Family & Relationships - 9 December 2006

after they split up the first time her new "boyfriend" threatened to kill me for te fun of it called me alot of horrible names and even stocked me for a while and now they are back together and he is on his why to my house with her, what do i do. i told him what happened when they got back together and she told him that i am i liar and that i just dont want him to be happy

2006-12-09 07:20:49 · 11 answers · asked by pandabear8806 2 in Family

2006-12-09 07:20:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok i dont know if anyone read my last question about the phone situation, but i have been with my boyfriend for sometime now, and im always picking at him for doing things, although the funny thing is i know its very silly, ie the few female numbers he had in his phone i went in a mood, and not to mention im always being nasty and saying its over, the reason im so nasty is sometimes i feel i dont gain anyhthing from my relationship and the problem is i keep bringing things up and his getting sick of me asking the same questions, i think half the time its all in my head, i can see this guy thinks alot of me as he is very kind!!! and he often gets very upset when i say i have had enuff, i feel like i cant trust because of past relationship and there is always doubt his up to something ie the silly numbers in his phone, i feel i have lost my cool/control and im constantly thinking negative thoughts,why cant i just forget + have a laugh with him,anyone been in this situation? any tips?

2006-12-09 07:20:35 · 10 answers · asked by ice_castles 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't want a long term relationship, for 6 months if i date her will get into trouble in fututre

2006-12-09 07:20:06 · 10 answers · asked by smartcamal1 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I want to become more adventurous in bed, please help!

2006-12-09 07:19:53 · 18 answers · asked by Kayz 1 in Singles & Dating

why do you become more ...shall we say more"sexually active "in the warmer wheather? its puzzled me a bit but i think i may know ,come on girls what do you think it is.

2006-12-09 07:19:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 07:19:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the short version: My 16 year old b/f and I dated for 3 months and we were crazy about each other. We talked for hours every day. Then his Dad got cancer and he stopped calling. I tried different things from giving him lots of space, to asking about the relationship (I had to ask....I couldn't go on like we were forever). He decided he wanted a "break" in the relationship because of all the stress he was under. I gave him lots of space and didn't talk to him at all for two weeks. Then he broke up with me. I think we would have lasted a long time if it had not been for his Dad's cancer. I have heard now that he likes another girl (a week after he broke up with me) Do you think I am a reminder of his dad's cancer and that is why he broke up with me? Is there any hope that he will ever want to get back with me?

2006-12-09 07:18:53 · 10 answers · asked by Hope 3 in Singles & Dating

My new boyfriend always says how he's going to mack out on me and it just seems diffrent.

2006-12-09 07:16:58 · 6 answers · asked by lil_poet_10 1 in Singles & Dating

My (Ex) boyfriend gave me an engagement ring in Nov. of 2005, I lost it in April 06. I have not been able to locate it. I think it is in my house somewhere. I have looked high and low but to no avail. I am 60 yrs. of age and he is 65. We were totally in love and planning on getting married as soon as we found the right house. However, all has changed, he has treated me very shabily. Says he has a problem with my anger. My anger appears due to the fact that he totally changed how he treated me. I'm sure he has resentments toward me and treats me with indignation. We are not seeing one another at the present. We keep breaking up and after a week or l0 days get back together. I don't think it will happen this time. What, if anything, can I do to get him to forgive me and let go of the resentments? He paid about $3,500.00 for it and made payments on it for a yr., so he had to continue paying on it for 7 months even after I lost it!

2006-12-09 07:16:33 · 23 answers · asked by slippery slope 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What I meant was: what am I? A prep? A Punker? A Preppy Punker?!?! I was unsure and most of friends are unsure.
I like partying and going to raves, I sometimes drink, but dont smoke. I like all kinds of music, but mostly Rock and Techno. I'm asian, but they say I look more filipino or Hawaiian. I love playing video games (a proud owner of both xboxs!!), I'm a computer Genius, I love anime (Naruto being my favorite), and I love to cook.
I have very strong beliefs in paranormal ideals, such as werewolves, and I plan to be either a webmaster or a Pharmasist one day. I always wear something that has black or gray in it, but I also wear bright happy colors. I'm the kind of person who jokes about everything, only to hide true feelings. I can be loud and unbearable at times, and others I am too shy to say a thing. What am I?
And the reason why I asked this question here is because if I was labeled, maybe it'll make it easier to find a new boyfreind. Someone I'll have a lot in common with.

2006-12-09 07:15:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 07:15:36 · 2 answers · asked by jare bare 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 07:15:24 · 16 answers · asked by Andrew R 2 in Singles & Dating

I Want Your Opnion Personally I Think Its Bad But That Is Just Me Please Awnser With Complete Honesty

2006-12-09 07:14:45 · 19 answers · asked by Patrick S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-09 07:14:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We've been friends for about 10 years, but I'm starting to like him as more than a friend. We're in different groups of friends, so I can't hang out with him as often as I'd like. How can I get him to realise that I like him?

2006-12-09 07:14:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should I continue this realtionship. I am really stuck on what I should do. He has made it very clear that he wants me in his life on a full time basis. He hates when we are apart and would provide all the security and love I could ever need.

2006-12-09 07:14:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Seriously, any intelligent guy only needs to know that you are enjoying having sex. Faking orgasm doesn't do anyone any good. If your partner is having trouble bringing you an orgasm, then just learn together what makes it happen and practice together. What could be more fun! Don't fake it unless you enjoy faking it, but train your lover so that you don't need to fake it.

What do you think?

2006-12-09 07:13:00 · 16 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He is really into his Xbox 360 and love shooting games like Halo2 and Gears of War. He also is a Carpenter. But already has alot of tools so that leaves me all out. For his Birthday I got him a 37 in LCD Tv. I dug a whole with that one. I can't top that. Not now anyway....? Please help!!

2006-12-09 07:12:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy and I want to ask him out, any suggestions on how to ask him out?(13)

2006-12-09 07:12:31 · 3 answers · asked by N/A 3 in Singles & Dating

We are engaged and due to marry in Feb 07. Everytime there's misunderstanding she always tells me it's over and then I'll take the blame and try to resolve it. What could be the problem?

2006-12-09 07:11:29 · 9 answers · asked by ddman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-09 07:10:30 · 10 answers · asked by little_roz96 1 in Family

2006-12-09 07:09:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my crush agreed on getting each other a gift for christmas. he knows i like him but i decided that since we arent going out so im not going to freak him out by getting something romantic, but i did want to add a personal/maningful touch to the gift. so i was thinking about getting him a basketball tshirt, because he loves basketball, and then a mini basketball and i wanted to write something on it almost like you would on a card. how does that sound?

2006-12-09 07:09:08 · 6 answers · asked by kelly j 1 in Singles & Dating

have a lot feeling for people but never give it to me back...

2006-12-09 07:06:26 · 4 answers · asked by Dejeancour 1 in Friends

It is not illegal and it is NOT rape.
Re-run of previous question - hopefully today I will be getting some PRACTICAL INFO. Pls do not leave your opinions - you don't know my full situation.

In brief I need to get pregnant - I will be having my womb removed in 2 years - so I need to get pregnant NEXT YEAR. I find it hard to have a relationship because I have a severly disabled child.
I want to come onto a work colleague and take him home. How can I guarantee success?

I am not a confident person and I will feel too embarrassed to come on to him without thinking it through to the every last detail. Do you have a chat up line that has got you lots of success? Never chatted up a guy b4.
Don't leave negative comments - practical ones pls

Just your chat up lines etc please. Thank you

2006-12-09 07:06:22 · 30 answers · asked by Gillian 1 in Singles & Dating

The sun racing towards earth, or a materor or something And it will cause the earth it break apart or effect the gravitnal pull or something, So They end up building thousands of rockets at the south pole, They push the earth off its axis, It was an old movie, I think it was Black and White, Please Help

2006-12-09 07:05:59 · 4 answers · asked by www.prisonplanet.com 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm trying to get over this guy__
who played with my heart (mixed signals and games)

i decided to let go today after an episode of depression

last night i sent a text pretending i was having some good time without him

he's just come online now
and had to emphasize he's going out with this girl to a gig
she's called stacey and is his friend from 6th form
he went out with her and some other friends about 4 times in the last week

and i don't know

did he have to say he is going out with her again tonight
just to make me jealous?
coz now i have a pain in my chest
not knowing what to say except "oh cool"
and i said "oh she's that sexy blonde right?"
and he said "yeah the blonde that's sexy"

he doesn't want a girlfriend at the moment.
he doesn't seem guilty of what he did to me
we are chatting like friends right now
i want to say that i miss him

but i feel upset!

2006-12-09 07:05:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad is racist and always has been . I met my Jamaican partner 13 yrs ago and have been together ever since . We have two daughter 11 and 9. Whom are a mix of Jamaican and White British .
My father constantly makes racist jokes about others and constantly goes on about how bad people of all colours other than white are .
I HATE it and its causing me nothing but stress and pain . I dont want to cut my dad out of my life as I have a very small family and lost my mum at 16 . But as you can see its wrong for my kids to be around although he never directs comments to them .
Recently their father stated he doesnt want the kids to visit him anymore and suggested I do the same but I dont think I can .
I always tell him about my feelings but he doesnt care .
Please help .

2006-12-09 07:05:01 · 14 answers · asked by C 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm always seeing people together as boyfriends and girlfriends. My friends, other people in my school, everyone. I feel like the only one who doesn't have a boyfriend/girlfriend.
I have been emo for a long time and i've searched every emo place there is in South Wales like Swansea, Cardiff, Bridgend and Maesteg (my hometown) but everyone has a girlfriend or they are too old for me. I did see this one boy i thought was for me but i couldn't get myself to say "hi".
I just want someone who'll love me.

2006-12-09 07:04:43 · 19 answers · asked by Caitlin W 2 in Singles & Dating