Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

2006-12-06 04:47:37 · 5 answers · asked by spud 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a teacher who travels to companies, i do not work at one fixed place-I go to the office twice a week -The teaching assistant
phones me every day about work, and once on a weekend, I spoke to her on the monday to stop calling me on weekends she agreed-my wife constantly checks my mobile call records and gets upset if she has called and we end up argueing. we have argued three days in a row about this and today when she called i deleted the record, because I want peace . My wife now thinks I am cheating , I cannot take this anymore what do you suggest.

2006-12-06 04:47:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My current boyfriend went out with a girl for 5 years..i know he loved her and still cares about her, they shared a lot of stuff together and even lived together..but they had a lot of problems and couldnt stay togehter....our relation is new but i see it going somewhere. He tells me he likes me a lot and want to settle down for good this time if it works out between us (marriage).
My question is, will he be able to love me as much as he loved her, not compare me to her, etc...?

2006-12-06 04:46:57 · 24 answers · asked by *brunette* 1 in Singles & Dating

hi all.basically i met this guy on the net a couple of months ago and we got on really well.i told him a few personal things,i was attacked,if you understand-by another guy.he told me i needed to get over it and was very insensitive.also he never bothers texting me first,hardly rings-he's phoned me ONCE.He never replies to any of my messages and he likes all this heavy music and wants to convert me-i hate people who try to change others.i did/do like him but it's a one way relationship when it should be 50/50.do you think it's best i just moved on and find someone that's right for me and understands why i am so nervous? please help

2006-12-06 04:46:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

gives him oral sex? what about swallows? We are in a relationship it's not like random or anything but it just seems so demeaning to me. I don't want him to stop respecting me.

2006-12-06 04:46:15 · 7 answers · asked by alyson 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not a gold digger but I have been dating a guy who won't spend a dime on me, we are in college but he always buys expensive food from whole foods, new clothes for himself. I have made the effort to split bills, I even gave him a 10 starbucks card when he told me he was working on a paper. I don't work so I can't buy things that often but I make up for it in my attention,time, affection, validation, and commitment.

He has mentioned to me for christmas some pretty expensive gifts that HE wanted 300.00-600.00, but the other day he said that he wants to spend 20.00 or under instead???

I am not looking for a rich man, but I just thought when you love someone you want to give to them and make them happy....

Why has he become so cheap? Does that mean he does not love me?

2006-12-06 04:45:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

people who have a similar personality to you or the opposite to keep you sane and your feet on the ground

2006-12-06 04:45:36 · 29 answers · asked by . 6 in Singles & Dating

At the time I was 18, he was 27. He had done this about 2 or 3 times.But the one time we were in bed talking about sex,he reached near the under the bed&pulled out a metal pipe&put it on my neck, I lay there&was laughing but I saw in his eyes he was kinda getting off on this. Then I pretend it was nothing &starting play fighting him back. He also used his hand&a belt, once.
One time we were arguing&I wen&lay on the couch&he came in the room&lay on top of me caressing my body as if were about to get intimate but using a voilent touch&then he starting saying in a calm voice 'I'm sorry, but u are so disobedient, I'm ur everything u can't talk back to me.I'm your alpha,omega,ur begining ur end,do u love me then u gotta do what I say if u want this to work'
I still love him today but cuz of his violent money driven lifestyle he was murdered last year,by a guy he was fighting with I never told anyone this but I wanna reach out now, it still bothers me, wondering what he would have done

2006-12-06 04:45:20 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy and i matt we mess around in the morning cause its the only time we see each other and we talk a little, but we play around he grabs my breasts and i grab his *** and just random crap, i liked him awhile ago but how can i find out if he is interested in me as a possible gf. also he is extremely hot so it doesn't help when i see him.

2006-12-06 04:44:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 04:44:15 · 24 answers · asked by ton1ishere 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been with my bf for a month and a half and he been giving me hints as to letting him move in with me but the problem is i liev at home with my parents and i think this is moving too fast so i said he might be able to move in in march coz that be almost 5 months of being together how can i ask my parents if it ok for him to move is or is 5 months to soon

im 17 he is 18 he currently lives at a mates paying £40 a week to sleep on their sofa

2006-12-06 04:43:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my husband, but we fight all the time. He works and i'm a stay at home mom. I barely have time to shower everyday, let alone clean the house. He never helps me with anything, not cleaning, not the baby, and he doesn't even pick up after himself. I feel alone and isolated, by the time he get's home, we are both tired and rarely talk. He's never home on the weekends.

2006-12-06 04:43:50 · 18 answers · asked by mrkay_05 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have noticed during my short lived life that females are very fierce when it comes to other females. Even good friends have this animosaty between each other, and it usually shows when the males are around. Is it a natural instinct for them to put such a high guard and hostile aura when other females are around her and her male counterpart, or is it a social behavior learned?

2006-12-06 04:43:43 · 5 answers · asked by Enterrador 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 04:43:34 · 13 answers · asked by George J 2 in Family

What should I do?

2006-12-06 04:43:24 · 10 answers · asked by Hem 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a friend who is in a bad situation. she is dating a married man. she is aware that he is married and he is supposibly getting a divorce. she is only 18 yrs old. i know she is an adult but she acts like a kid. she doesn't use her common sense. she is always missing school for him..she is always running his errands. she pays his bills and she takes care of all his court procedings..etc...she does everything for him. she takes him out to lunch and pays for everything. we talk to her about missing school and paying his bills and she knows it is wrong. she says she loves him and is too attached because she lost her virginity to him. HE IS MARRIED! i feel responsible for her because i am her only friend and she is making so many mistakes. she is failing all of her classes and at this rate won't finish college. what should i do? should i forget about her problems and let her fail????

2006-12-06 04:43:23 · 20 answers · asked by vicky 2 in Friends

i am 21 years old. smart and pretty looking. but i havent' had any dates, any boyfriends, ever. i have a lot of friends and speak to a lot of people. but when it comes to flirting, or talking to a guy i know might like me, or worse if i talk to one i like i get really shy and stop talking. or talk nonsense. is there a cure for that or i am hopeless???

2006-12-06 04:42:57 · 4 answers · asked by Crystall22 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

or should i not, please i really need your help

2006-12-06 04:42:40 · 5 answers · asked by gazooks 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he won't leave me alone about this question and I don't know how to explaine it to him and i took one of his boxers

2006-12-06 04:42:09 · 27 answers · asked by mccall012001 1 in Singles & Dating

Yo, yo, I am not the type of guy to dump a girl and laugh about it. My girl has it all and the whole bag of chips. Chips used to be what one ate out of a bag. Now people pop them in a can. Times: they be a changing. My mountain is high but my ride is clean. If you get with me you'll find a love machine. I am cool D. My middle name is cool. All girls flaunt there knees. And I watch them in school.
I have a dream of going downtown and seeing all the ladies lining the corner. I see them as they are in line for a club, or a restaraunt, or the temp agency. And I know they see me.

2006-12-06 04:41:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey guys. i was wondering if its safe to become a massage therapist. i've heard so many people say how it can be dangerous [sexual wise]
is that all true?

2006-12-06 04:41:51 · 7 answers · asked by I'm a HBIC 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 04:41:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so, let me start the story.
a gie who is damn proudy, and so he is.he embarrassed me in front of the whole class but may be he was a bit jealoused. after that i was really surprised to see his proud and then he picked up my slam book from my bench without my permission and filled it. that too with some freaky stuff then i straight away looked in his eyes and i was red / angry. the whole class was scared because i m a TOMBOY and really hard in beating but i did'nt beat him because some time back he was my good friend and didnt wanted to irreputate him in front of the whole class so i tore the pages of the slam book and thew then on his face and he really was embarrassed the way i was in front of the whole class and he was shocked and asked me sorry again n again. wat do u think was it my fault? should i say him sorry or not?

2006-12-06 04:40:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 04:40:54 · 17 answers · asked by jiya 1 in Friends

Has a family member that died been an organ donor and his organ gone to someone that you were able to meet later? I have heard of families that would meet and feel an immediate connection ~ from the organ being placed in their family member!

2006-12-06 04:39:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if you dont have children you are feeding - does the fridge become a land of mouldy old condiments and cheeze in foil paper like mine?

what are three items in your fridge that are past there expirey dates?

2006-12-06 04:38:44 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 04:38:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so I was talking with three of my guy friends and all three agreed that pigtails on girls are hot.. well women I should say.. but all three of the females that were there , including my self, do not think they are hot.. so guys do you think that pigtails are HOT?
or is it just a fetish roleplaying thing

2006-12-06 04:38:17 · 15 answers · asked by ~Kim~ 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that I met on the internet about 3 weeks ago. We have been chatting almost everyday and we have called each other sometimes. But the thing is: he used to call me in the past and now he doesnt look very interested about calling me. But he still seems to be interested in chatting, we chat very nice and everything. Is he just trying to relax and take more to know me online first? Do you think he is just not interested anymore like he used to be? Or do you think he is just different than what he used to be at first?

2006-12-06 04:38:00 · 2 answers · asked by bloodymary24 4 in Singles & Dating

okay, well here's a tear jerker story for yah, i am currently in university at ubc in british columbia and had an amazing relationship with my boyfriend for four months until he dropped out. university just wasnt what he was looking for. well.... he lives prob two and half hours away, i reallllllllly realllllllllly still have a lot of emotions towards him , we are going to see each other over xmas, we both tried new people but couldnt cause we had each other on our minds and aghhhhh i just want to know peoples opinions on long distance relationships, obivoulsy im not going to base it around people 's opinion who i dont know, i have to make the decision. i really realllllllllllllllllllllllllly want to but im just not sure.... 98% yes yes, but 2% says no ...eeek

2006-12-06 04:37:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating