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2006-12-09 07:14:45 · 19 answers · asked by Patrick S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree with you. Though the opinion is not popular, that's okay with me! I remember when it was a minority group that had sex before marriage and we ladies understood the value of holding on for 'the one' that understood the treasure was not only worth holding on to just for him, but I was worth his wait because I waited.
Nothing worth it is easy. It wasn't easy to hold on but it was worth so worth it.
People today find that they would be more upset with buying a brand new box of ice cream and find out when they got home that someone's already dipped into it and smooth over the top with a licked spoon than they are today about the sacredness of a lady's virginity. They don't seem to realize that God prepared each of us for "1" mate and the new package is to be opened by that "1" on the great wedding night.
What fun it was to learn everything about each other and know that there was no one else. You can't put a price on that, but the value is overwhelming.
God be with you.
2006-12-09 07:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a Christian, I am obligated to say that it is unBiblican and immoral and wrong. HOWEVER... I understand why it has become so rampant. Young marriage is a popular trend among the Christian young adults today. They marry quickly so as to avoid the temptation of premarital sex. Unfortunatly, over half of all marriages end in divorce. People are too quick to rush into the commitment before they understand the depth of the commitment or know eachother well enough to agree to these terms. I personally- not to condone the sin factor- would do it again. I slept with a few people before marriage. One who I thought was really great. Had I rushed into marriage with him back then, I would have found myself depressed and alone shortly after, when his marijuana problem surfaced (LOL, I know.. what a winner... I honestly had no idea!!!). Sex before marriage is against God's will, but so is divorce. All sins are equal in severity, so it's no worse to "test-drive" the "car" than it is to "voluntarily repossess" it later down the road. In an ideal world, people would remain pure until marriage and that marriage would be held as sacred and last forever... But look around... This is not an ideal world. â¥
2006-12-09 15:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Butterfly ♥ 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I used to think that you should wait for marriage but then I got more realistic. I don't think you should be giving it up while still in high school nor to some 3 month relationship. I think that when you have been with someone for a while and you think to yourself if I did this, would I regret it tomorrow? If this relationship ended some time from now would I be upset because I had sex with him? I want my answer to be "No, I don't regret the decision because I truly did love them". If it so happens that it doesn't happen until I am married then so be it, I am not out looking for it.
If you want to wait though, more power to you!
2006-12-09 15:20:31 · answer #3 · answered by Rx 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's an individual choice. However, I do feel that premarital sex contributes to the insecurity of the relationship even after marriage because the foundation of the marriage wasn't built entirely on trust and the woman is often left feeling inadequacies and jealousy that is hard to overcome but not impossible.
2006-12-09 15:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Each person has to choose for themselves. Not everyone wants to get married or SHOULD get married, however I don't think they should miss out on the joys of sex because of no marriage. I don't think sex is just for procreation alone, I fell it is also for recreation and should be enjoyed by those MATURE enough to handle it.
2006-12-09 15:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First, people should realize that not everyone is ALLOWED to even get married because of idiot conservatives like Bushitler and his religious following of sheep. Secondly, there are people who don't even WANT to get married (ME!). Why not live up the single life? Personally, my view on marriage is that it's a suicide pact. The only thing that's good about it is that there are financial benefits.
Sex, on the other hand, is all good! As long as participants take precautions to be as safe as possible, I don't give a crap what the hell they're into. I'm all open-minded! *smiles* Anything kinky, all fetishes... perfectly acceptable. Why be tied down to someone when you can be with everyone? As far as we know it, there's only one life to live. Life's too short to NOT have "meaningless" sex. Hehe...
2006-12-09 15:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
I don't believe in it. I believe that sex is for married people only. I was a virgin bride at the age of 28. And I have never regreated it once. I gave my husband a wonderful gift on our wedding night. God forbid something were to happen to the love of my life. I would not make love again until I was married again... To me love making is that special! It should only be givin to your husband/wife.
2006-12-09 15:46:38 · answer #7 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i personally, believe that sex b4 marriage is ok. as long as you love and respect each other. and if ur going to do it. don,t leave everything to chance protect urself and ur partner. even if both are virgins. when ur ready to start a family. then lose the condom( or other device). but till then play safe,,,, it,s the best way.
2006-12-09 15:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by chas46135 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't have a problem with it at all. As long as all parties are over the age of 18, use protection to help control the spread of disease and help prevent pregnancy. It's a personal choice, and it is none of my business if people have premarital sex.
However, with sexual activity comes responsibility. If you are willing to play you must be willing to pay.
2006-12-09 15:20:58 · answer #9 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
It's ok... if ur partner to be is also of the same view...if not it's bad..
most guys want prematial sex and they can't accept the idea of marrying a girl who had it....it's not fair.
2006-12-09 15:22:26 · answer #10 · answered by >>>♥<<< 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋