If u are disgusted with this PLEASE don't respond. If you think it is morally wrong – PLEASE go else where

Question

It is not illegal and it is NOT rape.
Re-run of previous question - hopefully today I will be getting some PRACTICAL INFO. Pls do not leave your opinions - you don't know my full situation.

In brief I need to get pregnant - I will be having my womb removed in 2 years - so I need to get pregnant NEXT YEAR. I find it hard to have a relationship because I have a severly disabled child.
I want to come onto a work colleague and take him home. How can I guarantee success?

I am not a confident person and I will feel too embarrassed to come on to him without thinking it through to the every last detail. Do you have a chat up line that has got you lots of success? Never chatted up a guy b4.
Don't leave negative comments - practical ones pls

Just your chat up lines etc please. Thank you

Answer 1

tell him you like him and wondered if he fancy going back to your for coffee, it has always worked for me. If that does not work you should try and find a sperm donor, if you really want to have another child the Internet has a few good sites about these. you only have to paid to get it put in as such. good luck what never happens

Answer 2

Ok, I understand your situation and can see why you desperately want to get pregnant before your operation. However, I agree with Libby, why not get a sperm donor?

You can't expect people not to have opinions on such a controversial matter, no matter what your full situation is. Whether you want to hear it or not, what you are planning is morally wrong, and you are not considering the effect on this man if he finds out what you are doing, and the effect it will have on the child if he/she finds out. Not only that, but fathers have rights to see their children these days, and this man would be perfectly within his rights to take you to court for access to the child. This is not the road to go down, it is only going to create many problems for you, the father and the child.

Furthermore, a chat up line is not going to get someone into bed with you, unless they are particulary shallow and desperate for sex, and doing this is just going to get you a reputation as a user and slag, which I'm sure you are not, considering that you are doing this because of your difficult situation.

I know that you don't want to hear this, but what you are doing is wrong and may not even work. You need to find a willing sperm donor, and there are ways of doing that, just go onto google and type in 'sperm donor'.

Please reconsider what you are doing, seek the advice and help of a trusted friend, and do this in a way that will allow you to have your child without hurting anyone or endangering your future relationships.

Answer 3

OK well we all know the rights and wrongs of what you're doing but that's not what you're asking here .
To get a man nowadays what do you think you need a chat up line for . Serious flirting and the rest will come ( IF HE LIKES U OF-COURSE) if not then chat up lines etc wont be helping u darling .
What about adoption when you're ready haven't you thought of that why the need to have another of you're own when so many need you're help . But whatever you do in you're life i hope that you and you're child already are happy and healthy .

Alllllssss I can say :-)

Answer 4

If you are intending to get pregnant by him without telling him, why not just say "Hi. I am a woman with no morals and would like you to bang me. I am wondering if you have nor morals either?".

Let's face it. If you are coming on line asking how to decieve someone you obviously are the kind of person who has had a lot of experience in that area and needs no advice. Sadly, you will have to reconcile that with the child in the future (and yourself if you happen to find a conscience). Clearly you could go to a sperm bank or ask someone who might willingly give you a child but since you choose the dishonest, immoral, hurtful way....you are on your own.

Answer 5

I sympathise with you completely - that must be horrible knowing your time for a child is running out.

But rather than making things awkward for yourself and possibly ruining this mans life why not just go out clubbing and have a one night stand with a complete stranger. I'm not saying that this is right to do either but if your set on doing this either way wouldn't it be easier to do it that way?

Imagine how difficult it could get at your work or with him if you did have his child and he didn't want to know it. Also you would have to live with the guilt that you know who your babies father is but you tricked him into it. At least if it was a one night stand the man would never even know and you could get on with bringing up your baby in peace without feeling bad every time you bump into you colleague. If you feel shy having one night stand just make sure your bladdered first!

(P's I don't condone this but you seem like you've made you mind up either way so just trying to be practical!)

Answer 6

Don't be upset with people leaving their opinions when you asked them not to. People are judgemental by nature and the really passionate ones find it very difficult to abstain from voicing their opinions. You said that there is more to the story-might I suggest that if you want to avoid hearing irrelevant opinions, try explaining the situation better, or just leave out the part about wanting to get pregnant, rephrasing and asking about dating advice or what are the best chat lines and leave it at that. Good Luck and God Bless

Answer 7

Im sorry i cant leave you a chat up line as its sounding like you are using him, would you tell him your intentions? Why are you having your womb removed and why do you feel you NEED to get pregnant? Imagine telling your future child that you used his or her daddy, its morally wrong. Im sorry if you have problems i really am but dont cause someone else pain too.

Answer 8

Are you prepared for another child financially since you already have a disabled child that requires all of your attention? Try having a relationship with this colleague and see how things go before you jump from the pan into the fire.

Answer 9

Well this could be a chat up line in a way,have you thought about how you wish to proceed with the intended person ?if you have, how about asking him how soon it will be before you n him can get between the sheets.

Answer 10

If you really think this man would be a good potential babyfather, why don't you speak to him about it? Otherwise, consider sperm donation from elsewhere. It's not fair to use someone without their knowledge just to get you up the stick - and in any case, your chances of conceiving aren't going to be brilliant. If you're serious about wanting another child, it is best for all of you if you use a willing donor.