Family & Relationships - 9 December 2006

4 yrs ago a good friend gave me a necklace ($100) for Christmas recently she told me that she has never seen it on me and asked if she could have it back. I was offended, hurt and insulted. How crude and rude was that??

2006-12-09 05:28:01 · 11 answers · asked by Donna D 1 in Friends

i would like to wish my ex boyfriend merry christmas but he will ot even talk to me and that will be hard help

2006-12-09 05:26:14 · 29 answers · asked by skyppolar_green 2 in Friends

i work as a secretary and basically got deeply involved with the local mail man. he had been working here for almost a year before he actually asked me out! he used to tell me how beautiful i was, but i never thought anything of it. infact i didn't even consider him my type.. one day he came in and said he just had a baby and i congratulated him etc... then two months after the birth of his child, he begun persuing me big time.. telling me he'll make me happy and put a smile on my face... so one day i was alone in the office and he came and kissed me. it was so unexpected. i was shocked. he then said he felt butterflies and said we both know we've never felt this way before. which is true as i've never been so impulsive in my life. anyway, we started hanging out and eventually began having sex. he is always going away to see his child, which is fine by me, but i can't help but know he's still with the mother. today he asked me if i'm ready for him?? confused, help please what to do????

2006-12-09 05:26:03 · 8 answers · asked by chocy 1 in Singles & Dating

i reallllyyyy love him.......

2006-12-09 05:24:48 · 13 answers · asked by amber_soopasta 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do people attracted to a person who don't or won't feel the same for them?

2006-12-09 05:24:42 · 10 answers · asked by sunshine23511 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend wants his son to move in with us, but there is NO WAY I will allow this. My relationship with boy, 12, is not good.My BF thinks everything would be great if the kid moved in, but I know it would not. My BF has a tendency to ignore problems, thinking that will make them go away.The kid has emotional, learning and behavoiral problems, and is VERY VERY selfish AND lazy.He has gotten physically agressive with me (shoving), his mom (swung at her), and kids at school(fights). Emotionally, and academically, he is at the level of a 7 or 8 year old.He is also very big for his age. The mom is has pretty much given up and lets him do what he wants because he is physically stronger than her and she cannot stop him. He goes to therapy on and off. My BF says I am wrong not to let him move in, and that it is MY fault he has problems because I am stopping him from helping his son. Then he said it might his own fault for living somewhere that his son cannot move into.

2006-12-09 05:22:39 · 5 answers · asked by eastcoastdebra 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friends r ignorin me & bein mean when they talk 2 me. I asked them why & they said coz i was being quiet & seemed down. I was cryin in a lesson & they ignored me so I went 2 see my year head..& he sent for my best friend & said to her that if his mates were down they'd tlk 2 them not ignore them when they were upset. I'm upset coz now my so called best mate is bein soo evil!!What can I do to make them my mates agin or shud I hang out wiht others now? Help please!!

2006-12-09 05:22:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been friends all throughout highschool and have been dating for a year and a half now about 2 yrs ago he was married and is now divorced...A part of me feels t hat he may still love her and i want him to love me completely and not to think about her...things went horrible with them so they got divorced...why am i soo insecure about her...does anyone else have this same problem if so please share it with me

2006-12-09 05:22:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If a guys hits your g/f and she goes to hit him back would you hold her back and tell her to calm down?? If, not what would you do?? Would you stick up for her or your friend??
What if it was all cuz she beat him at what he considered his thing??(she races cars and beat him)
would he still be your friend after??
Would you tell her not to hit him or let her react as she wanted??
Why'd he get so pissed about losing??
Is it wrong for me to want to hit him back??
It was serious. I am a lax player so I have no problem fighting back. I wanted to beat the crap out of him but my b/f was like let me handle it.
Should I be mad or proud?? I really wanted to fight back but he wouldn't let me.
Why not let me finish what the S.O.B. started?? I could've. Was it my b/f's way of showing he cared or showing off??

He did hit his friend, but wouldn't let me. WHY??

2006-12-09 05:22:03 · 10 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

The ex-husband lies to the boys and makes promises then never follows thru and now he is being me to court because I refer to the boys as my sons...to understand this, we are a blended familyof my,her's and ours...no one in the house is refered to as step child or step parent...I was raised by a step mom and my wife was adopted...love and guidence is what makes a parent ....please any advice

2006-12-09 05:21:52 · 3 answers · asked by abogadamama 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, he made me say it n then he stepped back. first he asked me whether i was sure that i really loved him. i said yes. n then he told me he didnt love me. why did he make me say it then?

2006-12-09 05:21:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 05:21:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

His name is Gareth Alan George Davies only genuine leads please would be a great christmas present for my mother

2006-12-09 05:21:18 · 18 answers · asked by sawsy20 2 in Friends

its like she has some kind of instinct that i dont have.it took me a while to figure this out but i listen to her then i tell her how i feel before i would ignore her and just be interested in my own stuff.when i started giving her carring and compassion and conscerned with her opinions everything started to work better

2006-12-09 05:19:34 · 14 answers · asked by lovj 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 28 myself n have recently met this guy who seems like a great fellow but he's 37 though never married...I like him very much n would even consider marrying him but the age difference makes me wonder....what should I do??

2006-12-09 05:19:17 · 16 answers · asked by SS 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend told me he had to go to a family dinner last weekend because his very old grandmother was there or something, and he had to go. anyway i found out that his aunt was actually havin a christmas party and his grandmother wasnt really even there. i guess its not something to get so mad about, but i am. first of all weve been together for over two years, and you'd think he would at least invite me to a family party, but he didnt even ask me. second of all im pretty sure he has some girl cousins around his age who were there with their friends. i dont know i just think he takes me for granted. anyway should i tell him i know he lied? i dont like keeping things in but i also dont like starting arguments.

2006-12-09 05:17:03 · 18 answers · asked by molly s 1 in Singles & Dating

If you hang out other than when you are having sex, that's not a booty call, right? If you do other things together and spend time together and stuff.

2006-12-09 05:15:38 · 27 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

ok. we've only been going for 3 weeks and i dont know what to get my bf. i know he's into music. he likes slipknot, stonesour...mostly hardcore stuff. he also plays guitar. and i was thinking something to do with music or maybe a t-shirt. but the problem is i dont know what he already has. soooo.....any suggestions will be took into consideration. Thanks!!!

2006-12-09 05:15:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 05:15:11 · 33 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Singles & Dating

i really want to have a positive outlook on life, i want to be simling all the time, and i just want to be able to view the world as something that is good. but this is way to hard for me. my parents are constantly fighting. i cant be happy when i am in my room hearing them contstanly yell and say all these horrible things. and there is also drama between them and my sister, who is now begining to smoke and is getting into a lot of trouble in school. stuck with all of this hate around me, i can't see how i can ultimatley be happy.

2006-12-09 05:15:08 · 4 answers · asked by s 2 in Singles & Dating

Reality punctured with holes
She tells me to breathe
That nothing is
and nothing is make-belief
Off my tongue words tumble
Without thought
A somersault
Until she is not
anything that is possible
For once not getting caught
In candy-stripped chaos
Of lustful lips
I am real, I maintain
I flap and feel
And rain and reveal
failing to contain myself
I hunger and break
For someone else’s breathe
Awakens to take
and lay me to rest here
at my celebrated death
things I cannot
A careful hand
and strand of hair
For one moment in time
Gives reason to care
Before it tears and drops
With tears you can’t stop
Never knowing concrete
On only bustling streets
And shuffling feet
We will never meet
in reality


how can you offer home
to a stranger unknown
with no map to find
the peaks of the mind
and valleys of the heart
where do you start
to glow and ascend
will purity transcend
when reality invades
and innocence fades
depression is a season
she can see no reason
to keep connection
in this human collection
and so we intellectualize
feelings that are not wise
can a gift stay alive
can a dream still thrive
on the end of this vine
nothing to be mine
but only to for once see
unrestrained eyes free

2006-12-09 05:14:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, so i've been with my boyfriend for a short while. just the other day, he said he had to tell me something. what he told me was that he just had a baby. i couldn't be mad at him under the given circumstances, the only thing that i could be mad about is that she was born on the 2nd and i found out on the 5th. so that isn't the problem. if i want to be with him, my only choice is to deal with it. but there are so many things up in the air. i don't want to seem selfish, because he is more shocked than i am, and he has no other choice but to deal with it. i don't know if i should worry about the baby's mother, even though she is engaged ( but under the circumstances that she had the baby, she can't be trusted). i can't be jealous. i want him to be a part of the baby's life. i'm still just trying to deal with the shock of everything. i feel like i'm being left in the dark, though. if he is with the baby, he ignores my calls and texts. all he has to say is that he is busy. i feel like he was always too busy and i was not very much of a priority before, so where will i fit in now? i'm confused and still not sure how i'm supposed to feel. and i don't want to tell him all this so soon, because i don't want to seem selfish or stress him out even more. what should i do?

2006-12-09 05:14:25 · 5 answers · asked by Miss Lovely Candi 3 in Singles & Dating

If a guys hits your g/f and she goes to hit him back would you hold her back and tell her to calm down?? If, not what would you do?? Would you stick up for her or your friend??
What if it was all cuz she beat him at what he considered his thing??(she races cars and beat him)
would he still be your friend after??
Would you tell her not to hit him or let her react as she wanted??
Why'd he get so pissed about losing??
Is it wrong for me to want to hit him back??
It was serious. I am a lax player so I have no problem fighting back. I wanted to beat the crap out of him but my b/f was like let me handle it.

2006-12-09 05:13:27 · 14 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

Im thinking about getting breast augmentation surgery, not huge but a nice natural looking size, Men out there what do you think?

2006-12-09 05:13:02 · 15 answers · asked by Intrigued 2 in Singles & Dating

i am a natural blond and always have been i dont get what hes talking bout

2006-12-09 05:10:35 · 40 answers · asked by angel 1 in Singles & Dating

I always treat women with respect and pay for all when on a date, I listen and remember birthdays anniversaries etc for all my female friends but never seem to make a romantic connection. I am a genuine guy and not a lad who only thinks of beer and fooball.

2006-12-09 05:09:15 · 17 answers · asked by Andrew R 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 05:08:27 · 13 answers · asked by ••• 2 in Friends

2006-12-09 05:08:04 · 4 answers · asked by Krishna 4 in Singles & Dating

we split up about 4 months ago and we have baby boy. We both started seeing other peopl i know that she slept with another guy her ex . I did with this other girl too. I want to make things work for the sake of my son and because i love her i was with this girl for 3 years and we split up becaue i think of not being able to adapt to the new baby more than anything. What should i do she is being really rood to me but at times she is nice and part of me wants her bad and part of me is dicusted by the fact she did her dirt but in the other hand i did the same!! So help me out with your input.

2006-12-09 05:07:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What would his body language be and how would he talk to me? What kinds of things would he say?

2006-12-09 05:06:58 · 8 answers · asked by Michele 3 in Singles & Dating