I loved her so much and I've been with her and taking care of he until last week when she got pnamoia. I have kid and I could be with when she died. I can't seem to cry but so far I eaten 3 breakfasts and now I'm about to go to a lunch with my family. I guess what I'm trying to ask is how do I stop eating and how do start to let it go and maybe cry a little. She was 97 and had 13 children, 30 grand children, 86 great grand children, 11 great great grand children, 1 great great great grand child on the way in may.
2006-12-09 06:02:53 · 11 answers · asked by emily b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I lost my Grandma several years ago and it still hurts but I know that she is not in pain anymore and that she would want me to carry on without being sad but remembering the times we had together and the fun it was making those memories. I still remember the way she smelled like Caress soap and those little things she always did. I am sure you have many memories to help keep your Grandma very alive in memory. Keep telling the stories about your times together and she will always be in your heart. I believe in heaven and I think my Grandma is right at God's side watching over me and my family. I think that your Grandma is in heaven keeping an eye on you & your family while having a cup of tea with my Grandma. It will be hard to get past these very sad days but you can do it! Pray every day and your Grandma will hear you. She will send you little reminders that she is still with you. I think that all Grandma's are God's angels just waiting to go home and tell him about the fun they have had. Never forget her and never let anyone else. Take care of yourself because Grandma wouldn't want to see you hurting.
2006-12-09 07:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... throughout my life many people have died and I have learned that the best way to let it all out is to cry because when you cry it makes you feel a whole lot better. If you can't cry then I would probably say talk to someone else about it because I have never actually been like that where I can't cry about something. As to the eating thing if it helps before you eat just think to yourself that eating wont help anything and that you should stop. I hope I have helped you out a little and I'm sorry about your grandmother but she lived a great long life having such a big and great family.
2006-12-09 06:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by KAKASHI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear about this. I know how it feels to loose such a great person. God Belss you and her and your family. Just start crying,it makes everything better. And just so you know i eat outta boredum and depresion, youll get over it. I fnot maybe try some pils.
God Bless~
:)
2006-12-09 06:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by One Bad Gato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just always remember her,sound like she had a good life and brought a big family into this world .She is not suffering any more,and is in a better place.Just always remember her when she was well and the things she did for you.There's always grieving with death and people deal with it in different ways,you will in time ,God bless
2006-12-09 06:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by snky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your loss, she did lived a long life, and she left so many generations, you guys have been indeed blessed by this woman to have a impact on your lives,
you need to grieve, and so does your family, you need to remember memories, do a scrapbook, and memoriable board for the funeral. Celebrate her life!
Pray for God's comfort, as I am praying for you now, and your family.
2006-12-09 13:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My grandmother passed recently as well. i would suggest that you just remember all the great times you had together and that she was a great person. Good luck! And it's ok to cry.
2006-12-09 06:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by c_eva02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweet..im s sorry for hearing that..im sure you love her a lot and im sure she knows about it too. She is still in your heart, she will always be there. I believe that she is in heaven now, watching over you and your family and smiling up there.
Pray for both of you, you are going to be okay, trust me..
hugs
2006-12-09 06:10:56 · answer #7 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I very sorry for your loss, but just remember she had a real good life surrounded by all her family that she knew loved her. She wouldn't want you to make yourself get sick , she's gone to a better place in life and may God BLESS YOU.
2006-12-09 06:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So sorry to hear that. The best thing you can do is PRAY for her and your family in your time of bereavement.
2006-12-09 06:06:46 · answer #9 · answered by Common_Sense2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its always ok to cry........ thats what i did when i lost my best friend in august...... talk to family members and mourn together
2006-12-09 06:44:44 · answer #10 · answered by Confused_and_Depressed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋