i left a question yesterday about how i like this girl at school who i am realy good friends with. we can talk for ages wen we are on our own but she barely speeks to me wen shes with her friends.
alot of you said that she likes me but is worried what her friends will think. wen i do ask her, what should i do about her friends if they dont like me?
2006-12-09 07:50:18 · 12 answers · asked by mr happy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
me and her get along very well together but her friends are completely different to my friends.
2006-12-09 07:58:43 · update #1
first of all you need to ask her when shes alone.
if she really likes you she would probably keep the relationship private and let others figure it out on their own, she may be a very private type of person.
i dont think her mates will mind it, i think they will respect that you are both going out, if they dont like it stay away from them and keep the relationship between you are her private. they have no right to disagree with you two going out. its up to you and your crush, its your relationship not theirs.
im sure if you start to go out you can discuss with the girl you like what is best to do. just stay positive and ask her out then discuss problems later. just get a moment alone with her and you'll be fine, gd luck :)
2006-12-09 07:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by CoolD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind her that friends should like her for who she is and if the person she is is someone who is interested in you than that's just part of who she is. Basically friendship should not be based on conditions, if it is than it is not a real friendship.
There will always be people to disapprove of who she is with and what she does but if she does not go with her heart and her instincts than she will never be happy. Tell her to live for herself not for her friends.
2006-12-09 16:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that you can do is be yourself. Try just talking to her friends, maybe they don't have positive feeling towards you. In all honesty she should be your only concern, you like her not them
2006-12-09 15:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to the bottom line it does not matter what her friends (or YOURS) think.It is what the two of you think. Don't get hung up on other people's opinions (or perceived opinions)
2006-12-09 15:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it my boy,or you will regret it.Don't worry about what her friends think,its about you and the lady,not them.They may be jealous and think that you are taking their friend away or something?maybe try and get to know her Friends also ,be friendly,polite,get to know them and once they see how nice you are ,they may just be supportive of the two of you.best of luck pal
2006-12-09 17:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by pinkydinkydoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fcuk her friends, who cares what they think. take her to one side flirt and make her laugh and then kiss her passionately on the lips. And shes yours, simple!
2006-12-09 15:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by ANTJOHN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she likes you i think you should ask her out because i am like that with a boy and he is now moving and now im sad :(
2006-12-09 16:12:56 · answer #7 · answered by tweetybird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because if you don't you are going to spend the rest or your life wondering what it would have been if you did
2006-12-09 15:55:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop making excuses and ask her.
2006-12-09 15:54:52 · answer #9 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont pay any attention to them
2006-12-09 15:53:13 · answer #10 · answered by caylee d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋