Ok my 13 year old sister is having dreams about kissing a guy, and being his girlfriend! Then in the ending he always breaks up with her, and she wakes up crying! I feel devastated when that happens! What do you think this dream means? She also really wants to grow up (collage age) fast so she can kiss a guy she really is in love with. Please help me, so I can tell her what these dreams mean and comfort her.
P.S. She really thinks shes going to meat this guy in the future, is that possible?
2006-12-09 06:31:42 · 14 answers · asked by Baseball Lover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dreams usually contain our hopes and fears and this looks like it has both. She is physically attracted to boys, at her age hormones are driving her in that direction. She also intuitively knows that young love is full of break ups and hurt feelings. Encourage her to take her time with her first boyfriends and not be in such a rush. She fears being hurt so she should take her time in choosing the right boy.
2006-12-09 06:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She keeps having those dreams because she wants it 2 happen but I think she's afraid if it does happen he will break up with her Tell her it's only a dream she shouldin't cry about it because she doesn't even know who the guy is! & in the future guys will break her heart so she has 2 be strong or she won't survive the dating game
2006-12-09 06:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by lost in translation. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal. And sure she will meet a guy some day and kiss him....he might even look a bit like the dream guy.
2006-12-09 06:35:25 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreams usually should be interpreted. part of her wants the grown-up experience but another part doesn't want it. hence the separation dream sequence. this is a struggle only she can work through. and I'm sure someday she'll meet a guy like that, just probably not that particular guy, although that would be really freaky.
2006-12-09 06:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dream's of course do have meaning, possibly you could pass to a clergyman or a guy or woman of regardless of faith you're area of. once you're asking my opinion, i think of that God has given you this dream with the sight of her because of the fact the religion you would be following is incorrect and could lead you to hell so God is giving you a demonstration to keep your self, if she exceeded below the age of puberty than God may well be exhibiting you that this woman is going to be upset which you kicked the bucket following the incorrect so possibly it may well be a demonstration to discover the reality? Ever evaluate that?
2016-10-18 00:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that she Can't grow up that fast. you need to telll her that it will happen on it own.
P.S. it is very possible that it will happen
your dreams can tell the future, the past and teh Present
2006-12-09 06:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be possible that she is dreaming of the future. Anything is possible.
But it sounds like she is afraid to like someone because she is afraid of rejection and she is trying to work through it in her dreams.
2006-12-09 06:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This just means she wants a realtionship but not to worry about them breaking up with her. Sounds like her hearts ready but her conscience isnt! Good luck!
2006-12-09 06:36:21 · answer #8 · answered by ♥BrunetteSweetie♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that the dream means she is insecure about herself and her looks, She probably has a low oppinon of herself , low self esteem..Give her plenty of encouragement,
2006-12-09 06:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's very possible. i had dreams like that once, and when i started dating the girl i remembered them all...and certain days were EXACTLY like my dreams and i'd had them years earlier. i eneded up dumper HER though, so just tell ur sis that the future is not etched in stone, it's maleable like clay, so she can still form her own.
2006-12-09 06:36:15 · answer #10 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋