we split up about 4 months ago and we have baby boy. We both started seeing other peopl i know that she slept with another guy her ex . I did with this other girl too. I want to make things work for the sake of my son and because i love her i was with this girl for 3 years and we split up becaue i think of not being able to adapt to the new baby more than anything. What should i do she is being really rood to me but at times she is nice and part of me wants her bad and part of me is dicusted by the fact she did her dirt but in the other hand i did the same!! So help me out with your input.
2006-12-09 05:07:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
stop judging for something you did as well....ask for forgivness and forgive her as well and tell you you love her and your son more than anything in this world and will not be whole without them.You are the man....take your family back and do not focus on what has happened....focus on where you need to be with your family.
2006-12-09 05:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by Pinkie_&_the_Brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is being rood that is a sign that she dont want you home boy. If she did some dirt there is a high percentage that she is doing it again. Act like you dont care at first let her treat u bad then she will be like oh shyt whats wrong with him. Then she will start treating you right fo sho sho
2006-12-09 13:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by Wonka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both can be a part of the babies life without being together.just be friends first and show forgiveness. be there for the baby and get along for the babies sake. you can spend time with the baby and have visitations. ask her if you can set up some times to visit with your baby and do things for him.then later take him for awhile and get to know him and stop fighting with the mother. attempt to get along and try to work out your differences.
2006-12-09 13:22:15 · answer #3 · answered by jbearbooboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love her, you have to fight for her. try to spend time together again and go back to the beginning
2006-12-09 13:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by belen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋