Me and my son's father ( after being in a rocky situation with each other for some time) got back on good terms and actually started talking about a relationship with each other. He has never met our son since he was born, but he and I started talking about actually meeting him some time ago. I was extremely excited for all of us Well, all of a sudden, I didn't hear anything from him anymore. Not one "hello" or " Hey, how's the kid doing?"Nothing. My question is what does it mean and should I contact him and get clarity on why he just stopped talking to me all of a sudden? Should I go off on him when I do, or just leave it alone all together?
2006-12-09 08:39:06 · 8 answers · asked by BABYGIRL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has already made not attempt to be in the child's life, and now you want an explanation. Well, it should be very obvious to you. He is selfish and uncaring. I would just keep taking care of him (the child) and do your best. You many never get an answer from his father, and even if you do, how are you going to trust he is telling you the truth? Actions speak louder than words. He has other things that he finds more important than his child. My guess is he has many children. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-09 08:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, lets just put it this way regaurdless you are always going to be in ur son's life..the father may not. I say leave it alone because of the simple fact that it is the father's responsibility to contact you to see his child not urs. If you call him and cuss him out that might make him push away from his child even more cuz he will have to deal with you. Sad to say that most men who are like this hardly stick around enough for their child to bond with them.. but then hell might freeze over and they might relize what they are missing out on. Do you..Dont bother even asken him why he stopped talking to you, its just a waste of your time and energy...Good luck
2006-12-09 08:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, As a guy... He might be withdrawing from you because he's scared... not to be funny.. but he might be scared that his child might not accept him or that you may have a hidden agenda...The best thing would be to call him and talk to him and try not to pressure him... he might not anwser the phone the first time.. but leave a nice Voice mail... wait a couple of hrs and call him again... and dont do the calling evry 5 minutes thing(blowing up the cell phone) ... that will scare him even more.. take your time
2006-12-09 08:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by Armani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your sons sake do what you feel is right. cause you don't want your son growing up without a father, but I think that if he wanted to be in your sons life he would have been there a long time ago.
I hope I helped you out.
Best of luck!!!
2006-12-09 08:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by CUTIE26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"might come overdue at night to determine him rather of daytimes".. that's because of fact he wasn't there to determine his son, yet to objective his success with mummy. appears like there is been some wishful thinking on your section. Please tell me you probably did no longer supply him what he got here for - besides the shown fact that i think of you probably did, did no longer you? so which you're feeling slightly used now? in no way techniques. i'm no longer right here to kick you once you're down. whether you probably did or did no longer; the guy is a classification a million bumhole and the terrific factor you're able to do for you and your son is wish he does not come interior a mile of you. permit's settle for it - that's his loss, no longer yours and, whilst he gets the right age to know, your son will comprehend it too. I believe Ilkie approximately no longer undesirable-mouthing dad on your son although - tell the reality yet do no longer rub it in - Daddy in all probability loves him yet continues to be in straightforward terms a baby himself and needs to play with all his toys. Love your son yet make certain you get it sluggish for your self too. you're nevertheless youthful and nevertheless have loads of life to determine. there is extra to life than being somebody's female pal/spouse. In stable time you will locate any style of adult men to come to a decision on between, yet do all those "girly" issues first - you're entitled. decide for it female ;o)
2016-10-14 08:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by olis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should call and ask what happened, i mean you may never know. He might of been held hostaige and stopped calling because he didn't want you and your son to get involved but if you find out you can do something about it
2006-12-09 08:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by soijanaladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably thought he could get you in the sack again.
I'd take it as a sign he's a flake.
Is this the example you want your kid to copy in the future.
2006-12-09 08:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should contact him if you can, and get some answers. Remember this is not about you, this about your son, and you should remind him of that.
2006-12-09 08:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋