2006-12-09 06:19:32 · 14 answers · asked by abby b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wanted to ask a similar question. So I went about it by saying somethink like...: (VERY neutral) :
"Honestly, lately I haven't been feeling right. Particularly about you. I'm not trying to say anything... but I don't know, I'm not feeling right. Anything up?"
Obviously, if he has something to hide, he will deny it. But if he's lying, you should be able to detect it in his eyes/ body language. Don't accuse him of anything though. Just continue to say:
"Mmm okay. Nevermind. I'm feeling something though... I wonder what it is........."
And leave it at that. I did this, and less than two minutes later, I found out about 'the new co-worker'.
Trust me, this kind of thing psyches them out. Even if he doesn't confess right then, he'll be thinking about it for a very long time, and if he is cheating, he'll wonder how you know/found out.
Secondly, always trust your intuition. Good luck...
2006-12-09 10:01:15 · answer #1 · answered by ebonii_cuteee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you ask the question, its most likely going to start a fight, because you prob arent going to believe what he says because you already have the answer in your mind.
I would say, dont directly ask. Just become more involved and 'interested' in what he does everyday. Keep asking him questions about what he did. If he is cheating on you, then hes lying to you. And eventually, he'll slip up and youll know for sure.
2006-12-09 14:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you asked anyway (1) if you dont have trust then you dont have any thing because trust is the main ingredient in love (2) if you did asked you will like cheap and if he was cheating its time to leave youre are not a door mat no one has the right to wipe thier feet on you good luck the joker
2006-12-09 14:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why do you think he was cheating? if he went out one night with a bunch of friends and that's where you got the idea then you're probably right. you should sit him down and calmly discuss the situation. if he says he wasnt cheating and his explanation sounds convincing then you should believe him and drop from your mind the thought of him ever cheating.
2006-12-09 14:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very delicate question & you are walking on the fine line here. you gotta make sure first that there is something fishy going on here. Then..just ask. Whether you believe him or not, it depends on the mounting evidence and ur trust to him.
Remember, it couold cause you both to quarrel though
2006-12-09 14:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab him by the Kuhunah's and say; MF have you been cheating on me.
2006-12-09 15:20:09 · answer #6 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask! Remember, if he starts out with "I can't believe you're even asking me... Don't you know how much I love you!" thats not an actual answer to your question!
2006-12-09 14:31:45 · answer #7 · answered by Easygreasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you cheating on me,f you are I'm gonna cut yo ***!
2006-12-09 14:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by Dai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Threaten to beat him with a tequilla bottle!!! It worked for me he told me the truth!!! LOL
2006-12-09 14:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by ru2tipsy2c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know it depends on what is going on. Is he gone all the time and you are wondering what the hell he is doing? I really don't know. I'm sorry.
2006-12-09 14:23:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋