Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

I love my husband very much and have told this other man "mark" this too but I can't get him out of my head!!!!! I have spent a few passionate nights with mark along with MANY hours just talking and he gives me everything my husband can't (Passion, time, respect, listens,doesn't take me for granted...)but my husband gives me all that mark can't (money, financial security, home, cars, many luxuries) I have great wild sex with both (even if it's only maybe 2 times a month with hubby)but my husband works all the time (he owns a roofing business and a carpentry business) and when he is home he eats showers and sleeps, that's it! Unless I wake up with him early in the morning before he goes to work he doesn't make time for sex. I want to keep both but I know what I've done so far is unfair to everybody involved... What do I do? Do you think they would ever consider living all together so that I wouldn't have to give either up?! LOL If I could put them together I would have my perfect match

2006-12-06 04:13:28 · 27 answers · asked by angellips1982 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend is dating a guy who is 16 and she is 14. he is really sweet to her most of the time. but they can have sex for some reasons. well she wanted me to ask every one if she should get out of the realtionship or not. shes scared that since they CANT have sex that he will cheat on her with some other girl. but they are together almost all day. she really likes him and everyone tells her how happy he gets when he is around her. so can you help?

2006-12-06 04:13:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My 8 mnth olds father's family and I (mom and sister) were getting along just fine. I had just met them when I was about 5 mnths pregnant with the baby. And they recieved me very well. I talked with the mom at least once a week, the sister almost every other day, if not everyday. Even his other children's mom and I had a very positive rapport with one another. So we all got along really well.
Well about 4 months ago, he and I got into an argument and he decided to go his mom and sister and other baby's mom and tell them that I spoke negatively about them, which is absolutely not true. They took his word for it and as of now no one in his family speaks to me, at all, not even to ask about the baby.

At this point, 4 months later, he and I still speak but his family only sees the baby when he has him.

Well yesterday, in anger, he admitted to me that he purposely destroyed my relationship with his family becuz he felt that we were getting too close.

2006-12-06 04:13:18 · 4 answers · asked by Perfect 78 2 in Family

i am i black women who is marrying an white wealthy man and his family dosent accept me, but they have know me as there sons best friend for over 20 years. they tell him that i'm a ****** and all i want is his money. but , before i started dating there son they and we were just friends they adored me.

2006-12-06 04:12:27 · 17 answers · asked by malshe39 1 in Friends

hey ladies that thing about the girl, now listen i am not trying to have any relationship with her, its just that when we are around each other we kinda understand each other, she is a decent girl that i respect so i know where my boundreis lie.

2006-12-06 04:11:29 · 4 answers · asked by VANCE 1 in Singles & Dating

I called this guy that Im sure that Im in love with...he's my soul mate. I was suppose to c him when I went to his city but due to some circumstances I couldnt c him. I finally called him and told him how I feel and he had nothing but positive things to say to me. I was wondering if I should try to go to his city to live to c if we can work it out. He told me that if I was to come out there that we would b together if he was single. I am applyin to some grad schools there, so if it doesnt work out Im still doing something to better myself. We have history...this isnt some1 that i just met. Should I go if Im accepted to a school there? if u need more background read my other questions.

2006-12-06 04:11:25 · 2 answers · asked by Tash 1 in Singles & Dating

construct the locus of the points that are equisdant from the two lines shown in the diagram

this is the diagram

\/ <--that V thing but imagine it bigger

2006-12-06 04:11:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-06 04:10:51 · 2 answers · asked by the_jack_of_love 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright, I'm gonna try this again, and be a little more detailed. Me and my bf have been going out for almost two years. He never seemed to complain about this in the first 9-11 months of our relationship, so I wasn't even aware of this problem until he met this guy. This guy and him are now best friends, and he really has been influencing my bf.
Anyway, as of the last year my bf says that I am always saying things that castrate him in public, and although he says I do it all the time, he only has a few examples, and these he has discussed with me before (I try to not do the things that he's mentioned make him mad).
It's starting to really stress out our relationship, and I don't know what to do. So, guys in particular - what do girls do that seem to demasculate you? How can I avoid it?

2006-12-06 04:10:51 · 9 answers · asked by ja'imel 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been friends with this guy for almost 3 years and we have been dating for the past 10 months. We ended up breaking up a week ago because I told him that I loved him and he could not tell me how he felt about me. He just said that he doesn't know what he's feeling. He has never been in a serious relationship before me and neither have I...He would tell me all the time that he wanted to marry me and have kids with me when he graduates from college in about a year. He even took me hunting several times with him, which is his ULTIMATE passion. Right now he is barely passin his classes and has finals coming up and is completely stressed out right now. He just told me that he didn't have time for me. Do you think he really loves me and is just afraid of his feelings??? Is he thinking about me and missing me?? What should I do, just lay low and see what happens?

2006-12-06 04:10:45 · 2 answers · asked by missinghim 1 in Singles & Dating

Men: Would it bother you? Do you consider him to be weak?
Women: How acceptable is it to you?

If yes or no explain your best reason.

2006-12-06 04:10:37 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i like this guy but he has a girlfriend. and i did date him in 7th grade and i fell in love with him. And i just found out he his a girlfriend and he doesn't know that i love him I NEED HELP!!!!

2006-12-06 04:10:23 · 7 answers · asked by Jacklyn 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine was a Rover 2000 SD1

2006-12-06 04:09:34 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-06 04:09:34 · 16 answers · asked by upfrsat 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to understand why she got mad at that because she says she contemplates it sometimes we've had some arguments and all. I told her she should go ahead and have her fun, cos internally I'm to the point where I feel I won't miss much. She got mad at that and I wonder why she would bcos if she's thinking about it, then i feel she could care less if I give a damn or not.And just in case anyone is wondering, I am NOT having an affair or anything, sometimes you get so frustrated you could care less. I am directing this to those women who feel that what i said was cold. If the tables were turned and a man said that to you, would you or would you not feel that this is a very cheap, tactless way of getting attention if he "really" doesn't mean it? Just curious bcos I am trying to understand women a little more. I really thought that it is ok for a woman to cheat if she isnt getting attention or she is feeling ignored, the world makes it seem it is ok. And sometimes it gets to the point where one becomes fed up and jaded. I figure its a free world, and a woman should be allowed to have her fun if she wants to. -- I apologize if I sound like a cold person, really i am not, i am just a man who has been put through a lot of crap and it has been building up for a while.

2006-12-06 04:08:03 · 26 answers · asked by Blk Angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am seeing this guy for about a year. We are really different, he is a bit on the "rough" side, got troubles with law a few times when drunk..Shoot at people when there is no need to ...I hate this side of him but the way he presents himself to people is totally different from how he is with me. What would you do?

2006-12-06 04:07:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know that compliments are compliments and I like them as much as the next person, but I have a question. Which do you prefer to be called? What determines someone of being either Hot or Cute?

2006-12-06 04:07:24 · 24 answers · asked by ryrysofly11 3 in Singles & Dating

cant even pay his bills? Do you have any ideas on how I can get him to a meeting rehab to get him help without his consent, because its getting to that point where , he need help???

2006-12-06 04:07:13 · 24 answers · asked by luckylove 1 in Singles & Dating

Well whta is your limit?? How far will you go??

2006-12-06 04:07:06 · 10 answers · asked by gisselldalatina 2 in Singles & Dating

only one person..i dont wanna list!!ha ha!!

2006-12-06 04:07:02 · 3 answers · asked by Lydia K 4 in Singles & Dating

well i had a really long relationship with this boy...i am in high school...but this boy just got out...well my parents were not getting along with him...and i found someone at school i like too...so i broke up with him and dated the other person....now wen im with my ex..i feel bad bc he loves me still and is still here for me even though i dumped him....and then wen im with the other boy at school...hes so much funner and more exciting!! wat do i do!!!!! I cant have both and they both love me!! who do i chose!?

2006-12-06 04:07:01 · 2 answers · asked by ~Ohio State~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I really luv him I never thought that my luv story will end before it begins. We did'nt even express our luv properly 2 each other. Sumtimes I think y at all he came into my life if he had 2 leave me alone like this one day. I'd seen so many dreams regarding him that we'll always be together. I really cant live without him. What to do the tears from my eyes never stop. I cant forget him I want him. After meeting him I knew the true meaning of love even he'd loved me so much but god knows what problem he has he never even speaks to me. I even dont feel like doing anything else accept thinking of my love. My mom asks my what happened now-a-days u dont go anywhere with ur frnds. Now what answer should I give her she does'nt knows anything abt my love. I never told her. I just want him back in my life I want him at any instance. I'm not able to concentrate. I really dont understand how to tell it.

2006-12-06 04:06:57 · 15 answers · asked by nutan_nutty 2 in Singles & Dating

I am newly divorced. My ex-husband is supposed to take child visitations every other weekend. The youngest child is 2 yrs old, not quite potty trained yet...My question is should I be responsible for sending her diapers/pullups for her visits or should he have his own supply at his place? Those things are expensive!

2006-12-06 04:06:32 · 11 answers · asked by Lisa Bee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

They have both been living on their own for a while - so they don't necessarily need "basics" but know they know that a registry is expected. She suggested a "house downpayment" registry. They will have friends and family from all over the US.

2006-12-06 04:06:28 · 11 answers · asked by mhcjgds 3 in Weddings

like Valentine's Day ((Feb 14th) not a holiday)
Christmas Day (Dec 25th)
Independence Day (July 4th)
Memorial Day (May 28th)

I really want your opinion on Valentine's Day
.....

2006-12-06 04:05:45 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What song would you choose to put on to create the best atmosphere ever during a date, kiss or love makin?

2006-12-06 04:05:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its the party time of the year, but what have you done when you were drunk, or what have you been told you have done??

2006-12-06 04:05:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

still tuck you in bed and give you a kiss goodnight
mine don`t

2006-12-06 04:05:30 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

He works as teacher, she handles his lessons, and she phones him every single day. He says its all about his work, but every day????

2006-12-06 04:05:28 · 30 answers · asked by zu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

would you prefer your man to be older than yourself in a relasonship?
If so how much older would you like him to be than yourself.

2006-12-06 04:05:02 · 40 answers · asked by arthur3home 3 in Singles & Dating