hi all.basically i met this guy on the net a couple of months ago and we got on really well.i told him a few personal things,i was attacked,if you understand-by another guy.he told me i needed to get over it and was very insensitive.also he never bothers texting me first,hardly rings-he's phoned me ONCE.He never replies to any of my messages and he likes all this heavy music and wants to convert me-i hate people who try to change others.i did/do like him but it's a one way relationship when it should be 50/50.do you think it's best i just moved on and find someone that's right for me and understands why i am so nervous? please help
2006-12-06 04:46:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really think you should move on. You may like him, but if he is putting pressure on you now to do things/ and be someone you're not, just imagine what things would be like a year on. It doesn't sound as if he is being sensitive of your feelings, and is more than happy to have you running around after you. Just remember he isn't the only guy in the world!
I hope you figure it out x
2006-12-06 05:02:07 · answer #1 · answered by hell_ova_arse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are just pals on the net, nothing more than that. Don't take this relationship too seriously. If he's serious about you, he would reply to your messages. Obviously, he's not that interested in you so why waste time? The net is a good place for finding penpals but I don't think you should place too much hope on finding a boyfriend there. It is just too risky!
2006-12-06 19:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but this strikes me as a very silly question.
Here is someone playing all kinds of childish games with which hurts and frightens you, and you are 'ASKING' if you should just move on....!
He is the opposite to what you think / believe in and wants to convert / Change You.
So, tell us, what reasons have you to remain in this (sic) situation?
Personally, I'd do whatever it takes for him to no-longer be able to make contact with you.
Best of luck.
Sash.
2006-12-06 13:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy was nice and understanding and helped you get over being attacked. MAybe he's a nice mate but if he doesnt seem to want the same things you want. I suggest that you get out there again. It will only get harded to meet someone else the longer you leave it.
2006-12-06 12:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by devil_pixie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i personally think you should move on.. you don't deserve a guy like this you can get somebody who actually cares for you. to me this guy just seems like he going to take you for a ride. you need some one who will understand why you are frightened with men an so on.
good luck in the future
2006-12-06 13:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ye u need to move on deffo he is not bf material he sounds like he should be your friend and you realy should tel hi that YOU CAN'T CHANGE YOU so tell him and find someone that understands that you are insecure and nervous as you should be i would
hope i helped good luckand hope u feel better bout what happened in te future as you will have to put it behind you
2006-12-06 13:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by xkelx_xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my god if this man can do that to you over the net and you feel the way you do right now then what would a relationship with this guy be like for you, i say stay well clear he sounds like a dominateing guy who just wants whats best for himself without giveing your feelings a secod thought
2006-12-06 12:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by HappilyConfused 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how you can like him or sek his attention or approval or relationship after the way he has behaved. You are worth more ..move on and start again with a genuine guy.
2006-12-06 13:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you already know what you need to do....just take a step back and look at the way he has treated you ..it won't be hard to make the right choice but it is one you need to do, good luck and their are nice guys out their...honest
2006-12-06 13:03:45 · answer #9 · answered by loveb00ts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up now and move on and away from him.Cant say i can see what attracted you to him in the first place.One way relationships never work so find sbody nicer.
2006-12-06 13:09:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋