just looking for ways to get ideas to spice up our marriage.
2006-12-09 08:26:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
role playing, kinky cards(kinda like gift certificates that have specific acts printed on them) romance is always a key to pleasing your woman/man (yeah we guys like to be romanced too) spontaneity, ie:morning sex or in the shower, use your imagination, share fantasies, try swinging if you both feel inclined.
The biggest piece of advice I can give is to relax...it's just sex
2006-12-09 08:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by mike w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you tell her how much you adore her and appreciate her... how happy you are to be with her, and even though it sounds cheezy-- that she completes you, and is your better half.
just saying those things goes a long way... not only in her mind to make her feel absolutely great about herself that she rocks your world like that... but also as reinforcement for you. it is like positive affirmation.
now that you got her feeling all good cuz of what you said, make sure if you pass her give her an grab on the behind, move her hair out of her face, look over her shoulder at what she is doing and be interested, hold her hand when you are walking together, do mundane tasks for her that she hates every once in a while, leave her notes, buy her flowers and chocolates...
you got it like that. this is an awesome question. there are too many divorce questions in here, good to see someone who doesn't want to give up!!!
i also posted a question similar to this "how do you start dating your own husband" and got a lot of great responses... if you have the time you should check it out. :)
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2006-12-09 16:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋