We've been going out for about 2 months now. Things were going great the first month but now it isn't like that. She used to call all the time and we'd talk for hours. Recently her parents found out about us and they told her to break it up. So she isn't allowed to talk but she used to call / txt from time to time without her parents knowning but it stopped recently. At first she didn't want to break up, but now it seems like she kind of does want to. I only get to see her during school for very little. We don't really see each other on the weekends because of her parents. So its hard for her to go out. I'm still really into her and I'd like things to continue but recently all I do is wonder if she still feels the same. She once told me she was getting bored too.
Christmas Break is coming up soon so we won't get to see each other for 2 weeks. (Still in High School) Should I break things up?
2006-12-09 07:41:17 · 18 answers · asked by davi921 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's going to be hard if you stay together since you don't get to see each other a lot but if you do then call and text a lot more. If you don't think only seeing each other here and there is not enough then i would brake up w/ her........I hope everything works out for you!
2006-12-09 07:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by *{I'm~your~Girl!}* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, there must be a reason, not necessarily any of your business, why the parents don't want their daughter to see you as a boyfriend. It might not have anything to do with you and it might have everything to do with you.
It's not like the two of you are going to get married so there's really no reason to put the girl at odds with her parents. Just let her go and move on. Make one last call to let her know what your'e doing and why. Then start looking around for other opportunities.
Break it up and move on. Sounds like she probably has already, but doesn't have the experience and skills to tell you.
2006-12-09 15:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion: I think you should break it off. Why? because she probably have some pretty strict parents. They probably don't want her into guys now, because they want her to finish high school. They will say books & boys don't mix. They don't want her to get pregnant while still in high school, that will truly mess up her life. A lot of parents are afraid for their children to grow up. Most Parents want what's best for their children. Parents don't want their children to make the same mistakes they did while growing up. They don't want their daughter to become another statistic. Their are some parents who are okay w/ their child dating at whatever age. Make sure of that next time. You don't want her to get in anymore trouble w/ her parents. Its possible she told you she's bored w/ you cuz of her parents are trying to push her to break up w/ you. I am telling you this cuz I have strict parents, and they said these things to me. I am 22 yrs old w/ no children, and i have been through a lot in my life; both good & bad.
2006-12-09 15:59:38 · answer #3 · answered by teyeli2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is still very young and so are you. If she said she was getting board then chances are she has lost interest with you. If she is no longer trying to contact you or talk to you, I think she has already decided to move on. My advice...You are young an I would move on it just wasn't meant to be.
Also if her parents don't want her to see you then chances are even if she was still interested in you. Her parents would continue to put a wedge between the two of you.
2006-12-09 15:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by msinmn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like her parents have a lot of control, I know youre really into her but I'd suggest trying to move on, because you don't want to end up getting hurt if things don't work out... It does seem like the relationship is not realy going anywhere... so move on honey and meet other ppl...
2006-12-09 15:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by sum2000mayyah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you still really like her, don't break it off. Just enjoy the time you have together at school, and get to know her parents, they might not like you because they don't know you very well.
2006-12-09 15:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure her parents wants you to break up or is this from your GF mouth? I would ask her parents why. I think you deserve that much. just be polite and calm. she might be using this to break up with you.
I would just break up with her. whats the point of going together when you cant really see her. except at school. you will tire of it and move on. so I would just move on.
2006-12-09 15:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by Jecht 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't break up with her just yet. You need to find out what is going on.
Her parents might have frightened her with a warning about seeing you.
The comment about her being bored could mean she is bored because she can't see you hardly anymore.
Ask one of her girlfriends to ask her. Then, they could report back to you.
2006-12-09 15:46:01 · answer #8 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... you should ask her if there is any problems between you two. Invite her over to your house or go over to her house when her parents arn't home. If she doesn't think it is going to work out that way, tell her strait up that she doesn't have enough time for you. People who are going out are supposed to spend time with each other. If you guys can't do that then there is no point of going out.
2006-12-09 15:46:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't BREAK IT OFF, just tell her that instead of her getting in trouble you guys should hold off a while, you're still there for when she can go out with u
2006-12-09 15:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by jawtar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋