(10 points for best answer) helpppp!!?

Question

okay we went to this dance and my bf didnt dance with me or anything, and when i left he txted me "im sry i didnt dance with you or kiss you or act like your bf. im really sorry, ill do better" then i say "ur not supposed to do anything you dont want" him "yes i am what you want is more important" "no its not, it matters to me, what do you want?" "you. i just want to be around you and hold you" "why?" "because i love you"



THEN WHY DIDNT WE DANCE OR ANYTHING I DONT GET IT. DID I DO SOMETHING WRONG?!!

he recently told me i looked great last night

Answer 1

it sounds like he wanted to be alone with you and just didnt really fulfill his bf duties at the dance because he wanted you to himself. he probably realised he'd been an *** afterward which is why he ext you. he sounds like a sweetheart, try spending some quality time together.

Answer 2

Yes, in fact it is very likely that you could be pregnant. You can conceive at any time of the month - even when you are finishing your period. Why? a.) Sperm can live in the vagina for up to seven days, though the average is about five. In a few drops of pre=ejaculate, ("precum") there can be up to several million sperm. b.) If you're on the pill, you (Usually) only ovulate once a month, at a certain time. However, if you are not, you can ovulate several times a month, making you fertile throughout. You really need to step up and take some responsibility. Do you see how worried you are now about being pregnant? How many of these scares is it going to take for you to start using protection, if you don't get pregnant first? Condoms don't feel good. They hurt me ( I think I have an allergy.) but we have to use them sometimes as a back-up. I'm on the pill. You need to find a way to put yourself on a hormonal birth control, or rely on barrier methods like condoms. Some of the side effects are unpleasant, and many men (and often women) complain about wearing condoms, but if you're afraid of becoming pregnant and you can't have safe sex, then you shouldn't have sex at all. Condoms average a few dollars a piece. If you can't even manage that, many clinics will give them to you for free. There are also Family Planning and Planned Parenthood clinics that can give you birth control for free if you are a minor without parental consent, or for a heavily discounted charge if you have low-income. There are always options! My advice for the present: make your way to a clinic (or, if you're over eighteen, to any drug store that sells it!) and ask for Plan B. If you've had sex within the past two or three days, you should be able to take it with maximum efficiency. It's sort of like an extremely high dose of birth control.

Answer 3

It seems that he is scared or worried about what he will do wrong around you. If he saying all those nice things then he dosn't hang with you then maybe he dosn't want to look like a fool around you. Maybe he can't dance? :) I don't know. It could be many things and if you are in a good relationship then you should go to him and ask him what is going on and make sure to tell him that he can trust you. I hope this helped.

Answer 4

if this was a school dance, guys have this macho thing where they can't act like boyfriends when they're around their fellas. if he just sat with you and did nothing for this whole dance, maybe he's more interested in the idea of having a girlfriend and not necessarily interested in you specifically. he could also just be afraid of looking stupid on the dance floor or afraid of looking inexperienced with you.

Answer 5

HUMM THATS PRETTY ODD. BUT IT SOUNDS TO ME LIKE EITHER THE BOY IS CONFUSED, AND CANT FIGURE OUT WHAT EXACTLY HE WANTS IN LIFE AS FAR AS RELATIONSHIP, OR HE IS MESSING AROUND WITH SOMEONE ELSE BEING THAT HE DIDNT EVEN ACT LIKE YOUR MAN WHEN OUT IN PUBLIC. THERE IS NO EXCUSE AT ALL FOR HIM TO ACT THE WAY HE DID, HE JUST DIDNT WANT TO GET CAUGHT UP IN HIS OWN GAME. I CAN UNDERSTAND IF HE DONT LIKE TO DANCE BUT YOU SAID HE SAID IM SORRY FOR NOT ACTING LIKE YOUR BF, THEN GIRL THAT EXPLAINS IT ALL. MOVE ON, OR GIVE IT SOME SPACE SO MAYBE HE WILL START TO UNDERSTAND CUZ US FEMALES LIKE ATTENTION AND IF THE GUY CANT SHOW IT OR GIVE IT WHY WAIST YOUR TIME WHEN THERE IS SOMEONE THAT KNOWS HOW TO SHOW ATTENTION.
GOODLUCK.

Answer 6

The only reson i am depressed at dances is because i DON"T have a GF but i don't understand why your BF didn't do anything. Try talking to him because this could be a seirous issue.

Answer 7

No. It wasn't about you, it was about him. Could he have possibly been embarrassed to dance? Maybe he was feeling a little too self-aware and didn't feel comfortable at the dance. He clearly likes you a lot. Forgive him and move forward.

Answer 8

Maybe he has problems with his decisions he wants to hold you and be close to you but maybe he just can't dance or maybe he'd rather spend time alone with you and holding you near his friends may make him feel akward and if he feels akward it may make you feel akward. Maybe he just doesn't know what to do when around ppl with you since he can't do or say the things he feels whenever he's around more than you and his friends.

Answer 9

maybe someone at the dance he might be seeing on the side and that's why he act like he wasn't dating you or maybe he a shame of you but either way its not good..
you need to sit him down and talk to him and ask him why.
don't text him go to him ask him up front.
it sounds to me he is cheating on you but I'm might be wrong and trust me i want to be wrong on this.
well what ever you do good luck and i hope you two can work things out..

Answer 10

Seems like you are being played. It seems like when he is around you and you only he feels good, and when he is around other people he probably thinks he can do better. Move on. You should be treated like a queen alone and around others.