I've recently told my close female friend how I felt about her-she gave me a vague answer(50/50). We did not leave the conversation on good terms (she indirectly(refering to "other ppl") called me selfish and 2 faced)
For xmas I thought I'd send her a xmas card and a small teddy-just saying merry xmas and happy new year.
Would this be ok??? OR Would she throw the card\gift in the bin???
Would she appreciate this or not???
(she might have called me selfish\2 faced but I believe she was caught up in the moment)....I do know her quite well....most probably angry wth me...
2006-12-09 08:29:43 · 15 answers · asked by Machine 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be the good guy. If she throws it back at you, well at least you did the noble thing.
2006-12-09 08:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by d1ckdeckard 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to send her a card, you should probably put in an appology in there for how things went. Not neccessarally saying that you don't believe what you said was true, but that she had taken it to heart in a negative way, and that you do value her friendship.
Whether she tosses it or not should not matter.... it IS, after all, a present. However, if you do not at least hear a thank you, back off and assume that she is done. The ball will be in her court.
2006-12-09 17:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by angrywomaninc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the card should suffice, no Teddy bear.
Why are you selfish and 2 faced? Because you told her how you felt about her. Find a better friend, if she was a friend and she was just not interested in dating you she's just say I don't see you like that not get all hostile and go off on you.
2006-12-09 16:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she spoken with you since your 'argument'? If not, I would send her a really nicely worded card,wishing her a happy Xmas. If she has spoken to you, then definately the teddy and card! If she is a mate, she won't throw them away!
2006-12-09 16:59:21 · answer #4 · answered by lynne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should send her something but also tell her you are sorry for what happend and that you would like to be friends agian even if she throw it in the bin you would have at least been the bigger person and she will think about what you said in the card.
2006-12-09 16:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its xmass n come on y wud she throw it away n m sure she must hav got confused n all just take ur tyme n give her tyme as well...as u said u no her so m sure dis will help u to proceed
just b da were u guys were n move on wen u think its da ryte tyme tell here u r serious abt her
tc
2006-12-09 16:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not get her a thing she doesn't deserve it and why would she call you 2 face when you are expressing interest in her I would move on she sounds too much drama for you
2006-12-09 16:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother. She's made her feelings clear. If you buy a gift she will be forced to be blunter with you than she has been.
2006-12-09 16:33:50 · answer #8 · answered by kitten_brunette_gemini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would, maybe just put a small note in the card to say sorry & I hope we can still be mate's. : )
2006-12-09 16:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well u caught her on the wrong foot its not yr fault do what u like
2006-12-09 16:35:55 · answer #10 · answered by shaikhudude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋