006-12-09 23:25:54 · answer #11 · answered by Young boi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋