ive been with my bf for a month and a half and he been giving me hints as to letting him move in with me but the problem is i liev at home with my parents and i think this is moving too fast so i said he might be able to move in in march coz that be almost 5 months of being together how can i ask my parents if it ok for him to move is or is 5 months to soon
im 17 he is 18 he currently lives at a mates paying £40 a week to sleep on their sofa
2006-12-06 04:43:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i picked march as i will start looking for a full time job then as ifinish school im 18 inext month and i forgot to meantion my dad was asking loads of question like how much does my bf pay rent and where he work does he drive and how much he eats. so not sure if my dad thinking about this as well
2006-12-06 04:54:20 · update #1
My boyfriend and I recently got our own apartment and me and him have been together 2 years in april. I would tell you to wait until your 18 then you and him can get a place together. You dont want to live with your parents. Wait for awhile you 2 have only been dating for a month.
2006-12-06 04:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by zepp_lin11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 month is way way way too soon, 5 months is way way too soon. You two barely know one another at 1 month and 5 months is just the same. Living with someone is so different than what you expect. Ya'll will constantly be around one another and will eventually grow tired of each being that it's so early in the relationship. You'll never have space. so give it about a year and that's still too soon as well but it's better than a month.
2006-12-06 12:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure just how things are in the UK. This bf is a looser, do you plan to support him for the rest of his life, and have your parents help you at that. Get serious, and find someone who is willing go work for a living instead of looking for support from you and your parents. Get a commitment and get married, before living with anyone, it simply not in style any more, we have to many single mothers trying to make a go of their lives on their own. God bless you, and think straight !
2006-12-06 12:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by pooterilgatto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems to me that you do not live in America so my advice will be limited. Socially, the accepted time for a couple to move in together seems to be getting shorter and shorter, so there is no right time, only how you feel about it. Also, I see you are 17, so you are underage and cannot move in with him unless your parents agree to it.
2006-12-06 12:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by Enterrador 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants a better place to sleep at he is not thinking of both of you. Do you have a nice home at your parents? thats probably what is fueling his desire. Me and my honey waited for 2 years and then moved in together, that way i was sure that he wanted to live with me and not move just to get out of where he was staying
2006-12-06 12:47:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are not going for the! And how are you moving in with him and he is sleeping on someones couch? I would say sometimes fast last (mines did), but you're still young. Sharing a couch is not comfortable!
2006-12-06 12:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you really ready for him to move in? it sounds like your not so don;t do it cause u feel bad for him or he's pressing u to. tell him to get a place and maybe someday u move in with him and not him wit u and your folks.dma
2006-12-06 12:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by zabadass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask your parents on how they feel... Since it is their house....
2006-12-06 12:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by JohnS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait wait wait. doing it tooo fast is badddd idea.
2006-12-06 12:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by soberlunatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋