Family & Relationships - 9 December 2006

Hello :-)

I am very mich in love with an IT guy.....please tell me ..HOW to communicate with him?
He is very sensitive, very closed and very reserved.

PLease HELP !!!!

2006-12-09 06:33:04 · 6 answers · asked by arianadiane 1 in Singles & Dating

Whenever, my husband and I have a disagreement, he usually takes advantage of the fact that I am a crier. He will increasingly raise his voice and say the meanest things that come to mind until he makes me cry. It's almost like a power thing with him. When I try to talk about something that has upset or hurt me and he disagrees with me, he tries his best to hurt me emotionally. He'll call me a 'baby.' or tell me that he doesn't care about what I have to say. I know that there is something terribly wrong with this. Usually, I am the one to want to talk through things and resolve our issues, but then he;ll go and become so mean and disrespectful that it makes me back off just for peace, even if temporary. My frustration has really built up over the course of our marriage and while I have been pretty good at solving problems in other areas of my life, I have absolutely no idea how to get through this.

2006-12-09 06:32:32 · 9 answers · asked by AnicDat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Black women have always and will always be highly desirable compared to other women. I have watched women in general and it seems like there is a very quietly kept jealously of Black women by other types of women. Black women are more vocal with their issues, so it seems like their always the ones complaining. White women and some Hispanic women are very jealous of Black women but they try to hide it. That Barbara Walters sticking her hands into Brady's hair and asking if it's real was another one of her attempts to dis Black women in public. What's her issue ?

The media in this country has an agenda to promote a certain type of look. That garbage has never worked with me because actions speak louder then words. Never forget when Black women landed in this country, they didn't have weaves ,perms or light skin but White men were taking them to bed left and right.White women were left alone at night and most of these White men had more children with the Black women. The white women at

2006-12-09 06:32:08 · 13 answers · asked by Kelly T 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 06:31:43 · 16 answers · asked by karthick m 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok my 13 year old sister is having dreams about kissing a guy, and being his girlfriend! Then in the ending he always breaks up with her, and she wakes up crying! I feel devastated when that happens! What do you think this dream means? She also really wants to grow up (collage age) fast so she can kiss a guy she really is in love with. Please help me, so I can tell her what these dreams mean and comfort her.

P.S. She really thinks shes going to meat this guy in the future, is that possible?

2006-12-09 06:31:42 · 14 answers · asked by Baseball Lover 2 in Singles & Dating

Recently, I have told this guy (who has told me he likes me and all) that I have no interest in him romantically. I was pretty subtle about it when letting him know I don't want a boyfriend right now, and that we should be friends first.

It seems he couldn't take it like an adult. This guy is 35-year-old, and apparently, after I told him, he stops talking to me. We work together and that his brother is my boss. What should I do with this? Should I put up with his immaturity?

2006-12-09 06:31:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-09 06:31:03 · 21 answers · asked by . . . nvlll . . . 1 in Friends

I've recently told my close female friend how I felt about her-she gave me a vague answer(50/50). We did not leave the conversation on good terms (she indirectly(refering to "other ppl") called me selfish and 2 faced)

For xmas I thought I'd send her a xmas card and a small teddy-just saying merry xmas and happy new year.

Would this be ok??? OR Would she throw the card\gift in the bin???

2006-12-09 06:30:39 · 8 answers · asked by Machine 3 in Friends

I mean really hungry and my mom wanted me to go say a prayer with the family i mean i got respect for prayers but you know i was really hungry so i took some pretzels with me so i won't be so hungry and my dad started gettin up in my face and say "CHRISTOPHER DONT BE EATIN IN HERE!!!" all i wanted to do was have a little snack i was starving when he said that i felt like the hulk i wanted to break everything in sight i mean the tv the chair i wanted to throw the chair out the window i wanted to punch out the china cabinet he really didn't have to get an attitude like that all he had to say was wait till we're done with the prayer and i mean i was starving. Why are people like that?

2006-12-09 06:30:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-09 06:29:15 · 21 answers · asked by safarlsun33 4 in Singles & Dating

My sister came out of the closet five months ago and my father basically disowned her. she is 17 and she couldnt bare living there. my father is a christian! what to do? she moved out and that was that.

2006-12-09 06:29:07 · 14 answers · asked by jrs wife! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-09 06:28:36 · 8 answers · asked by demdelaney 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hi, im relly depressed cause of life, u know anythin that can cheer me up

2006-12-09 06:28:32 · 4 answers · asked by nathan 3 in Friends

if u have only this choices & no ather choices what u do?

2006-12-09 06:28:03 · 11 answers · asked by nan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Come on now people, its 130pm and we are all sitting here reading questions a two yr old could answer. Dont we really need a life?

2006-12-09 06:27:15 · 26 answers · asked by mstr_gekko 3 in Friends

i want to chatted with this friend on here and yahoo is not finding the address i hope that i can talk to him soon on here

2006-12-09 06:26:38 · 2 answers · asked by STEPHANIE W 1 in Friends

well my ex b/f broke up with me by saying "i dont feel like goign out right now but he was drunk. and he apoligized a few days later for doing that.and i want him back but im not sue what to do about.his friend that im friends with said that he would talk to him for me.so should i just wait to see what he tells his friend??like im not sure whta do do??can u help plz.only serious answers plz!thnx

2006-12-09 06:25:36 · 15 answers · asked by roxygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

The holidays are sad for me since most of my family & a lot of my friends are dead. Do you think it's healthy or depressing to look through photo albums and remember other holidays? I am decorating & making cookies this year, but my heart really isn't in it. Sometimes it makes me smile, sometimes cry to look at them. That's why I'm asking.

2006-12-09 06:25:16 · 9 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7 in Family

2006-12-09 06:24:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 06:24:34 · 10 answers · asked by leo 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 06:23:30 · 37 answers · asked by >>>♥<<< 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean real life couples, not movie stars, models, or anyone in the media? No infidelity issues, no abuse, just a parting of the ways for one reason or another. Life stuff, Stresses, dissappointments, etc. Guess you know iam talking about my own experience. Help

2006-12-09 06:23:17 · 6 answers · asked by sweetpea 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-09 06:22:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bro is one of those bros that dont show no love and i try to give him hugs and tell him i love him but i get no loving response.....

2006-12-09 06:21:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This is just a questions where i want to know other people opinions. It not a sign that i trying to start something.

2006-12-09 06:20:48 · 11 answers · asked by grejo2005 3 in Friends

house my husband moved into with another woman and her 3 kids? He left us few months back and only to realize he was cheating on me and lied about why he moved out. My kids are 12 & 17 and they are uncomfortable talking on the phone to him and when he comes here to see them or pick them up for dinner or what not, it is unbearable for me. I'm still very hurt and don't understand how anyone could do this and not wanting to try just once for a chance to save marriage. My kids don't say much but you can tell it bothers them yo know their dad is with a different family and not with them. We are currently still married and it kills me to know that he is paying for living expenses at that house with still our joint money, just because it is his paycheck it is still community property. I still give him the majority of the bills at home and he gets upset. I told him my kids will never gop to that house as long as he is living there with the woman he cheated with and tore apart our family.

2006-12-09 06:20:44 · 12 answers · asked by Octavia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my girl is pressurising me to marry her, yet my pockets are still not heavy enough. She knows this and I know it too. Sadly, we love each other madly. Should we marry and then create avenues together?

2006-12-09 06:20:30 · 6 answers · asked by kaju 1 in Marriage & Divorce

it's like I am in a bar last night alking to some hot Asian chick, and she is laughing and what I'm saying and all. Although not everything but it wasn't that off-putting. Not like her friend could have heard anyway . . . and sure she comes and gets her and brings her away . . . why is that?

2006-12-09 06:19:47 · 9 answers · asked by CheckTheCoolWax 2 in Singles & Dating

type yes or no, ur name, ur age, ur e-mail and i will find a person 4 u and put what u would like 2 have in a person.

2006-12-09 06:19:41 · 5 answers · asked by talk2me4adviceaboutanything 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 06:19:32 · 14 answers · asked by abby b 1 in Singles & Dating