my friend is dating a guy who is 16 and she is 14. he is really sweet to her most of the time. but they can have sex for some reasons. well she wanted me to ask every one if she should get out of the realtionship or not. shes scared that since they CANT have sex that he will cheat on her with some other girl. but they are together almost all day. she really likes him and everyone tells her how happy he gets when he is around her. so can you help?
2006-12-06 04:13:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
perhaps the reason they "can't have sex" is that your friend who is 14 is mature enough to understand that having sex at the age of 14 isn't the best decision she could make.
if the 16 year old boy doesn't understand or respect this then he is not worth her time in the long run.
2006-12-06 04:19:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her friend that she doesn't need to have sex to keep her boyfriend around. For one, she is too young to be involved in a sexual relationship and two, she is definitely worth the wait. Maybe her boyfriend sees that already and he doesn't want to ruin a good thing. If not, maybe he isn't worth her time, but thats her choice.
2006-12-06 12:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Spirit♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like others have said, 14 is too young for sex.
If this guy leaves her beaause of no sex then you'll er, I mean she'll find someone else.
These two will likely move on anyway (even if they have sex) so let her wait 'til she's older.
2006-12-06 12:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by Wil T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that she is too young to be in a sexual relationship and the boy also. It is much better if they wait untill they are older even married, she is worth the wait and any one that cant wait and respect her for that tell them to take a hike.
2006-12-06 12:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by juliette j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋