Family & Relationships - 9 December 2006

Some people just do not have the time to do ice breaking. So they use this to do it. And you think it works all the time.

2006-12-09 07:54:54 · 4 answers · asked by pdq1450 1 in Singles & Dating

ok Well there is this guy i like him alot and so do 2 other of my friends! 1 of my friends is so obsesed with him he thinks shes annoying but i dont want to heart her feelings if i go out wid him and i really want to ask him but i dont want to heart my friends of imbarris my self if he says no! so how do i win him over all them im really out going and we flirt all the time i really love him i want him for x mass!!!! im only 13 but i still want him sooo bad what should i do!!!!!

2006-12-09 07:53:19 · 8 answers · asked by Tracie M 1 in Singles & Dating

it was a man that wanted to buy her a braclet when this woman said how do you know that she cares for you and he asked her if ahe did and she said that she always loved him and she dont know who it could be

2006-12-09 07:52:51 · 6 answers · asked by kat 1 in Friends

I'm head over heels for a coworker that I think used to like me. The problem is now I think she likes my bestfriend at work. When the three of us are together she is always flirting with him and laughing at every single thing he does, funny or not. When I'm around the two of them and they are flirting I just get very silent and usually have to leave the area. Aside from avoiding them at all costs I don't have any idea what to do. Would I be out of line if I asked her to stop being so flirtatious with my friend at work while I am around the two of them because it affects my work? I don't want to stop them from getting together, it just seems like she is going out of her way to make me notice the two of them and it's really bothering me. I can't tell if she likes my friend or she is trying to make me jeolous.

2006-12-09 07:52:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my really good friend has been dating her b/f for over a year and now they have taken a break?....she is coming to my house so i kin try to cheer her up but i dunno what to say ....and she kinda thinks that he is cheating on her? she doesant know what to do b/c she really loves this guy...

2006-12-09 07:52:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i left a question yesterday about how i like this girl at school who i am realy good friends with. we can talk for ages wen we are on our own but she barely speeks to me wen shes with her friends.
alot of you said that she likes me but is worried what her friends will think. wen i do ask her, what should i do about her friends if they dont like me?

2006-12-09 07:50:18 · 12 answers · asked by mr happy 1 in Singles & Dating

So I'm married...didn't get the wedding I wanted because HIS mom is like a whiney little 5 yr old and has to have EVERYTHING her way...shes waaaaaaaay to involved in our son's life, and tries to keep him at her house ALL the time. I can't take her trying to control my life, my husband's life, and my son's life. My husband won't say ANYTHING to her and when I say something to him about it, he takes up for her....please help me, i'm afraid it's going to come down to separation before he changes and I don't want it to...

2006-12-09 07:50:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-09 07:49:58 · 35 answers · asked by *girl* w/ *no name* 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 07:49:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a Canadian citizen and she is from the U.S, we both want to live in Canada together. Can it be easy just get married and thats it or is there more, please help

2006-12-09 07:48:57 · 4 answers · asked by firstknight 2 in Weddings

I have alot of things wrong with me, i'm scared! No one seems to care, my mom and my friends couldn't care less! My friends just tell me to get over it and everytime i try to tell my mom something, she always tells me to stop complaining, one of my friends will sometimes ask me what's wrong, but when i tell her, she completely ignores me! She still sometimes asks, but these days i don't tell her casue i know that she won't listen just like everyone else! All i'm looking for is a nurse or a doctor, or anyone close to that who can help me out! If you decide to be a nice person, then email me, and i'll tell you everything! It's mainly about breathing problems, choking problems and stuff like that! To all those nice people out there, thanks you'll be helping me alot!

2006-12-09 07:48:02 · 8 answers · asked by Kayla B 1 in Family

Should I tell her the truth even if it is alot, or should I lie and go with a more conservitive number?

2006-12-09 07:47:29 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can i attract him2 me more? HELP ME PLEASE!!!!

2006-12-09 07:47:00 · 15 answers · asked by boyconfused 1 in Singles & Dating

L. and I met years ago through a friend when I babysat his daughter. We met again this past year at college. We're both single, and we've dated a couple of times, with months between dates. I'm happy to be his friend, but after a couple of dates, I don't feel anything for him other than friendship. He stopped by today, out of the blue, and we talked for awhile. He asked if he could come by later this evening around 7, when he gets back from a couple of errands. I said yes, but now I'm thinking about it and I'm pretty sure he's taking my answer to mean that he can come over and sleep with me. We played around on our last date, at the drive in, (yes, they still exist), but I really don't feel enough for him to have sex. He doesn't have a cell phone, so I can't call him, and he's on the road right now. Should I let him come over or not, and if not, what should I tell him?

2006-12-09 07:45:11 · 3 answers · asked by kikisdragon 3 in Singles & Dating

Should he tell his wife?

Like it will *never* happen again as he's normally allways a sensible drinker. It's just that the students were teasing him last night and telling him he had to stay longer, and he gave in a stayed [against his better judgement].

2006-12-09 07:44:26 · 3 answers · asked by Put_ya_mitts_up 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have dark brown hair and bright green eyes. A lot of people tell me I'm attractive, but do you like that mix.

2006-12-09 07:43:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should he tell his wife?

Like it will *never* happen again as he's normally allways a sensible drinker. It's just that the students were teasing him l;ast night and telling him he had to stay longer, and he gave in a stayed [against his better judgement].

2006-12-09 07:43:11 · 5 answers · asked by Put_ya_mitts_up 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay! here's my situation... i dated this guy for 2 years we talked everyday and did alot together.. in august he broke it off with me for ni apperant reason, i tried to get him to talk to me about what was wrong but he just clamed up..he wont even speak to me..recently i found out that he is in a relationship WITH ANOTHER GUY!! what am i supposed to do? he still owns my heart. i can't seem to get over this.

2006-12-09 07:43:00 · 9 answers · asked by abby 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband (25) and I (20) have been together for 3 years and married for one. Throughout our relationship I have noticed that we have lost respect for one another and are not able to settle our differences. It's gotten to the point where I'm thinking about filing for divorce.

2006-12-09 07:42:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i finally got the nerve thursday and sent the girl i like and email asking for her phone number the email did include my number. the email was real nice and sincere i say the girl on friday and i was at the computer and she came over to talk to me i can remember her saying that she had to turn in a paper a 2.p.m. and that she was hungry so i ask her did she check her email, she responded by saying that "she really doesn't check her email" then i said i was wandering could i get her phone number so i could talk to her over the break i know she said she had to leave to turn in her paper she said she would be back
i started to feel bad because i thought i lost a good friend true, i do like her i wanted her number to talk to her over the break so i could get to know her better and maybe we could study together the following semester to start things off
i HONESTLY believe she is sweet person and she wouldn't try to hurt me intentionly. i think she has never been in this situation

2006-12-09 07:41:39 · 4 answers · asked by mikerob08 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been going out for about 2 months now. Things were going great the first month but now it isn't like that. She used to call all the time and we'd talk for hours. Recently her parents found out about us and they told her to break it up. So she isn't allowed to talk but she used to call / txt from time to time without her parents knowning but it stopped recently. At first she didn't want to break up, but now it seems like she kind of does want to. I only get to see her during school for very little. We don't really see each other on the weekends because of her parents. So its hard for her to go out. I'm still really into her and I'd like things to continue but recently all I do is wonder if she still feels the same. She once told me she was getting bored too.
Christmas Break is coming up soon so we won't get to see each other for 2 weeks. (Still in High School) Should I break things up?

2006-12-09 07:41:17 · 18 answers · asked by davi921 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing a girl from NC that is going back next weekend, she came up here to finish her college classes and i just happen to meet her at her aunts house. We had a great three weeks, but tomorrow is our last date.
For her graduating, and for the great time we had, i bought her a mothers ring, she has 2 girls11 and 7, they are her life.
Was this an appropriate gift? I just wanted her to know that she deserves a big congrats on finishing her class, and how much she meant to me for the time she was here.
So is it appropriate, would you like a gift like this?
Thank You for any feedback

2006-12-09 07:40:59 · 12 answers · asked by jawtar 2 in Singles & Dating

been with partner six years living together last two. I am engaged but he wont buy a ring ok I can live with it. I support myself.. I sold my cottage and everything in it. I am not allowed to change decor o his house . He supports ex wife has done for 27 years. We are going away for a few days to France he says dont buy euros you can ask if you want anything it makes me feel powerfull!!! Twice he hasnt bothered with my birthday ..he went to Madagascar I wasn`t allowed to go.I do everyhting buy food wash cook clean iron.. and I am so far paying for our wedding. His ex..on hearing we are getting married now has cancer he has strarted picking on me. I buy him presents but nothing seems enough. I am still attractive for 53 dark skinned long hair very slim... yet he tells me I have aged...People are shocked when I tell them my age they think I am in my 40s. Somethings wrong.....

2006-12-09 07:40:41 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I dont know what's happening to me but I cant stop feeling somewhat depressed lately.

I'm usually hanging out with friends a couple of nights during the week but now I dont feel like being around anyone so I'm at home a lot more but then I get so bored and I get frustrated because I dont know what I feel like doing anymore. I tried to keep myself busy by making cookies or something fun like that that I used to love but it's all just so boring for me now. And then today my mom went to give me a hug and I pulled away and just broke down crying telling her I didnt want to be around anybody anymore. She wanted me to go calm down a little and then talk to her about it but instead I went into our basement, left the lights off, and just lied down on the couch thinking for a couple of hours.
I have an appointment with a therapist on Monday but it doesnt feel like thats what I need right now...


And please no smart as-s answers. Im serious about this.

2006-12-09 07:40:22 · 2 answers · asked by addictedpf 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do capricorn men want to control the realationship? Do they expect there mate to call when they say they will?

2006-12-09 07:40:13 · 7 answers · asked by savannahfast 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother is just so grrrrr!I was cleaning the whole house today because we have an open house and when i simply told him to clean his room because I was tired he told me to shut up!shut up!whats wrong with him hes 18 years old and im only 14!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I try to be so nice to him and what do I get back?hmmm how about nothing but his rudeness!Why does he act like this?

2006-12-09 07:39:45 · 16 answers · asked by MaMu 2 in Family

what are your ways of showing a girl youre into her?

2006-12-09 07:39:45 · 6 answers · asked by Uganda O 1 in Singles & Dating

bridle shower information on gifts get get this information how do I get in to this information ?shower for bride is wednesdy .

2006-12-09 07:39:30 · 1 answers · asked by JoAnn J 1 in Weddings

am Eighteen years of age and am so demotivated you will find it difficult to believe. I have the opportunity to go on my first date with a girl but I am Gay and therefore am hesitant. I am so demotivated and therefore lazy...I care little about my Jan A level exams and am basically still at sixth form for the company....I love a great game of Poker and play often but other than that I am a drunken old or young fool when it comes to the world of school. I am not a chava and never have or will be one but lately I have become so distached from Sixth form...Part of it is I really fancy a boy at school and have had the whole is he gay or not thing and now I am not even bothered about him so much...I drink a lot but do not go out and therefore not only do I drink in excess I drink unsocially which I realise as a half educated guy I am taking more than a few steps to becoming an alcoholic or "heavy drinker"...I used to care about wealth and power but lately I am not bothered.This is wrong!

2006-12-09 07:37:46 · 9 answers · asked by Gael Garcia Bernal 1 in Singles & Dating

One of my best buddys mentioned to me to ask me how to deal with a situation with his girl friend.. I was unable to help him with this because i just never was in this sort of situation but anyone who may let me know because i want to help him out a bit, hes a bit of a wreck about what she has told him.. Well, he just started seeing her about a month ago, and yesterday night when he confronted her on a question, she hesitated and responded that it takes her more time to let her self connect with a person. She told him how a long time ago she was raped, now he called me all histerical because he doesnt want to let this ruien his relationship but doesnt see how it couldnt. I told him to ask her questions about it and try to make her feel comfortable but she didnt want to answer his questions.. was that bad advice for me to give him? i just figured that maybe he would want to know a little bit about what happened and not be in the dark about it.. so anyone who has dealt with any girls who

2006-12-09 07:37:40 · 5 answers · asked by re33b9 2 in Singles & Dating