and she told me hers was to have anouther girl go south on her! I was really really shocked, most guys would like that but it made me feel sick... I guess because how much I love her and adore her, I also didn't like the fact that she would fantasize about anouther girl... she told me that it was just a fantacy, and that "It will never happen" Is it wronge that it bothered me so much, I mean I didn't tell her it bothered me because I didn't want to hurt her feelings, but I don't really want to hear that from her again. what do you think?
2006-12-09 08:05:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you did the right thing because she is suppose to be have fantasies about you not aout another person guy or gurl
2006-12-09 08:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many girls have fantasies about women or even real life girl crushes. It's totally normal and does not mean that she is bi or a lesbian. You may have put her on a pedestal and now you are shocked that she is not as pristine as you thought she was. You felt bothered by it and your feelings are not wrong but neither are her's. The door was opened to hearing something unsavory when you started talking about sexual fantasies. Be greatful that she felt comfortable enough to tell you her inner most thoughts. What she did is totally normal and gives credit to the health of your relationship.
2006-12-09 16:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by CAITLIN 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well you should just let it go for a while.
and if she brings it up again, def ask her why she would want that.
but first think about how you would feel if she said she would want that to happen.. if that would change your relationship then tell her now. tell her its been on your mind ever since she mentioned it.
2006-12-09 16:19:25 · answer #3 · answered by thisoneg1rl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that your girlfriend is not into you nearly as much as you are into her. She will probably cheat on you. I say either kick her to the curb or enjoy a wild sex life but do not commit to her. I am sorry, really I am sorry about your situation. But this girl is like other girls. Their wildness is about themselves. They may claim to do it for their men but they would not engage in such relationships if they really did not want to. Women like this are not faithful. They cannot put another human being above themselves. They cannot love. They lust VERY well and it is interesting but they do not love.
Good luck.
2006-12-09 16:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by James 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Oh so you are allowed fantasies and she isn't grow up and if you are that insecure then you do not deserve her jeez
2006-12-09 16:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by ken j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing to tell her, she has only said it the once.
but if she kept going on about it then tell her.
2006-12-09 16:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by ice_castles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋