my boyfriend told me he loves me. and when i said it back he said he wasnt sure anymore, i felt so hurt, do i break up with him... or do i try to work it out. i've been with him for almost 3 months. i dont know if i love him, but i still like him ALOT!! what should i do?
2006-12-09 08:04:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it's lust instead of love because when you love someone and that person loves you, he/she should say things like "I not sure anymore." Don't think I'm trying to be mean when i say that. I know exactly where you are coming from. I have been in your shoes before.
I know that hurt, but understand that you'll have only been together for three months. I don't break up with him let him know how you feel and tell him how that made you feel when he said that. Try to work it because you never know. Ask him how does he really feel ? Also, the both you need to decide if y'all just really like each other a lot or could it be more.
2006-12-09 08:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by SouthernGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds emotionally unstable and is going through a lot right now, however this is clearly not healthy for you. You need to stand up for yourself. Tell him it is unacceptable to be wishy washy about his love. You will be there for him, but you will NOT be mistreated and unloved. Even if he is going through a lot, that doesn't mean he is allowed to pull you along on an emotional roller coaster. Right now is when he should be grateful for your love, not pushing you away. I would be careful about entering into a relationship with someone that tells you one day he loves you and the next day he doesn't. Someone that does this is clearly not thinking about you and your feelings. You may want to back off and give him space to deal with his situation, while not being dragged through so much pain.
2016-05-22 23:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you know what he said oh im not sure that i love you when you had said i lov you back. So that is just a bad thing.If you say u love him and he says oh im not sure that realy like you u say this: Hey B!@#$ONE THING AT FIRST YOU HAD TOLD ME THAT YOU LOVE ME AND WHEN I SAID THAT BACK TO YOU U SAUID OH IM NOT SURE THAT I REALLY LIKE YOU WLL THATS JUST BULLS!@# sO ONE THIN DONT GO WITH HIM CAUSE I DONT WANT TO SEE YOU GET HURT PEACE OUT BYE
2006-12-09 08:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say don't force him to answer you with what you want to hear, thats kinda shi**y.. just let it go and if it seems to come back to him that he does, then goody for you.. let him find the love or no love on his own.. i'm sure your young and you'll have plenty of time for guys.. good luck and best wishes!
2006-12-09 08:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by ~broken~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both sound really immature. Maybe focus on other things like friends and just having fun.
2006-12-09 08:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no no,a rumor has been going around FOREVER that if the girl tells the guy she loves him,she doesnt mean it,which makes absolutely no sense because if you DIDNT say it he would still think you didnt! so yeah he does love you....dont worry.
2006-12-09 08:07:12 · answer #6 · answered by kyle_hayden987123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we want love from the person we love, and it hurts when they don't respond to us, we automatically feel there is something wrong. no don't break up, just talk to him about it.
2006-12-09 08:08:37 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry girl but your dude sounds like he has got alot of issues i would dump him before he dumps you
2006-12-09 08:07:05 · answer #8 · answered by bjames_0050 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant answer without getting a violation sorry
2006-12-09 08:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
relax wat i think is u should still hang out u [know] now
2006-12-09 08:07:17 · answer #10 · answered by Gloria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋