2006-12-09 06:23:30 · 37 answers · asked by >>>♥<<< 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it was a boyfriend then yes I would dump him. Who he cheated on you with and why are not important, nor should have any effect on your decision to stay or leave. Personally, I would only think about forgiving a man for cheating and try to work it out if we were married.
2006-12-09 06:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No do not provide him yet another probability. If he did it once he's sure to do it back, and he may have cheated on you interior the previous and also you only do not study it yet. it really is nice that he got here sparkling and did not lie about it once you requested yet you want to be sure why he cheated interior the first position. Like were you 2 having worry interior the bedroom? Or were you no longer seeing one yet another sufficient? often times the sensation of forget will push someone to cheat and if so you need to provide him yet another probability in case you quite had to. yet when he does no longer have a valid reason behind it then i'd walk away.
2016-11-25 01:08:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends he would have to tell me from the start why he cheated in the first place and if it had anything to do with me and if so what are we going to do about it to make sure that it does'nt happen again and he would have to make a true beliver out of me. and just let him know that i forgive this time and there better not be a next or his *** is grass that will get cut.
2006-12-09 06:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE WAY I LEARNED WHICH WAS THE HARD WAY, UMMM NO, WHY BECAUSE IF THEY DO IT ONCE THEY WILL DO IT AGAIN WHEN THE TIME IS GOOD. ALTHOUGH HONESTY IS GOOD. I RESPECT THAT BUT THE GUY WILL ONLY SAY WHAT HE WANTS YOU TO KNOW, NOT THE WHOLE STORY. THEN THAT TURNS INTO A TRUST ISSUE AND THE GIRL CANT REALLY TRUST HIM, SO EITHER WAY IF YOU TRY TO WORK IT OUT ITS NOT GOIN TO, CUZ THEN YOU WILL ALSO WONDER IF SHE/HE WILL GO BACK ON YOU AND DO THE SAME OR SHE WILL KEEP THAT IN THE BACK OF HER HEAD AND ALWAYS THROW IT IN YOUR FACE WHEN YALL ARGUE. SO ITS NOT WORTH IT. JUST LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES AND DONT DO THAT WITH THE NEXT PERSON. ALSO IF YOU FORGIVE THAT PERSON THEN YOU ARE JUST LETTING THEM KNOW THAT ITS OK TO MAKE MISTAKES CUZ YOU WILL ALWAYS LEAVE YOUR DOOR OPEN FOR THEM AND FORGIVE. JUST THE WAY THEY WANT YOU TO BE. GOODLUCK
2006-12-09 06:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by LiL MaMa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This saying just popped into my head... "Once a cheater, always a cheater", so in other words, if they have cheated then you'll always be wondering if they are going to do it again. That feeling is torture!
I would not ask even for my worst enemies to have to go through that. I'm sorry that you had to go through something like that, it is the worst feeling in the world!
So all in all, I would say no, I would NOT forgive them.
2006-12-09 06:34:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, on what his reasoning is for cheating, i mean there is no excuse for him to do it, and in my head if he cheats that means he don't love you anymore,but I know my self, i have been in this relationship for six and half years and if he cheated on me, i think I would ahve to take him back, I have so much invested in this relationship,
how long have you been with him? and if you tink that you can forgive hima dn move on then go for it, if not then don't do it, they also say once a cheater always a cheater,
if he's worth holding on to, GO FOR IT, if not FORGET him..
GOOD LUCK
2006-12-09 06:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a boy will cheat on a girl, he cant truely like her. love does not seek its own intrests, meaning, that love does not follow the wants of a person, it is its own creature. this boy didnt love u. and clearly, its not worth putting up with that kind of crap. dump him, dont take him back. u can forgive him, actually, i hope u would forgive him, but dont take him back. he is not worth ur pain or ur time.
2006-12-09 06:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably be pretty angry at first....but as time goes on I might forgive. The bigger problem would be that it would be something I would always hold against him throughout the relationship. Might be a better choice to move on.
2006-12-09 06:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww, he confessed? That's so sweet. Dump his sorry butt. He cheated, he confessed. He can sleep easy at night now (God knows with who) but you won't be able to. If he cheated once, why wouldn't he do it again??
2006-12-09 06:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by slanderer of names 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will forgive him but I won't forget what he did. If he has cheated once he will probably cheat again!
2006-12-09 06:27:23 · answer #10 · answered by jewels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋