Seriously, any intelligent guy only needs to know that you are enjoying having sex. Faking orgasm doesn't do anyone any good. If your partner is having trouble bringing you an orgasm, then just learn together what makes it happen and practice together. What could be more fun! Don't fake it unless you enjoy faking it, but train your lover so that you don't need to fake it.
What do you think?
2006-12-09 07:13:00 · 16 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, Creak165, I don't know if anyone has ever faked an orgasm with me. I do know that if they had, they sure didn't need to.
Also, I've worked in a predominantly female environment my entire adult life and I'm considered safe to talk around, so I've heard it all.
2006-12-09 11:41:21 · update #1
I'm with you on this! I've never understood faking it. What's the point? Why deny yourself pleasure or stay with someone who isn't interested in improving as a lover?
2006-12-09 07:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that only women's that focus to much on men's pleasure are faking the orgasm!
And if they are faking its because they are not reaching it... A lot of girls are faking cause they feel pressure to have it in a short time...
When sex is not an open subject in a relationship it means that people are just playing a role... doing what is supposed to be done!
Sometimes she do not know what to do to come but is to ashamed to tell...
And men are really expecting a lot of "meetic" stuff...
2006-12-09 15:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You may think it is that easy to get a man to understand how to help us orgasm. Sometimes it is just the way we like it and he can not perform that without orgasms himself before we do. But there are the times the guy really sucks in bed and we have no choice----- I have found that no matter how bad he is in the sack that I will take over and do all the work and will not stop until I have finished!!!!!
2006-12-09 15:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by dragonflyaway69 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you don't know what you're talking about. Girls fake it all the time. There are a variety of reasons, not just sparing a guy's ego, although that is probably at the top of the list. She might even fake it after she's had an orgasm and the guy just wants to keep going so she'll fake it to get him the f*ck off of her. If you can't get a girl off it's a surprise you even pushed the right buttons to get her clothes off... goddamn it ain't that hard.
2006-12-09 15:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
"f your partner is having trouble bringing you an orgasm" and that is where the problem lies. A woman is in charge of her own orgasm. She has the ablity to bring HERSELF to orgasm it is not really up to the man. If she isn't getting an orgasm it has more to do with HER rather than what he is not doing. A woman has to give her self over completely to the orgasm itself, stop concentrating on having one, stop expecting her partner to give her one. She has to relax and ALLOW herself to have an orgasm. Until she does she will continue to blame someone else for something that is her job to do in the first place. It's not difficult to do and you can do it with just your mind, no other body parts or toys need to be "present".
2006-12-09 15:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
The thing is even if youre enjoying sex some guys take it to heart if they cant get you to orgasm. It hurts their ego. Girls fake it so we wont have to deal with consoling or deal with a guy who wont stop talking about it and wants to try again.
2006-12-09 15:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I never fake mine. If i know it isnt going to happen for me, i just focus all my attention on him.
2006-12-09 15:20:51 · answer #7 · answered by Octupussy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Amen, Hank!
2006-12-09 15:14:27 · answer #8 · answered by Megan 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
i know we dont have to ..see if u cant give us one we go take a shower and finish the job ourself or we have our pocket man do it..oh u dont knwo what a pocket man is..well that is our other man. see u thought he was just a friend..no honey he is basicly the guy who is there for us and is waitn for his shot with us..they will do what ever we want just to be with us..kinda like a backup boyfriend
2006-12-09 15:16:18 · answer #9 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
nice tip hank ,
udeserve a big hug lol
2006-12-09 15:18:21 · answer #10 · answered by crazy ki yare 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋