My bestfriend's girlfriend broke up with him yesterday.
they were seeing each other for almost 2 years...he is really sad about it... I called him to go to some parties, but he is not in the mood...he just wants to sit at home...
But I saw his ex-girlfriend today in a party with another guy.
I told him I saw her at a party and he got upset about it.
Should I tell him I saw her kissing another guy?? what should I do??
2006-12-09 08:38:59 · 11 answers · asked by Jek 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
do whats is best for your friend, wait a couple days untill he gets over it and tell him. he will appriciate you waiting for him untill he felt better
2006-12-09 08:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by Double A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he got upset that she was at a party, i think he would lose it if you told him she was kissing another guy. maybe wait a little bit when he has cooled down, and then tell him. he might feel that she wasnt woth it anyway. or if he is still in love, it could just hurt him. you caould also give him scenarios such as: lets say jhonny's girlfriend broke up with him. his friend told him that he saw her kissing antoher guy. if you were jhonny, what would you do?
change it a little bit, dont let him catch on that you know something.
or
you could say that there is something bad you need to tell him, but you dont want to hurt him. say that you dont want to keep a secret from him any longer and it would be better if he knew. you know what im talking about? make him want to know the news, and then tell him.
good luck!
2006-12-09 08:46:17 · answer #2 · answered by depressed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
puzzling... one situation you need to save in thoughts is that you'll honestly be causing damage for your pal. For me it's going to quite matter on countless issues.. I mean, if the guy in common words did it as a one-time situation, you may really opt to reassess telling your perfect pal about her bf dishonest... even with the undeniable fact that it the guy's actual jerk, and also you realize (no longer imagine) it truly is going to be worse of he and your perfect pal stay at the same time... then it truly is a completely different problem... you may opt to search for suggestion from out of your perfect acquaintances bf first... I discovered the puzzling way that some human beings may really only opt to stay interior the darkish... Your boyfriend is nice in announcing you've a responsibility for your perfect pal... i only won't be able to assert for particular even if meaning telling her or no longer..
2016-11-25 01:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg that is hard DONT TELL HIM hes sad enough give him time let him figure it out HONESTLY DONT SAY ANYTHING!!!! He may be sucidal....i dont now him he really must of liked her 4 two freakin years let him grieve its hard for the heart but good 4 the soul =]
2006-12-09 08:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by Bam Bam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No the worst thing you can do is bring up his ex. The last thing he wants to hear is that his ex is already making out with another girl.
2006-12-09 08:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by Smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could go both ways....you tell him he gets ticked and hurt.
or
He gets ticked and gets over her faster.
or.....you're in the middle and looked how he reacted with just knowing she was there.
just a thought
Best wishes
2006-12-09 08:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him yet just leave him alone and let him get over it he will get depression I know it happened to my friend to
2006-12-09 08:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by Alice C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know he is ur best friend but he doesnt want to know anything about her so dont tell him because yuo will just make him even more upset
2006-12-09 08:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by magdaly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, being a friend means telling them the trueth no matter how painful
2006-12-09 08:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm....NO! # 1 its not his business and # 2 that will just add feul to the fire....
2006-12-09 08:46:05 · answer #10 · answered by autumn w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋