I don't want a long term relationship, for 6 months if i date her will get into trouble in fututre
2006-12-09 07:20:06 · 10 answers · asked by smartcamal1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. I think that if she is seriously looking for someone to be part of her family and you are not you should be honest with her though. She has another life to care for and the child (ren) needs stability not someone in and mystically gone out of their life. Just try to remember there is more than 1 heart involved in the relationship when you are dating a single mom if you are also actively involved with the child(ren).
2006-12-09 07:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by snowangel101224 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting into a relationship with a single mom, when you don't want a long term relationship is selfish. After 6 months, her children will probably get to know you and when you decide to sever the relationship you will be hurting them as well.
On the other hand, if she is a 'loose' women who has 'accidently' had her other children, you could be the next one on the line for child support.
If you are just looking to fool around, get a vasectomy so you won't have to worry about future commitments and find someone who doesn't have children at risk. Even if the mother is willing to go short term, someone needs to consider the impact on the lives of the kids.
2006-12-09 15:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by TMH 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want something long term, then find someone without kids. The reason I'm saying this, is that when you invest in a relationship, you invest in the child, and if you're not serious about her, you can hurt the little kid. So either commit, or move on....Don't string anybody along, it's not the right thing to do.
2006-12-09 15:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by FRANKFUSS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea sure! You sound like a dork.! True relationships are too hard to find. Since she has responsibilities beyond your knowledge, maybe you should spend time learning what life is like down in the dirty diapers and overdue bills. Maybe you might find your reward of spiritual life and renewal in a simple MOM. Some one to cherish and be cherished back by.
Ahhh you kids are lost!
2006-12-09 15:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants the same thing, it's fine.
BUT ... This relationship needs to stay between you and her. Don't get involved with her kid(s). At all. They don't need men coming and going from their lives all the time. (If she's half-smart, she'll know this already, and she won't want you spending time with her kids unless you're going to be a long-term fixture in their lives, anyway.)
2006-12-09 15:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by some chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there's risk in dating any one but with a single mom you risk a innocent child becoming attached to you and hurting a kid when you abandon the mother. knock your rocks somewhere else
2006-12-09 15:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are totally upfront and not misleading anyone, then it would be her choice whether or not to date you for 6 months. Don't lie about it.
2006-12-09 15:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The risk is that you might become a single dad.
2006-12-09 15:21:52 · answer #8 · answered by bdenton2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay "SmartCamel"
Your dumb!!!
2006-12-09 15:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by OldSchoolLove 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋