she is a very close friend of mine but she broke up with him now she says i shouldnt go out w/him because he hurt her... she is secretly dating his best friend am i at the wrong here?
2006-12-09 08:30:43 · 19 answers · asked by janey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well my friend doesnt mind the fact he's her ex as much as she mind the fact he hurt her a lot. Mind you she doesnt want him back and is currently happy with his best friend although she's cheating on him with another guy...
2006-12-09 09:07:59 · update #1
If she is your real friend than she would be happy for u no matter what. so no ur not wrong
2006-12-09 08:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by hopeybabe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is going out with his best friend...then no, because it is the same situation for the guy...he is dating his best friends ex...and apparently she sees no problem with it...i think the boy should be seen as available to you, but i think you should explain how the situation with her new boyfriend and her is the same as the situation would be with you and her ex...you should talk to her, even tho i know it would be hard.
good luck, but remember dont let a boy come between you and a friend.
x
2006-12-09 08:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by Queenie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a friend would not date a friends x. And she is wrong for dating the X's friend. So, I personally think either one of you have any morals and you make a perfect friendship relationship. God bless****
2006-12-09 08:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best friend being you???? Well no you arent wrong for going out with her but I think maybe you could be wrong to have it such a secret because uh, if he finds out the hard way then things can get ugly between you and your best friend!!!!!!
2006-12-09 08:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. That would be wrong. That would hurt your friend and if she tells anyone, the person she tells won't trust you. You'll end up losing a friend and the relationship might not work out.
2006-12-09 08:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by Minja 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes that's wrong friend...supposedly. Just because she's doing doesn't make it write. And her telling u not 2 date him, should make the decision easier...believe me there's other guys out there, find 1.
2006-12-09 08:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S TOTALLY WRONG!!!! If you care about your friend you'll help them through the rough time og breaking up and help her/him get back up on their feet and get ready to date again. If your dating their ex than you are an untrusting, and unworthy friend!!! YOUR FRIEND IS IN THE WRONG TOO!!!
2006-12-09 08:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by soijanaladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong as long as your friend is ok with it and as long as a couple months have gone by. It is impoirtant that you wait, but yeah this is normal it happens all the time.
2006-12-09 09:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by celinuchis90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you are wrong unless you got permission...you are breaking the code and he will break your face and not be in the wrong for doing do (well I mean other than breaking the law assulting you, but you get me)
You are scum, you got to know the friends ex's are off limits, especially so soon...
2006-12-09 08:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Girl Go On,she dump him so their chance for you,but if you want to be more poilt can her opinion about ur deision of dating her ex..Good Luck
2006-12-09 08:35:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋