My what I thought best friend knew my husband was talking to her friend and didnt tell me until months later
2006-12-09 06:06:09 · 22 answers · asked by nextelfan25 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She didn't gossip. She's a friend.
2006-12-09 06:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by John L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was your husband talking to this woman like trying to date her? If so, just find out why your friend didn't tell you. I agree, if she was a real person, she's tell you anything you need to know to prevent you from getting hurt. You should also find out why your husband was talking to this woman in the first place. And if your best friend appears to be really shallow about the situation, let her go.
Krazy Libra
2006-12-09 14:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love irony... (in relation to your question and your first answer but that's far beside the point so never mind!)
LOL...
But anyway... No, She is no friend and your husband is an as*shole!
and I think that this is one of those questions that people ask, for confirmation of what they themselves already know and don't want to admit.
Which may very well be how you got yourself into this predicament to begin with.
Learn to trust yourself and learn that you are worth more to yourself than a pocket full of "friends" and or "Husband's" and I use both terms loosely in your case!
2006-12-09 14:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear about that. I don't think either of those "friends" you mentioned are actually true friends. That is being very dishonest and I would distance myself from them and when they ask, I would let them know why you aren't hanging out with them anymore. You should also confront your husband and then take whatever measures you feel you should take. Actually that was very dishonest of all three of them. Sorry again about all that. good luck.
2006-12-09 14:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by 77684 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, if she was a true Friend your felling would have come before theirs. I tell my best Friend everything even it hurts, because she has the wright to know what her husband is doing.
2006-12-09 14:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by pamela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut her short because she will have your husband next. I guarantee it. Save yourself the pain and hurt. I dont know how you still call her a friend. I know sometimes its hard to let go of people we love but its even harder to kep getting hurt over and over again.
2006-12-09 14:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by Lil Momma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she not a friend she should had tell you from the start anyways maybe also she did not what to tell you because she did not want to hurt you but she should had tell you but what happend she didnt but it was not only her fault it was your husband because what he doing trying to get with you friend friend so is his fault
2006-12-09 14:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by know eveything 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO What, my husband has women friends, theres a thing in relationships called TRUST, if you dont trust one another, then that relationship is doomed, so, my dear get a little trust, & make it go a long ways.
2006-12-09 14:12:54 · answer #8 · answered by yvonne p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not cool. Your best friend is supposed to be there for you, good or bad, tell you everything and most of all, have your back. If this was going on and she didn't tell you, I'd reconsider my friendship with her!
2006-12-09 14:09:13 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it sounds like she is trying to steal him away, be careful, and if that is her intention she's not that good of a friend. There is always other people out there, you just have to get to know them
2006-12-09 14:08:25 · answer #10 · answered by beavisman4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with your husband talking to people?
2006-12-09 14:07:19 · answer #11 · answered by Onyx Blackman 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋