I don't see it as necessary. I have never had an emotional attatchment to a woman, and I never will. I don't feel like putting an effort into loving someone else. Why is it worth loving someone else? I don't care if I die alone. My life is about me, and no one else. If I was with someoene else, it would no longer be about me. It would be about US, which I don't like. I would enjoy my life drinking wine and living in the Carribbean. I have heard so many people say the biggest mistake they ever made was getting married or getting a girlfriend. I don't think it is worth the stress dealing with a woman my whole life. I could probably function just as well alone. I don't even need them for sex.
2006-12-09 08:49:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
BUT, I think that by living lonely, I might ruin my life, but then I don't care, and I think i won't ruin my life., and I view my life as a waste and that I don't deserve love. How can I decide what to do?
2006-12-09 08:50:49 · update #1
I'm a teenager though. Could that be affecting my decisions.
2006-12-09 08:57:08 · update #2
I do not think you have to try to be alone, it should come naturally.
I think you are liying to us and yourself saying that you do not need sex. Hey, you can hit it every now and then and stay unattached.
There is nothing wrong with you and if you want to be alone, just be a jerk and believe me, you will get your wish!
I bet you are a mama's boy too, so that is why you dont need a woman. Mama does it all for ya dont she?
2006-12-09 09:09:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is normal to not want to get married in Western culture today. Do not let society bully you into a mindset that is not your own. You can still find lovers and friends and yet maintain your independence. That is normal. There is a mrriage strike underway in this country because there are many men like yourself who feel the same way.
2006-12-09 16:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by James 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'M SORRY FOR THE WAY YOU FEEL. MAYBE SOMETHING HAPPENED TO YOU IN YOUR LIFE THAT EMOTIONALLY CONFUSED YOU. BUT BEING ALONE ISNT WHAT YOU WANT. FAMILY, LOVE, KIDS, GRAND KIDS, IS ALL PART OF LIFE. HOLIDAYS WITH YOUR FAMILY IS AN AWESOME GIFT. LIFE IS AN AWESOME GIFT. PEOPLE COME AND GO IN OUR LIVES, BUT BEING WITH SOMEONE AND BEING IN LOVE IS JUST A WONDERFUL THING.. I DO WISH YOU ALOT OF LUCK SWEETIE, REMEMBER THERE IS ALWAYS SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR YOU!! DONT GO BY OTHER PEOPLE WHO'S RELATIONSHIP'S DIDNT WORK OUT, BECAUSE THERE ARE SO MANY PEOPLE THAT ARE HAPPY AND HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR MANY YEARS XOXOX DO WHAT YOU FEEL IN YOUR HEART!!!
2006-12-09 17:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by kathy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're bitter and selfish. You just earned yourself a big fat kick in the nuts.
HOWEVER, if you find someone who you love, you don't have much a choice about how you feel. if not, then w/e, your loss.
PEOPLE WHO SAY LOVE IS A MISTAKE are stupid. marriage doesn't work unless you try and make compromises, so **** them, and go **** yourself if you aren't gonna get a girlfriend
2006-12-09 17:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U sound like your turning gay to me, well not trying to be harsh, but if u was Horny what r u going to do without a girl use ur left and right hand. U r going to miserable without a partner, oh yeah u don't have to be dating u can just have female friends that come and see u often.
2006-12-09 16:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by Meme baby blue 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Friend, you need to go to church. Your question is more of a cry for help and a statement of hopelessness than a question. God hurts when we hurt, and you honestly will find answers to your questions when you turn to HIM
2006-12-09 16:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by Shells 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by the sounds of it your gay not to be mean a girl is there for her b/f to talk to, to hold, to kiss, to screw or what ever but when you do find the right girl shes the world for you and when you in there arms it seams like nothing else matters!
2006-12-09 16:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by jamin_hot_body 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As a woman... I am counting my blessings that you are not even willing to use a woman to pass on genetically... THANK YOU!
2006-12-09 17:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by frogsandweeniedogs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem shallow why do you want to be lonley for the rest of ur life thats boring
2006-12-09 16:52:44 · answer #9 · answered by magdaly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you say this about man friends because i think your gay which is ok in todays world but if your happy pleasureing yourself thats good because after all it is about you
2006-12-09 17:02:02 · answer #10 · answered by ariesfunram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋