Family & Relationships - 9 December 2006

So there's this guy I like ALOT. He sits in front of me. We are really good friends and get along pretty well. Well one day he turned around and we both started staring at each other in the eyes, not saying a word and he reached out and poked me on the shoulder. I mean he reached over the desk to poke me with one finger. He immediatly apologized. What does this mean was it on accident or on purpose?

2006-12-09 06:19:20 · 22 answers · asked by kay m 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy, and i wrote him a note telling him that i wanted to be honest, and told him i liked him. but i cant tell ifhe thinks im weird, or if he likes me too. he talks to me the same, and he hangs around me a little more, but idk if its just me. should i go for it?

2006-12-09 06:16:50 · 3 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, he made me say it n then he stepped back. first he asked me whether i was sure that i really loved him. i said yes. n then he told me he didnt love me. why did he make me say it then?
our conversation went like this:
he was like u want to say something to me. i was like no n he was like yes, go ahead, please dont stop today. tomorrow time might not be the same...i was like no. yet i said it n then he was like r you sure. i was like yes. then he was like wat makes you love me. i said some good stuff n then he was like well i cant be so broad about love. i am not in love with you.

2006-12-09 06:16:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 06:16:15 · 13 answers · asked by caz 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-09 06:16:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its me again. Yeah the one who picked a loser for her sons father.
So he is in jail for embezzlement. Missed out on the whole pregnancy even the birth of his son. Before I got pregnant I had everything. A new car, good job, and I was in school. Now i've been on a leave from work because my son is breast fed and he is very clingy. I had to turn my lease in early because i wasnt working so i dont have a car now. My mother had to move in with me to help me pay the rent. Of course I had to quit school and bills are piling high. i feel like such a failure in life. I know you have to make sacrifices for your kids and god is blessing me, but i cant stop feeling inadequate as a person. can someone help! Serious people only. I woulndnt make fun of your situation. If you are going to be rude dont answer because i wiil report you!

2006-12-09 06:16:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would a superhero save me? And who would it be?

2006-12-09 06:15:20 · 6 answers · asked by Octupussy 1 in Singles & Dating

the problem is that she had coming more proporsals still now.
but she loves me very much......
she told me that she had told her father that she don't need marriage now , but her father is not supporting with her......
PLSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS HELP ME.............................

2006-12-09 06:13:52 · 16 answers · asked by chiduhere 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My Grandma works cleaning on a college school. When they graduate my grandma picks up the things she finds like pencils, sticky notes, notebooks, etc, and those things are not even used. Their brand new. My grandma gives these things to my uncle and he doesent's even use them. He only buys things from the store. Why does he buy from the store instead grabing it for free, and their brand new.

2006-12-09 06:13:49 · 15 answers · asked by Xxkekkei GenkaixX 4 in Family

2006-12-09 06:13:22 · 23 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

you never know you might just get your wish

2006-12-09 06:13:09 · 12 answers · asked by lovj 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay we went to this dance and my bf didnt dance with me or anything, and when i left he txted me "im sry i didnt dance with you or kiss you or act like your bf. im really sorry, ill do better" then i say "ur not supposed to do anything you dont want" him "yes i am what you want is more important" "no its not, it matters to me, what do you want?" "you. i just want to be around you and hold you" "why?" "because i love you"



THEN WHY DIDNT WE DANCE OR ANYTHING I DONT GET IT. DID I DO SOMETHING WRONG?!!

2006-12-09 06:12:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 06:12:36 · 28 answers · asked by Rosetta A 1 in Singles & Dating

We always hear about what guys should do for their gf's, but what should we as girls do for our guys in a relationship?

2006-12-09 06:12:00 · 13 answers · asked by Natalie s 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy i really like at school and he keeps going out with this one really ugly girl who is kinda mean sometimes. he knows that i like him and he liked me for a little bit but that was before i liked him. he keeps going out with that same girl like every other girl and they usually only last a week or two but they have been going out for a really long time now. what should i do?

2006-12-09 06:11:51 · 2 answers · asked by cool person 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend won't spend the night with me what do i do

2006-12-09 06:10:07 · 12 answers · asked by KEIOLA R 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 06:09:44 · 13 answers · asked by michael f 2 in Family

My gf and I were trying to come up with ways to save money for our wedding. She suggested I stopped drinking beer. We were at the mall and she wanted to get makeup. It wasnt cheap, so I sugguested she stop wearing makeup. She said, "Dont you want me to look pretty for you?".... I said, "That is what the beer was for." She the store, and I havent heard from her since. Do you think she is ever coming back?

2006-12-09 06:08:52 · 22 answers · asked by mstr_gekko 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

the biggest responsibility in my life is to care fore my mother, who is a widow. the second is to try to be a good bf for my gf who has depression, because of these i feel sort of depressed- like i can't make my life the way i want to be. i love my mom and my gf but they are lonely, sorta dark people. so recently i met this girl, who is beautiful and intelluctual and very innocent. i think i fell into love not with her, but the dream of being with someone like her. she kinda liked me back but has a bf. is it normal to like someone so quickly? did i feel this way only as a means of escape?

2006-12-09 06:08:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Things seemed to be going well. Then she suddenly stopped returning texts and phone calls 3 weeks ago. Still haven't heard from her. One of her friends saw me out at a bar and I was waiting for a buddy to have a couple of beers. Did she think I was out looking for other women? Or does it mean that she just isn't interested for some other reason? Women, have you stopped talking to a guy and not told him why before? What's going on here?

2006-12-09 06:08:18 · 21 answers · asked by mu 4 in Singles & Dating

Long hair as in the length of say, Sara Paxton? Like in the movie Aquamarine, she had her hair really long.

2006-12-09 06:07:16 · 28 answers · asked by Rawr! 1 in Singles & Dating

When a woman says no, does she really mean yes?

2006-12-09 06:07:10 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My what I thought best friend knew my husband was talking to her friend and didnt tell me until months later

2006-12-09 06:06:09 · 22 answers · asked by nextelfan25 4 in Friends

I used to,but now i don't.That fact is that a secret can only be called a secret when u keep it to yourself.Do u agree?

2006-12-09 06:05:21 · 19 answers · asked by n 5 in Singles & Dating

someone who always finds a problem with them selves someone who is afraid to even talk to a guy because she is afraid he might turn her down r use her.

2006-12-09 06:04:40 · 13 answers · asked by shelo 1 in Singles & Dating

And why do you call each other "man"? it's like you guys have to affirm your friend is male when talking to him.

2006-12-09 06:03:59 · 17 answers · asked by Natalie s 1 in Singles & Dating

I have only one my loving girlfriend and she loves me a lot. she is now 16 and I am 18. we are together since Aug 10th,2005. but I didn't yet kiss her so let me how should I do it?

2006-12-09 06:03:23 · 9 answers · asked by Pushpendra C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I loved her so much and I've been with her and taking care of he until last week when she got pnamoia. I have kid and I could be with when she died. I can't seem to cry but so far I eaten 3 breakfasts and now I'm about to go to a lunch with my family. I guess what I'm trying to ask is how do I stop eating and how do start to let it go and maybe cry a little. She was 97 and had 13 children, 30 grand children, 86 great grand children, 11 great great grand children, 1 great great great grand child on the way in may.

2006-12-09 06:02:53 · 11 answers · asked by emily b 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm looking for serious answers here. Nothing along the lines of "duh" or "of course".

I'm just wondering, because I haven't been able to find a woman who thinks that it's important for a man to live his life with integrity. Most women that I know think that it's great when a man is unfaithful, lazy, bullying, and dishonest in general. They view him as being a "bad boy" who has "edge" and is a "challenge".

On the other hand, a man who is confident, mentally and physically healthy, a community leader, intelligent, romantic, honest, and would be a devoted husband and father, is seen as "boring" and "too nice".

Why is this? Do these women have low self-esteem and think that they don't deserve better . . . or, do men of integrity have to start being losers in order for women to appreciate them?

I look forward to your intelligent and well-thought-out answers

2006-12-09 06:02:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When my boyfriend and I get married, we've agreed that it won't be in a church. His parents are very religious (picture of Christ over the bed, Christian gospel is always playing on the radio, etc.).

How should we go about telling them? I'm not so much concerned with them disagreeing with the choice as I am a respectful way to tell them.

(They don't know I'm agnostic. Yet.)

2006-12-09 06:01:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings