i work as a secretary and basically got deeply involved with the local mail man. he had been working here for almost a year before he actually asked me out! he used to tell me how beautiful i was, but i never thought anything of it. infact i didn't even consider him my type.. one day he came in and said he just had a baby and i congratulated him etc... then two months after the birth of his child, he begun persuing me big time.. telling me he'll make me happy and put a smile on my face... so one day i was alone in the office and he came and kissed me. it was so unexpected. i was shocked. he then said he felt butterflies and said we both know we've never felt this way before. which is true as i've never been so impulsive in my life. anyway, we started hanging out and eventually began having sex. he is always going away to see his child, which is fine by me, but i can't help but know he's still with the mother. today he asked me if i'm ready for him?? confused, help please what to do????
2006-12-09 05:26:03 · 8 answers · asked by chocy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That guy is mad!!!! Get away from him, for real, his actions arent just normal, get yourself a normal and single guy, ok? If you still feel the butterflies, just kill them, 'cause that relationship is going anywhere!!!
2006-12-09 05:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by Abbey Road 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this guy has a child with another woman then that woman is his wife like it or not . it doesnt take a paper to make a marriage no many things will make a marriage and one of them is the birth of a child.
there you have it you know what is right and good and you know what is wrong and evil.
its up to you .
2006-12-09 05:33:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to da point and ask him straight up, do he still talk to his child's mother before yall start something. but realize that even if they don not have anything going on remember that they are going to talk every now and then because that's the mother of his child.
2006-12-09 05:37:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to find out if he's still with the mother. if he is then tell him you dont want to have anything o do with him if hes already with somone. Only get involved with him if your sure that he's sinle- believe me it'll just get complicated and messy otherwise and you'll get hurt.
2006-12-09 05:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT get involved with a married amn....ten years from now you will look back and hate yourself. Have respect for your value, don't do the easy thing to feel good now and horrible later....
2006-12-09 05:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by fly chik 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the easiest thing for you to do is to point blank as him... Are you still seeing the baby's mama... and if he is.. then you need to get straight ghetto!
2006-12-09 05:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by Bobby T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he just wants you for sex.wake up!you will find someone better than this guy.
2006-12-09 05:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by dra shelley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE'S A MAN, U'LL NEVER UNDERSTAND
2006-12-09 05:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋