Family & Relationships - 9 December 2006

I don't see it as necessary. I have never had an emotional attatchment to a woman, and I never will. I don't feel like putting an effort into loving someone else. Why is it worth loving someone else? I don't care if I die alone. My life is about me, and no one else. If I was with someoene else, it would no longer be about me. It would be about US, which I don't like. I would enjoy my life drinking wine and living in the Carribbean. I have heard so many people say the biggest mistake they ever made was getting married or getting a girlfriend. I don't think it is worth the stress dealing with a woman my whole life. I could probably function just as well alone. I don't even need them for sex.

2006-12-09 08:49:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friends say he looks and grins at me all the time when he says something funny or smart. is it possible he likes me a little? also im not going to ask him because im to shy.

2006-12-09 08:48:58 · 23 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents are incapable of communication, they give me attitude in everything I do. They say really mean things to me, and the moment I try to reason with them they start making fun of me. What bothers me most of all is they ask me why IM NASTY!!! Its hard to be sweet and nice in this house and I am getting really fed up with it. They say if I dont like the system we have so I can leave...that would work, if I had money/job transportation, a high school diploma, a license, and oh yeah, A DESTINATION...I am a pathetic 18 year old, I need to get out of here..any solutions anyone??? and dont suggest walking, because its Massachusettes and very cold right now.

2006-12-09 08:48:37 · 12 answers · asked by flyingtomercy 1 in Family

is wanting something or someone that is taken by someone else... a bad thing? in particular, guys. and is it your opinion that if you really want this person should you tell them how you feel, even it can make things uncomfortable. is the risk worth it.

2006-12-09 08:48:18 · 14 answers · asked by Kate 5 in Singles & Dating

i have a question
its about my dream the other night
i had a dream that i was going to marry my true love
what does this dream mean?

2006-12-09 08:46:55 · 22 answers · asked by Andrew B 1 in Singles & Dating

This is from years and years ago but it just hit me...on a first date with this gal she tells me she is a virgin...why? I did not make any assertions that I was planning on going there with her so soon...

2006-12-09 08:46:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are stubborn and have goals and want to go to college. or do they like other types of people.I am a freshmen in high school and this has really been on my mind allot.

2006-12-09 08:45:25 · 8 answers · asked by Fire 2 in Singles & Dating

when they have an orgasm?

2006-12-09 08:45:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a teenager, and it seems as though dating is almost completely extinct. So this question is directed towards teenage girls, but anyone can answer. Would you like to be asked out on more dates with guys one on one? Or is dating not your thing, and there is a reason why it has gone out of style

2006-12-09 08:43:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Under normal circumstances, I'd never dream of asking this question, though, after seeing a similar question on this board regarding professional help in NYC and decided to field the question.

While I've never had much success in my social life, especially when attempting to convince a girl to accompany me on a date, I've had no luck at all since arriving in DC two years ago and am desperately lonely. Furthermore, while I would much prefer an actual relationship with a girl to a sexual liaison, I can't seem to find a girl willing to have either with me.

I've reached a point where I am so desperate and so lonely that I am starting to consider utilizing the services of a "professional woman" and was wondering if any of you knew where I could locate such services in Washington, DC.

Thank you in advance for any help you can provide.

PS. I'm more then aware of the risks involved and have yet to reach a final decision as to whether I will act on this information.

2006-12-09 08:42:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hes not my boyfriend but we act like it well at least use to but were in love how do i know if hes still in love because he says he is but doesnt act the same from when he first met

2006-12-09 08:42:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When did this site become a little kids site???Where the hell are your parents and why are they letting you on singles/dating when your like 10??And i can't believe 12-14 year old talking about having sex......glad i don't have kids,i would beat their @ss if i knew they were saying the things i'm hearing on here!!

2006-12-09 08:42:37 · 17 answers · asked by sugar_n_spice 5 in Singles & Dating

Me and my three friends (All in our late 20's) have formed a team to help out our neighborhood. I wear a Jar Jar Binks costume and am the leader. Then there is the guy who wears the Grimace costume, he is the strong man. Then there is the guy who is a convicted sex offender, he wears a trenchcoat like the matrix. And lastly, their is "The Professional", he wears a cardboard Burgerking crown and a fake muscle suit. We walk around town and knock on random doors. When the person answers, I dance and do a Jar Jar quote, then make a loud screech with an air horn. While the person is reeling from the sound, the sex offender confesses that he is a sex offender (as required by his parole). Then the grimace throws some leaves and dirt into the persons house. And lastly, Muscle King plays 'me so horny' on his boombox and we dance. We have done this to hundreds of houses. Are we some kind of kings? I don't know how?

2006-12-09 08:42:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 08:42:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf has suggested going to a nude beach. but what exactly are they??? do people just lay around naked?

2006-12-09 08:42:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she is 5'2 she wieghs 100 pound and she is pretty?

2006-12-09 08:41:21 · 8 answers · asked by LiiL J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-09 08:41:02 · 8 answers · asked by abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxy.....uh 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, I noticed that ive got an itchy tingly sensation in my bum every 55 minutes or around that time so i crouched down with a mirror on the floor and pulled my bum cheeks apart and to my horror there was an eel staring at me from my bum! I went downstairs to ask family if this was normal and they told me that father has been planting eel eggs in my bum to feed the kippers in the kipper farm in our garden! I mean I love the kippers but surely they dont all get fed from eels from bums do they? sent

2006-12-09 08:40:53 · 42 answers · asked by fletch 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have not been out for 8 yrs and I panick at the thought of going out. I always make excuses. I can do friendly and superficial with friends and family but I really panic if someone from work asks me out. I was invited to a xmas do...but politely refused. I just feel that I am so behiind the times and have no life thatsooner or later I will be the subject of gossip, that so caled friends will tire of me and I will eventually get hurt.

I only feel open enoough with my nieces and possiblymy sister. I just see a lot of falseness in people and I am scared people will take advantage.Like last year the same work girls went out and they took the piss out of one of the girls because she wears the same dress each year. I don't want false friends therfore would prefer to be alone but then i also feel I am missing out too. Help what do I do?

I'm 31 single and female. The last time I went out was oct 2005, the time before that was Aug 2002, and the time before that Feb 1999. I have not had

2006-12-09 08:39:45 · 31 answers · asked by Mollie-new-scott 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love or i think i love hubby and children now with grands I dont show them enough love I feel like a basket case and i should be strung up by a rope. I missed the opportunity to see the world as in armed forces which i wanted to do but didnt get the chance.But now i am here with my mind on other things.

2006-12-09 08:39:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my son's father ( after being in a rocky situation with each other for some time) got back on good terms and actually started talking about a relationship with each other. He has never met our son since he was born, but he and I started talking about actually meeting him some time ago. I was extremely excited for all of us Well, all of a sudden, I didn't hear anything from him anymore. Not one "hello" or " Hey, how's the kid doing?"Nothing. My question is what does it mean and should I contact him and get clarity on why he just stopped talking to me all of a sudden? Should I go off on him when I do, or just leave it alone all together?

2006-12-09 08:39:06 · 8 answers · asked by BABYGIRL 1 in Singles & Dating

My bestfriend's girlfriend broke up with him yesterday.
they were seeing each other for almost 2 years...he is really sad about it... I called him to go to some parties, but he is not in the mood...he just wants to sit at home...
But I saw his ex-girlfriend today in a party with another guy.

I told him I saw her at a party and he got upset about it.
Should I tell him I saw her kissing another guy?? what should I do??

2006-12-09 08:38:59 · 11 answers · asked by Jek 1 in Friends

I'm the kind of guy who likes to bring joy to people who are sad, Some people might say I'm a hero. I use the ultimate symbol of happiness, Jar Jar Binks. I wear an elaborate Jar Jar costume/mask while trying to help. I wanted to help some really depressed people, so I put on my costume and hung around the cemetary. A funeral started, it was for a man that died. His wife and family were there. I tried to cheer them up by doing Jar Jar dances, and yelling Jar Jar quotes at the top of my lungs. I stood next to the priest who was talking and screamed. I danced around, pulled up clumps of dirt and threw them, and made loud noises with my air horn. Some guy told me to get out of there but I didn't listen. I pulled out my toy light saber and started poking the corpse with it while singing Jar Jar songs. People started yelling at me and others were crying. Some people began to chase me but I ran around, screaming. Eventually, the dead guys brother punched me. Do you think I should sue him?

2006-12-09 08:38:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that I have known since I was a freshman and he has been my best friend since then. Now we are both married and have one boy each. I thought it would be nice if they played together but his wife odes not want anything to do with me or my child. She won't even let me talk to my friend. We have never dated or even thought about it. We have never done anything except hang out as friends. She never had a problem before we had kids with but now I dont know. She was a good friend to she knew us in school and was also a close friend to us. So what do you think her problem is? My husband has no problem with it.I mean good gosh we are just friends. Why does she have a problem with it now? I have asked her and she just ignored it.

2006-12-09 08:38:18 · 6 answers · asked by ♥TEENYTINY♥ 3 in Friends

2006-12-09 08:38:10 · 18 answers · asked by iDontKnowWhatToDo 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently took a flight to the annual Jar Jar Binks convention in West Horton, Ohio. I did not want to pack my Jar Jar costume as it is extremely expensive, but it wouldn't fit in a carry on, so I had to wear it. First, the search at the airport was a human rights violation. The airport security was very rude, and made me give up the two blasters I had on, then got mad at me because of my elaborate costume, saying it took so long to search it held up the line. Then when I finally got on the plane, the stewardess said I couldn't wear my Jar Jar mask, and the two people sitting next to me (I was in the middle), grumbled because my costume took up too much space and had stuff sticking out. After takeoff, I got in the aisle, put on my mask, and danced and yelled to entertain the other travelers. The stewardess tried to stop me but I ran screaming down the aisle, and then dove into a bunch of peoples laps. I was restrained for the rest of the flight. Do you think I can sue for harrasement?

2006-12-09 08:37:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yesterday I called my bffs bf and we talked for five hours. This really made my friend mad. The worst part is that I told her what her bf and I talked about which was masturbation. Was this wrong in the first place and is it wrong that I like him and I think that he likes me?

2006-12-09 08:37:43 · 2 answers · asked by Coolfunnygal 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't see it as necessary. I have never had an emotional attatchment to a woman, and I never will. I don't feel like putting an effort into loving someone else. Why is it worth loving someone else? I don't care if I die alone. My life is about me, and no one else. If I was with someoene else, it would no longer be about me. It would be about US, which I don't like. I would enjoy my life drinking wine and living in the Carribbean. I have heard so many people say the biggest mistake they ever made was getting married or getting a girlfriend. I don't think it is worth the stress dealing with a woman my whole life. I could probably function just as well alone.

2006-12-09 08:37:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that are not trustworthy and treat you badly most of the time or a couple of true friends that have your bad, through good and bad etc.....

2006-12-09 08:37:28 · 16 answers · asked by KnOwLeDgE_iS_PoWeR 3 in Friends

I had been seeing this guy for quite a few months but 3 weeks ago ended things. This was because we both agreed things would be kept casual due to our busy jobs/schedules but I began to develop deep feelings for him. When I told him (via txt) as he was abroad at the time he wrote that he understood because he felt the same way and for me to ring if I wanted to talk. I didn't call. Instead I've been regretting ending it ever since. So the other day i sent him an email wishing him good luck for an important meeting he was having and he replied back saying thanks and how he'd recently gone to a gallery opening which I would have liked. Now what? I feel so stupid going back on my words and he hasn't mentioned anything either....but I truely regret this. Advice please.

2006-12-09 08:36:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating