My brother is just so grrrrr!I was cleaning the whole house today because we have an open house and when i simply told him to clean his room because I was tired he told me to shut up!shut up!whats wrong with him hes 18 years old and im only 14!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I try to be so nice to him and what do I get back?hmmm how about nothing but his rudeness!Why does he act like this?
2006-12-09 07:39:45 · 16 answers · asked by MaMu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
just think how embarrassed he will feel when all those people come over and look at his room and see how dirty it is. HA bros are stupid! They will all look at his room like its a piece of $hit. Let him be, that's on him.
2006-12-09 07:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by lovegwen4 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL.... well.... mm i dont know .. but he is 1 lazy guy:) .. well he probably gets pissed when he gets ordered around by his little sister :) .... well ... If he treated yu like that ... leave his room alone ... maybe after a while his boots will start growing roots... and .. rats will find a warm place to stay in... just leave him do what he wants .. dont be nice to him if he doesnt appreciate you..... :) Deal with ur own room and some parts of teh house .. but leave his room for a change ( take a break).. and see what happens :) .. take care now ....
2006-12-09 15:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get upset. He is 18 year old and you are 14. he doesn't feel he needs to listen to you. Let your parents deal with him and his rudeness. Just leave him alone and don't try and correct him. your not his parent.It has nothing to do with you at this moment you are a kid as far as he is concerned. What a couple years things will change.
2006-12-09 16:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your brother knows he can intimidate you because he's older. I found that the nicer I am to some of my family members, the worse they treat me. I would try to sit and talk with him, or tell your parents, if they don't already know. You seem so angry and I don't blame you. IHow about just leaving his room dirty ,that way your parents will get after him. He's a spoiled brat and please whatever you do DON'T CLEAN HIS ROOM.!! GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-09 16:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by Marilyn B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are old enough for the truth. They are just men. They will be getting on your nervs for the rest of your life.
So get use to it and you could get even. Make pictures of his dirty room, make copies. Hang them on his door and write "If you dont clean you room I will hang copies of these picture at your school. I will title it Blah Blahs room of wonders - girl beware!!. Wonder what the girls will think? PS the original are not in the hous."
That should make him very nervous.
Be sure to hide the pictures at a friends house, he will probably want to search your room.
Good Luck
2006-12-09 15:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by eidunotno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it up to you to boss your older brother around, your parents should set the rules and if he dont listen, then they should be the ones worried about it, truth is he knows you dont have the authority to punish him for not listenig so he doesnt, its not like you can take away his cell phone and ground him, and he uses that against you, Great job for being so responcible, I'de say your parents need to toughen up on him and give you the extra privlages!
2006-12-09 16:16:57 · answer #6 · answered by AntzaGurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does his room have to be clean, just shut the door.
I'm a little confused why you're bossing him around, he's older then you are. What do you expect when you're younger and you boss him around, would you want someone younger then you telling you what to do?
2006-12-09 15:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I don't have any brothers but most boys at that age are usually frusterating. just don't say anything to him for a while let him think about the way he treats people. Don't take it personal he may just have a lot on his mind.
2006-12-09 15:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me I'm around middle school and my brothers 21 it gets really annoying maybe ur brother has something on his mind that wont go away and is taking it on u? or maybe hes doing that on purpose and thinks he can do anything he wants? that's whats always happening to my brother i know how u feel
2006-12-09 15:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by shy-girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he think just because you are the youngest he can boss you no honey tell him like this just cause im the youngest don't mean you can talk to me any kind of way I'm your Lil sister OK now treat me with some respect
2006-12-09 15:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋