Should I continue this realtionship. I am really stuck on what I should do. He has made it very clear that he wants me in his life on a full time basis. He hates when we are apart and would provide all the security and love I could ever need.
2006-12-09 07:14:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes..
Grab him quick before he gets away...
2006-12-09 07:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he an English teacher perchance? If he is, he should be showing you the difference between, "treating someone good and treating someone well."
'Good' is an adjective. 'Well' is and adverb. An adjective describes a noun. An adverb describes a verb.
You are describing how he treats(verb) you so he should be treating you well.
I think I would suggest some guide lines.
If you are 10 and he is 25, this is way to illegal to be discussing.
If you are 16 and he is 31, I think you should finish growing up and I think he is suspect.
If you are 20 and he is 35, I think you should go back to school and learn the difference between and adverb and an adjective among other things. And leave him alone in the mean time.
If you are 30 and he is 45, I think you are as smart as you're going to get and he has finally settled down. Go for it.
2006-12-09 15:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by Paul B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would do what you feel is right for you.. if you truely love him and don't see yourself anywhere but with him then go for it... if it doesn't work out in the long run at least you were happy.. my opionion on what he said with he hates when your apart and he would provide all the security and love you could ever need.. please make sure you tell him that your with him because he makes you happier then you've ever been and you don't want anything else from him but honesty, trust and love.. dont' ever let him know that it's about the money.. tell him you want to have a job so things are somewhat equal between the two of you.. even if you don't work that long, don't ever want people to think your like anna nicole smith and after some old guys money.. and his family will think that.. so try to hold your own in the beginning at least.. and that way if it does't work out for whatever reasons, you have recent employement to put on an application.. good luck and best wishes!
2006-12-09 15:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by ~broken~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does he mean by love? All aspects of love may eventually be out of his control if he is that much older. Many older guys like to control and they tend to gravitate to those who are more innocent and not as experienced in relationships as they are. Watch out for his words and make sure he is not ruling over your own choices on this matter. The fact that you wrote such a question shows that he is pressuring you beyond your comfort zone and at present has not really given you a reason to not do what he wants. HE should be on his best behavior anyway as he could be replaced by a new and better performing model at anytime anyway. You are not to give all the power to him. Retain your self respect. Make him ask you questions about what you need. My Best to You on this situation.
2006-12-09 15:24:33 · answer #4 · answered by PZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real answer to this question can only come from inside of yourself. Sure I can tell you what I would do or give you my opinion based on what little information you've given me but in the end your going to end up right back at the beginning, asking yourself the same question. I think you need to spend some quality time with yourself and ask yourself some serious question's. The most important question is do you love him. Age shouldn't even come into play here, the heart doesn't see the age, color or sex of someone we truly love. Good luck....
2006-12-09 15:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by hurting 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are.
If you're over 20 and you love the guy. Go be with him!
Any younger then 20 or even 25. You really need to sit down and think about it. Maybe talk to your mom. His mom. Early 20's shacking up with a late 30's early 40's guy might not be what you want.
If you're still in school. A teenager. NO. He would just be using you.
Best of luck!
2006-12-09 15:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by Studio A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. I'm in a situation where when my divorce is final, I will be involved 100% with a guy 13 years older than me. We hate not seeing each other every day, so we talk on the phone a couple times a day when we don't see each other. He's smart, funny, he plays guitar and he's good looking. He's mine.
2006-12-10 03:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont state how old you are or how old he is, presuming that you are of legal age ( 18 or older) I would say that there is no harm in continuing the relationship. If you have communication and passion between you ya cant go wrong.
2006-12-09 17:35:41 · answer #8 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes girl as long as you are not underage i say go for it honey it is so hard to find a good man in this world girl go aheads i wish you the best of happiness i mean sure people are going to say something but hey are you going to take care of me and make me happy or are you going to find me someone my age who will take care of me, make me happy well then shut up and then go about your business i mean you dont have to actually tell them that thats what you should have on your mind when people try to critize you and walk with your head up go head girl i am so happy for you and i dont even know you. Congrats i love when a female find a good man.
2006-12-09 15:20:24 · answer #9 · answered by Mom of 3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl take the chance and go for it. Theres not many guys out there that are generous, sincere, and loving. Age is just a number. If u have feelings for him and he's been good to you what do u have to loose. Go for it!!!!!
2006-12-09 15:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by gonzalezleon3022 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 43 my wife is 26, we are doing just fine, been married 3 yrs almost 4, been together almost 5 yrs.
2006-12-09 15:53:54 · answer #11 · answered by Todd V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋