i love my girlfriend alot and i trust her alot and i know shell never cheat on me but im a jealous guy and likes its not her im scared of its other guys cuz shes the type of gilr that give alot of afection like goes and hugs guys i dont know it bothers me what should i do
2006-12-09 08:34:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The more you try to control someone, the more you will push them away. Successful, healthy relationships are built on trust. The fact that your girlfriend is affectionate is probably one of the things that initially attracted you to her because she is probably a very warm and loving person. You cannot change someone and should not even try. If you know that she would never cheat on you, you have to trust her and stop worrying.
2006-12-09 08:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by hugsandsmilesplease 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, i hope you know that you alone dont have gf and feel this way. My bf is the jealous type. Just like you he is scared of the other guys in my life. And I'm just like your gf. Very affectionate and I saw no problem in hugging other guys. This bothered him a lot.
He talked 2 me about it. He told me it bothered him a lot and told me why. He didn't have 2 ask me 2 stop. I understood how eh feels and why he feels like that. He is very protective of me 2. I respect how he feels and loves him even more.
Just let her know how you feel and why.
2006-12-09 16:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by Shivanie R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that u shouldn't get too jealous cause if u do than she'll dump u. gurls don't like it wen guys r jealous over little things it makes them feel annoyed. just as long as u know she aint cheating on u than dat's good. if u trust her so much y r u worrying bout. just chill for a moment.
2006-12-09 16:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by hellodivasexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww I'm in the same situation except with my boyfriend! I hate him meeting up with girls and stuff coz I don't trust the girls! I trust him, but I know what girls are like, and I know what we try sometimes! You say you trust your gf...in the end, you just have to rely on that...in the end, you just have to let it carry on, but let your gf know that you trust her...and try to explain why you feel the way you do, and let her know you're not happy, but you trust her.
How old are you two by the way? Good Luck
x
2006-12-09 16:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by Queenie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you say you know she'll never cheat on you but then your jealousy says something else. Either you trust her or you don't. Jealousy in a relationship will never work. She will get tired of it and leave you behind.
2006-12-09 16:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this bothers you then tell her to curb the hugs otherwise learn to trust her already
2006-12-09 16:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know u dont wanna get hurt so talk to her cause there gonna b a day when she might grow power over u than cheat on u
2006-12-09 16:38:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loves you she wouldnt be all over other guys. truthfully now, Kick her *** to the curb if it doesnt stop . If it dont work out u can come hang out with my sis in law.
2006-12-09 16:37:19 · answer #8 · answered by drsmokeitup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IF U KNOW SHE LOVES U BACK AND SHE WILL NEVER CHEAT ON U THEN DON'T WORRY! SHE IS NOT DOING NOTHING BAD!
2006-12-09 16:38:27 · answer #9 · answered by claudia u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get in a fight with these guys and show her that she shouldn't be messing around.
2006-12-09 16:36:37 · answer #10 · answered by jerjer09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋