Family & Relationships - 9 December 2006

The guys I mostly attract are nerds and guys that aren't too hott (no offense). I never get approached. I'm 18, freshman in college, and have never had a relationship. I did have crushes in the past, but those never worked out. I had this major crush on this guy for like a year, but now he's going out with my pretty friend. Of course, they don't know I ever had a crush on him. I wear braces, but I know that doesn't have anything to do as to why I can't get a guy.

I can't even date outside of my religion, and all the guys at church are practically taken. That means I can't date any of them at all because they've already dated a friend of mine. I can't even impress guys outside of chruch. Maybe because I'm not into all the things other girls are into. I'm not into partying. I love the visual arts and want to go to medical school. Am I too nerdy? It's like I have no confidence in myself sometimes. I don't even know how to talk to a guy I like.

2006-12-09 09:23:52 · 11 answers · asked by treehugger06 2 in Friends

My boyfriend of about 10 months respects my decision in waiting till marriage to have sex. Sure it's hard sometimes ... but we've managed to wait for almost a year now. Just a couple more to go!


I'm just wondering. I know it's hard for guys to wait because their brains are pretty much wired to think about sex all the time and want to have sex all the time and all that.

So....... how many of you guys are actually willing to wait to have sex with the one you love?

Honestly, I don't think many WOULD wait. That's why I feel pretty lucky...

2006-12-09 09:23:37 · 3 answers · asked by ( Kelly ) 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have had the feeling lately that he's been cheating on me. He keeps getting text messages and calls on his phone from some strange phone number. So, I asked him about it and he says it's some crazy woman who's 45, we're 25 by the way, who came into his work and is now obsessed with him. He said he's never seen her outside of the store. He has been going out a lot lately too with guy friends and not coming home until 5am. I felt like the writing was on the wall so I called her today to ask if she is with my boyfriend. She was really quiet at first and then would only say that I should ask him because it isn't her place to tell me his personal business. I basically begged her to tell me even a yes or no if they've been together and she wouldn't. I feel like that was a solid YES from her since if she didn't know him at all, she'd say so in the first place. I want to kick him out tonight if he's cheating. Do you think that call to her is enough proof? He's going to deny it anyways. HELP!

2006-12-09 09:22:56 · 9 answers · asked by goddessgirl917 1 in Singles & Dating

The more sex you have, the more you don't get emotionally attached?

2006-12-09 09:22:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 09:22:09 · 20 answers · asked by lizzie s 1 in Singles & Dating

She has all potiental, all girls are jealous of her, she rocked the runway , even when Caridee ripped her dress..... She wons the most of challenge, she is strong, know how to handle all the challenge, she is smart, she is intelligent about fashion , she rocks and blah blah blah She is A merica Next Top Model in my heart.

2006-12-09 09:21:56 · 4 answers · asked by Long T 1 in Singles & Dating

been seeing this dude for months and all we've been doing is having sex... he hasn't even taken me out! everytime i go to his house he only prepares food for himself and can't even offer me a drink!! i'm a very shy person, so i sent him an email telling him i needed more than just good sex and he responded by kissing me... he said he'd reply to my email and to this day he still hasn't.. though i see him everyday as he works with me. despite my plea he's still making sexual advances and doesn't seem to know how this is hurting my self esteem... good thing i'm strong, though! i'm too polite to tell him to **** off, so how should i put it to him without sounding stupid? i have a lot of admirers who want my affection and do respect me and want to cut this guy off completely, how do i tell him to stop bull shitting me once and for all? serious answers only please

2006-12-09 09:21:33 · 41 answers · asked by get outta here howdy 1 in Singles & Dating

Anyone find it wierd that there are so many people looking for a GF/BF out there? i mean seriously its like all u hear is people saying i wnat a GF i wnat a BF etc. why can't people find each other? is it cuase people set their standards too high? is it bad timing? anyone have any comments on this?

2006-12-09 09:20:46 · 11 answers · asked by DA-LL /Male/ 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my friend fight last week. So we got suspende 3 days. Then my friend didn't want to be my friend. She spread a rumor about me having a girlfriend which I'm a girl. So everybody in my class called me a lesbian. That is sexual harrasment. If so can I reported to the principle so my ex best friend will be suspended again.

2006-12-09 09:20:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend of 5 years within the last year has started calling me names when we fight. The one that I hate the most is the C word. Can he still love me and call me this when we fight?

2006-12-09 09:20:26 · 7 answers · asked by wondering 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 5 years within the last year has started calling me names when we fight. The one that I hate the most is the C word. Can he still love me and call me this when we fight?

2006-12-09 09:19:59 · 20 answers · asked by wondering 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend has let me know that even though she loves me, she is not in love with me. We have broken up several times but she continues to want to have sex and be together but with no relashionship commitment. I for one would like to devote more time in a relashionship that will take us both forward in life. she on the other hand wants to hang out with her friends and party most of the time. We lived together for a bit but I saw her less then than I do now. she is very affectionate to me when were together and she does work 3 jobs. i work 1 and make the same money. I think that she needs to focus her life into a more productive path but I won't say anything till I'm sure. here friend do drink an "smoke" all the time, I don't mind but not all the time for me. HELP!

2006-12-09 09:19:37 · 5 answers · asked by lumendelsol 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-09 09:19:16 · 31 answers · asked by arum 3 in Singles & Dating

Well I liked this boy and we were talking and everything as friends but he has a girlfriend n she called me talking crap n saying that I need to leave her boyfriend alone and stuff. So I was like whatever n stuff. U know how that goes. I told her that she shouldn't be getting mad at me because I was only trying to be friends with him. So now after all that happened. I feel lost, confused and I feel like I ruined everything because of how I handled the situation. I don't wanna call him cuz she's gonna answr the phone and stuff. It's like I lost him or something. I can't even concentrate on anything. I can't even explain how I feel right now.

I wonder how he really feels about me but now I'll never find that out because of his girlfriend and her dumb jealousy. I'm so sick of everthing right now. I feel so alone. I have other friends and stuff to talk to but I wanted to get to know him. Omg. I sound so stupid. I just want to win his heart or be friends with him. Excuse me if I sound dumb

2006-12-09 09:18:45 · 8 answers · asked by iluvashtonkutcher676 2 in Singles & Dating

I see these questions posted on here and was curious myself. I weighed 115 at 5' 3" when we married in 97 and now I am 175. So 10 years later, yup, I am fat cow.

Working on losing the weight, but can weight be a big issue for sex drive? Are all men caught up with appearance? Just windering.

2006-12-09 09:18:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the guy i like who i have got to know very well has just told me he has a GF and they got together last week.when he told me in my mind i was really upset and angry but i will not ever come between a couple.should i tell him that i like him? i really do,and i dont know what to do.i would love to go out with him,please help,im feelin a bit disappointed

2006-12-09 09:18:30 · 8 answers · asked by *cutie with a bootie* 3 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy in my drama class but he has a gf what should i do?

2006-12-09 09:18:00 · 28 answers · asked by littlewitch19912006 2 in Singles & Dating

brake ups

2006-12-09 09:16:19 · 5 answers · asked by lvr grl 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy online about three years ago while i was selling an extra concert ticket. come to find out that he lived less than a mile from me. we met and things where real nice. we dated for about two years and than out of the blue he emailed me to tell me that he met some girl on e-harmony and that in order to be fair to her, we could not speak again. i was so upset, but about after a mnth i was doing better. about 2 mnths later i got an im from him saying that he wanted to talk. so we did. he said he mae a big mistake and wanted to slowly do things right for the both of us. so stupid me took him back. Now he wants to move away because he cant keep a job here and told me he wants to remain friends. thing is he wont call me back and we dont talk for days on end. He used to come over alot because his mom and dad dove him crazy. if this happened to my friends, i would tell them to dump the loser, but for some reason, i thinki still love him and my world seems to be crashing. the thing is

2006-12-09 09:16:12 · 1 answers · asked by carriec 7 in Singles & Dating

I have been divorced for 10 years and my ex and I have a daughter together who is now 15. She and he are not very close and I was always wondering whether I should be the one to purchase gifts for birthdays, Christmas, for my ex's mother, or should he? I realize that this is my daughters Grandmother but I was just not sure of the etiquette. We live in a different state so it is not like she even sees her grandmother that much. Her grandmother does send her Christmas and Birthday gifts. Should I continue to purchase the Christmas gifts or should this be her father's responsibility. By the way.....the father does not buy our daughter anything for her birthday or Christmas.

2006-12-09 09:16:00 · 7 answers · asked by jeanac44 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you are 33 yrs old, what would be the age limit for you, for a woman, as a potential date? Would you date a forty something, or fifty something, if they were slim, attractive, and young at heart, or would you consider it too old?

2006-12-09 09:15:53 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HE IS NOW GOIN OUT WITH MY BEST FREIND AND I DON'T IF KNOW IF I SHOULD BE FRIENDS WITH HIM BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO MISS THINGS UP WITH THEM BUT ME AND HIM ARE STILL GOOD FRIENDS. SHOULD I STILL TALK TO HIM OR JUST LEAVE HIM BE.I NEED REAL HELP LIKE BAD.I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE PLEASE CAN YOU HELP I WELL WRITE MORE LATER. BYE FOR NOW

2006-12-09 09:15:43 · 6 answers · asked by LilTee 2 in Singles & Dating

i really want a cell phone but my mom said no, then she said she might. what can i do to get a cell phone,to get her to say yes

2006-12-09 09:15:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 09:14:24 · 17 answers · asked by cinpooh44 2 in Singles & Dating

Im not ugly,dull,or SMELL...seriously

2006-12-09 09:14:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At my school we have honor club and the guy I like is also in it and on valentines day anyone can send chocolates or flowers or even both. How much is there a chance of the guy I like will send me chocolates and/ or flowers???

2006-12-09 09:12:41 · 14 answers · asked by Monica C 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a strong feeling that my grandma doesn't like me, but because I go after my mom who is outspoken. She is the rich perky tipe, and that's just not me. She is trying to riase my sisters to be like her, and she can't get to me. How do I know that she actually likes me as much as my sisters???

2006-12-09 09:12:29 · 2 answers · asked by .:Feliciano:. 3 in Family

2006-12-09 09:12:04 · 8 answers · asked by prettyjessie484u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ideas?????????

2006-12-09 09:11:47 · 24 answers · asked by arum 3 in Singles & Dating

yesterday when my wife came home from work she was really in a bad mood i tried to cheer her up by saying nice things, but she didn't tell me what was wrong so i started kissing her neck and she pushed me off of her saying that all i was, was nothing but a dog and i only wanted sex from her. she stormed out the house and i asked her where she was going and she said no where. she didn't come back till 3 hours later when she came back there was a change in her mood because she was cheerfull and i asked her what cheered her up and she said noONE! anyways figuring she was in a good mood last night i tried to 'get it on' by rubbing her back and working my hands down on her because i wanted to try some new postitions with her that i knew she liked. but she fired off at me yelling at me which hurt me. and it isn't just sex she snaps at everything i do she use to love the things i do. i even tried new stuff just in case she was bored that didn't work. what should i do i don't want to lose her?

2006-12-09 09:11:25 · 13 answers · asked by jeff d 1 in Marriage & Divorce