ok Well there is this guy i like him alot and so do 2 other of my friends! 1 of my friends is so obsesed with him he thinks shes annoying but i dont want to heart her feelings if i go out wid him and i really want to ask him but i dont want to heart my friends of imbarris my self if he says no! so how do i win him over all them im really out going and we flirt all the time i really love him i want him for x mass!!!! im only 13 but i still want him sooo bad what should i do!!!!!
2006-12-09 07:53:19 · 8 answers · asked by Tracie M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally when I feel that my friends likes them way more then I do, I just leave the whole thought about the guy alone. I think that you should talk to your friend first. But if you do decide to ask him out, you have to take whatever comes with it such as possibly losing a friend, making your friend uncomfortably, him saying no. That's really a decision you have to make.
2006-12-09 07:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're 13, how old is he? I have been in this position before and my friends and I realized that we do not want to ruin our relationship over some guy! I would probably take a chance and ask him out and if he says no, I guess you can just be friends.
2006-12-09 07:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by Megz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friends are so much better then guys. I know he seems perfect now but later he will be a pain in the ***. If you still really want him then talk to your friend about it if she's okay with it then go for it if not respect that.
2006-12-09 07:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either hurt your friends or not. There is no other way about it. it's that simple. Who do you think you'll have longer anyway? The guy or your friends? I mean you're only 13.
2006-12-09 07:56:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it if you want something bad enough don't let anything stand in your way, besides if you are afraid to hurt your friends just remember if they get mad then they weren't really friends to begin with cause real friends don't let anything come in between them.
2006-12-09 07:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by bjames_0050 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself or ask him you friend should understand if she's a true friend
2006-12-09 07:55:35 · answer #6 · answered by JennBopp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know
2006-12-09 07:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him:)
2006-12-09 07:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋