I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months now and he now lives with me. Every now and again he receives texts from other girls and when I casually ask him about hey who was that he tries to hide the fact he receives texts. I am seriously thinking that if he not upfront about this then what else is he trying to hide from me. What do you think?
2006-12-09 08:30:02 · 16 answers · asked by avid_rafter765 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes.
If he hides them, he has something to hide.
2006-12-09 08:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For texting other girls, no. But if he's hiding it from you, then yes. Your right, if he hides the fact that he is texting these other girls, then he might be hiding other things from you. If you can not trust him then you should dump him.
2006-12-09 08:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiding things and keeping secrets are huge red flags in a relationship. It seems like you moved awfully quickly if you only have known him for 3 months and are already living with him. This might be a relationship to reconsider.
2006-12-09 08:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by My Sisters Kitchen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow you move fast, only 3 months and your all ready living together. How can you KNOW let along TRUST another person in only 3 months. Maybe you should look inside yourself to see what your are trying to fix, before you try to fix another person. When you make a commitment to be together, it should be in every area, and if he is texting other women then he is not totally committed to you.......
Good Luck
2006-12-09 08:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by Recovery Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not have a relationship that is built on trust, then you do not have a relationship. He should be open with you about texting other girls however, you should trust him enough to know that he wouldn't cheat on you and would not be jealous of him texting other girls. Some guys have friends that are girls, but not always. Go with your gut instincts.
2006-12-09 08:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by hugsandsmilesplease 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i am going to be dead up with u. You need to tell him that he needs to respect you. I know that in a relationship there needs to be some type of trust but there is also honesty and there is respect. he shounldnt be hiding anything.What you need to do is that if you guys are supposed to be seriuos especially that he living with you well you guys should both introduce each other friends so that there is no confusions.
2006-12-09 08:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by rican mami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is an extremely gruesome and immature emotion. have confidence is what you could tutor him. tell him which you're conscious that he's attempting out this woman and what she is asserting. See what he says with that suggestions. you could arise with a greater stated selection after that. do not bounce to conclusions consistent with emotions. you will consistently lose interior the top. It purely isn't properly worth it. Ask questions first, act later.
2016-10-18 00:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See it is one thing to talk to other girls thats fine whatever bit hiding the fact that he is talking to other girls that is just weird. dump his A$$ he is just using you and making you look like a fool.
2006-12-09 08:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by Atllas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand your concern, if it is a serious relationship he should not be doing this. if they are texing each other I'm sure they are talking on the phone with each other possible see each other in person. it all so depends on who this woman is. but i do believe men cant have woman friends with out trying to hook up with them at least once
2006-12-09 08:37:31 · answer #9 · answered by whynot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's not only interested in you but with every other girl he texted Dump the looser and move on.
2006-12-09 08:32:43 · answer #10 · answered by spikey200maximum 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋