i'm trying to get over this guy__
who played with my heart (mixed signals and games)
i decided to let go today after an episode of depression
last night i sent a text pretending i was having some good time without him
he's just come online now
and had to emphasize he's going out with this girl to a gig
she's called stacey and is his friend from 6th form
he went out with her and some other friends about 4 times in the last week
and i don't know
did he have to say he is going out with her again tonight
just to make me jealous?
coz now i have a pain in my chest
not knowing what to say except "oh cool"
and i said "oh she's that sexy blonde right?"
and he said "yeah the blonde that's sexy"
he doesn't want a girlfriend at the moment.
he doesn't seem guilty of what he did to me
we are chatting like friends right now
i want to say that i miss him
but i feel upset!
2006-12-09 07:05:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and omfg...
he had to say he's speaking to a girl called Jasmin again
(he stopped speaking to her because he had me...now ARGH)
and he HAD TO SAY: i really like her
2006-12-09 07:07:17 · update #1
listen, i just got played by someone two months ago. it was hard for me to get over him but now that i have been meeting guys who dont play games, i see that he was not worth my time. you are beautiful, dont waste your time on a man who is playing with your heart. my mother stayed with my father after he cheated on her and played her...now shes divorced and miserable. dont end up like that honey!!
2006-12-09 07:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by italiana2683 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Damn you sound soo childish. Certainly you have low self esteem, concentrate on your education and get a little wiser. You'll feel better about yourself and may even earn respect from your peers. You are not very photogenic, I am sure you could do something with your hair style or makeup that would give you a more favourable look. Lots of luck
2006-12-09 23:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't react. He's doing one of two things: 1) trying to mess you up and get jealous just for fun which is pretty mean or 2) behaving like a real b ast ard so you get the message that it isnt going to work out between you two.
Whatever he is doing, it is not right. But more than that, it is NOT RELEVANT to you anymore. All the things he is saying, allow them to galvanise you against giving a s hit. Honestly he's so not worth the airtime you're letting him have. Bovvered.
2006-12-09 15:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by teary chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like you need to let go he is a user and you sound like you want and deserve more find someone new and don't hold this clown against them take satisfaction in this one day he will look back and see that he made a huge mistake and then come looking for you when he sees that you have moved on and have a great life with someone who treats you right he will know what a stupid thing he did a probably compound his mistake by marrying the first good looking bimbo he finds who will take him to the cleaners and ruin his life more this is the revenge you can expect live you life without being shallow and you will never regret it don't look at his butt look at his heart instead !
2006-12-09 15:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey Kimee. Just stop right there - he is not worth it. Just put it to one side. There are loads of men out there who would treat you like a princess just because you are gorgeous let alone that you seem nice too. If I was single I'd be there right now for you. He's probably trying to make you jealous to get a reaction, whereas what he should be doing is getting down on his knees and begging for your forgiveness and asking to spend time with you.
2006-12-09 17:32:49 · answer #5 · answered by Hot British Guy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
babes seriously let the man go on with his silly little games . Hes still got time to tell you about his business so that must mean hes thinking about you
If thats youre picture youll have no drama getting a wicked looking new man to blow youre old man out the window and make all your mates jealous aswell.
No drama babes keep SmilingXXXXXXX
2006-12-09 15:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him exactly how you feel. You may not get the answer you want, but at least you have let him know your feelings. You sound pretty hurt. And when a relationship ends, it's the worst feeling possible. But time has a way of healing everything.
2006-12-09 15:17:46 · answer #7 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow you seem to be giving this guy way too much attention that he dosent deserve, and that you are almost forgetting who you are....accept how this guy is and move on before he gives you a heart attack...... you have no control over him or anyone else for that matter only yourself so focus on that for now.
2006-12-10 10:06:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea he is defantly saying this just to make you jelouse. But dont let it get to you. He is a loser and will always be a loser. You deserve better than that. The way to actually get back at him is to always smile no matter what he says or does. eventually he will wonder whats on your mind. and when he walks up to you and ask you then you can sit back and enjoy the fireworks. Never let a guy see your weekness. it kills them when they cant get to us girls.
2006-12-09 15:11:42 · answer #9 · answered by valerie s 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
From the looks of your picture, I would think that you are angry. Why don't you kick back for a while from the men? That will let you relax and think of a revengeful plot against him that includes his new girlfriend. like, castrate him.
2006-12-09 15:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by Cold Fart 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋