Well I liked this boy and we were talking and everything as friends but he has a girlfriend n she called me talking crap n saying that I need to leave her boyfriend alone and stuff. So I was like whatever n stuff. U know how that goes. I told her that she shouldn't be getting mad at me because I was only trying to be friends with him. So now after all that happened. I feel lost, confused and I feel like I ruined everything because of how I handled the situation. I don't wanna call him cuz she's gonna answr the phone and stuff. It's like I lost him or something. I can't even concentrate on anything. I can't even explain how I feel right now.
I wonder how he really feels about me but now I'll never find that out because of his girlfriend and her dumb jealousy. I'm so sick of everthing right now. I feel so alone. I have other friends and stuff to talk to but I wanted to get to know him. Omg. I sound so stupid. I just want to win his heart or be friends with him. Excuse me if I sound dumb
2006-12-09 09:18:45 · 8 answers · asked by iluvashtonkutcher676 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's known her longer than me and they just got together a few weeks ago. I don't know what I should do. It's stupid to fight over him because he's not my boyfriend.
2006-12-09 09:19:32 · update #1
I have romantic feelings for him and I don't want to pursue him but not if he has a girlfriend and wants her.
2006-12-09 09:34:22 · update #2
Lol, I mean I do wanna be with him
2006-12-09 09:34:54 · update #3
awwww it's ok. I know what this is like. I went to his house when she wasn't there and gave hima letter with everything i felt in it. But i know you dont wanna hear this......u should honestly just move on. Remember if he was gonna cheat on her he would do the same to you. What goes around comes around and you don't want anymore stress comeing around to you. good luck honey and if you need someone to talk to. venicewilson@yahoo.com
2006-12-09 09:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by Ven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know how you feel!! It hurts and i'm sorry you have to go through that!!! I would not come between them. I would still be friends of course but I would not try to be more than friends with someone who is already taken. It will end up hurting even more in the long run. Keep being his friend!!! Show that you will not abandon your friendship, because this girl is fronting you. Be proud that you are not losing your friend because your feelings are hurt by soemone who isn't your friend.
2006-12-09 17:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by aprilsdad97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you *really* have no romantic interest in the guy, then you're ok. But it will really be up to the guy. If he succumbs to his girlfriends pressure to not speak with you, there's nothing you can do about it. Try calling once or twice. Explain the situation to him. Then he will have to make his decision.
2006-12-09 17:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by Quagmire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to calmly talk to his girlfriend and let her know that you just want to be friends with him. U shouldn't make him or her feel like your trying to pursue him. Just talk everything out.
2006-12-09 17:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were just trying to be friends, just give him some space. If he's into you, he will find a way to get in touch with you.
As Sting sang, "If You Love Somebody Set Them Free..."
2006-12-09 17:25:16 · answer #5 · answered by don.giovanni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your friendship ment anything.. you guys need to talk and you need to tell him whats going on. Plan and simple.
2006-12-09 17:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by Isabella Moore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id back off till he dumps her lmao
2006-12-09 17:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by jacklint 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get his number
2006-12-09 17:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋