gives him oral sex? what about swallows? We are in a relationship it's not like random or anything but it just seems so demeaning to me. I don't want him to stop respecting me.
2006-12-06 04:46:15 · 7 answers · asked by alyson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you gain respect.... Although your boyfriend will be really appreciative if the offer.....
IMHO, respect is earned....
2006-12-06 04:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by JohnS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot depends on the situation. I have a really hard time giving when he's standing up or sitting on a couch or something. It does feel demeaning to have him looking down on me. Try having him lay down on a bed or be in a similar position. It will give you more of a sense of control, and either way his eyes will be rolling to the back of his head. Plus, you controlling the situation might be more of a turn on for the both of you.
2006-12-06 12:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by Brit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would pleasing your man be demeaning? I know lots of women who LOVE giving oral because they like the control and power. As for swallowing, that's a personal thing. I you don't like to swallow, just let him fire off on your breasts. He'll probably like that just as much.
2006-12-06 14:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by jonnyexcel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Would you lose respect for me if I went down on you? I don't think so...
2006-12-06 12:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing disrespectful about oral sex....I love a girl who is sexually ok with putting my knob in her mouth, swallowing doesnt matter to me as long as she doesnt spit on any of my clothes...
2006-12-06 12:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by Shine4Life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't believe it's demeaning but if you are not comfortable with it, that's your right and he should respect that
2006-12-06 12:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm with you girl..I feel so humiliated doing that
2006-12-06 12:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by goldengirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋