I am pregnant with our second child, and he knows sex is safe for the baby. We had sex all the time with the first one. I am so sure he is not the cheating type (I think), he was raised to be honest, and he loves our daughter more than anyting in the world, and wouldn't want to lose her.
He has just completely lost interest. He says he still thinks I am hot, and his excuse is that sex led us to having babies and that is a turn off! What a crock, right? I am pregnant and therefore can't get that way, so we should be having the best sex ever! We do it like twice a month, and even then I initate, and do everything and hardly ever get off.
What are some possible reasons he's not interested in sex? He wont even let me touch "it" to get him in the mood! He is only in his late 20s! I really love him, but I can't see myself marrying someone who won't have sex with me! I am really depressed and I don't know what to do!
2006-12-09 08:36:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You didn't say how pregnant you are. If you are quite far along, maybe he doesn't feel comfortable doing it right now. He probably has a lot on his mind with a second kid coming, so cut him a break.
2006-12-09 08:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a lot of issues and no one on here can answer your question in less they can read minds. Have you all sat down and talked you said he is not the cheating type and he is in his 20,s I would just ask him what is the deal because there is more than one problem there I sure of it
2006-12-09 08:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmm....sounds like your whole focus is on SEX!
Why has he not married you and become the father he needs to be? What about the children? What about family? What about commitment?
Sounds like he is not the marrying type and you are his doormat honey!
I get so frustrated with women who cannot see the forest for the trees!
2006-12-09 08:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by jamocha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhhhh noooooo. I think he doesnt want to be with you anymore, but cant work out how to say it and feels all responsible now theres another kid and now feels he really cant leave and is depressed with the reality of it all... I dont think he is cheating either, I just dont think he is coping with the responsbility of it all and the pressure he now faces....
2006-12-09 08:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
we see what we want to see, and believe what we want, we tell ourselves our love would never ever cheat, but it sounds as if he is getting it somewhere else. never give all your love to someone without a committment, and a ring, as your selling yourself short. yes if u and he use to have wonderful sex, than it kind of looks as if he is cheating and getting it somewhere else.
2006-12-09 10:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This boils down to him getting fixed or you getting your tubes tied.
He should fell comfortable after that because he won't be worried with getting you pregnant.
2006-12-09 09:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he wasnt ready for another child and is sleepin with someone else. maybe he is upset with u over it and is out creepin in someone elses bed not tryin to be mean but that happens
2006-12-09 08:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just doesn't feel the same way for you as he use to. he probably isn't doing anything behind your back. divorce suck
2006-12-09 08:45:47 · answer #8 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but--are you sure he doesnt have a girlfriend because he is in his peak years of sexuality,he should want something even if its just oral
2006-12-09 09:04:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
weyll it can be stress,or his work,or may be something that only a doctor can told. i would check it out. don`t give up yet on him. may be he to is depressed.
2006-12-09 08:43:02 · answer #10 · answered by horseknickers 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋