Its me again. Yeah the one who picked a loser for her sons father.
So he is in jail for embezzlement. Missed out on the whole pregnancy even the birth of his son. Before I got pregnant I had everything. A new car, good job, and I was in school. Now i've been on a leave from work because my son is breast fed and he is very clingy. I had to turn my lease in early because i wasnt working so i dont have a car now. My mother had to move in with me to help me pay the rent. Of course I had to quit school and bills are piling high. i feel like such a failure in life. I know you have to make sacrifices for your kids and god is blessing me, but i cant stop feeling inadequate as a person. can someone help! Serious people only. I woulndnt make fun of your situation. If you are going to be rude dont answer because i wiil report you!
2006-12-09 06:16:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No matter what, you will always have your son. And it seems like your mother loves you a lot. Seems like you are a pretty special person after all for God to bless you with a baby and a caring mother. Please don't ever let anyone make you feel inadequate. No one is better than any one else, God created us equal. Things and financial security are nice, but they don't make us the people we are or give us happiness. You can't help you fell for someone who didn't have your best interest at heart. Just take care of your baby and your self. See if there are any government programs that can help you get on your feet IE wic, food stamps, scholarships for school such as hope. Remember what is really important in life and be happy-you have a beautiful bundle of joy. Lots of luck to you.
ps
You are somebody because God don't make no junk
This is a saying I thought about a lot when growing up and all the other kids were making fun of me-trials will make you a better person in the long run and give you compassion for others
2006-12-09 06:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by tc381mc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel inadequate. i know you probably don't want advice from a 13 year old but... instead of breastfeeding... you can put the breast milk into a bottle (like a baby bottle) and ask your mom to take care of him while you go job hunting. try getting like a 9-5 job so you can still spend time with your son (and your mom has some time to sleep). To do that. borrow your mom's car. use the money from your job to start paying bills and such. I don't quite have much to say bcuz i have never been in this situation but this is the best advice i could offer.
2006-12-09 14:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by eeyah9 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea..Thats really upsetting to hear...Life can be really cruel! I know you probably still love the guy..Everyone makes mistakes. I'm sorry you've lost so much...they say it;'s gods way of testing you...and he won't throw anymore crap at people than they can possibly take..Maybe he thought you were REALLY strong! I don't know what to tell you really except..Be strong...don't let it all bring you too far down. If you lived by me I'd help you as much as I could....Good luck!
2006-12-09 14:22:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop feeling sorry for your self and get your live back. My mom always told me to pick yourself up by your boot strap and keep going. No else is going to do it for you.
2006-12-09 14:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can only get better,
2006-12-09 14:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by Olsh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋