Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

i have had a crush on my best friends girlfriend for a long time. i know he mistreats her and is mean to her every chance he gets.....she is also giving me mixed signals like she likes me too, but i think she's afraid that my bestfriend will hurt her if she was to every leave him. what can I do.....

2006-12-05 09:31:00 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How many women blame their ex husbands 2nd wife for them being an absentee father? Especially if she has kids. My ex husband is a horrible father who goes months without calling & I always blamed his girlfriend of 9 years because when I went out with a guy I always made sure his kids were involved with everything so they never felt left out.. But now I'm beginning to realize that unless she stopped him from calling which a real man would never let happen, its not her fault it's his. What to you think?

2006-12-05 09:30:52 · 10 answers · asked by gitsliveon24 5 in Marriage & Divorce

recently a friend of mind told me that her husband had cheated on her, again. I said again, why did you not leave him the first time it happen .She said because she love him .My question is why do women feel like they have to take back someone who's been unfaithful .

2006-12-05 09:30:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife is horrible in bed. I do talk with her about spicing up our marriage but she is selfish and doesn't even want to attempt to please me. She has an orgasm every time we have sex but i dont get the same result all the time.The look she has on her face when we are having sex is like- Would u hurry up and get off me. I told her that i feel this way, but still she does nothing. Everything I try do is benefiting her and she is happy and i get a shitty attitude when i bring this up to her. I am going crazy. But most of all I want to have an affair to really see if I am the 1 that sucks in bed. If that is so then I know why she acts that way, but if not I am getting a divorce. Please help me.

2006-12-05 09:30:34 · 8 answers · asked by Slim 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In the past week she has invited me over to her house, which she hasn't done before, then when i asked her if it was an invite she covered it up saying that when her other friends comes over and brings you and then changed topics, after that she tricked me into telling her she is hot, after that she told me a secret that she hasn't told any of her closest friends, she also snuck the topic of having kids into one of our converstations,i told her she should go to an upcoming dance and she said "why, so you can meet up with me there?" she told me she knew i would call cause she missed school and that she was expecting me to call, and she has been acting...very happy around me, more than normal

2006-12-05 09:29:56 · 21 answers · asked by Curt C. 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with this guy for 3yrs and he has a very bad problem and i told me that he was going to quite but he hasn't and when he does stop i have to go through this stage with him like he's on his cycle. Then when he go through this little stage he take this out on me with verbal abuse and i dont like it at all. I want to leave him but I dont have no where to go and if I tell him to leave he tells me he's not going anywhere. So, what should I do?

2006-12-05 09:28:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I have 1 class day left, which means that is my last day to ask out my crush. So I was walking out of the bulding and then I see my crush. Her & I walk past each other but she doesn't look at me. Seconds later, we both turned around breifly to look at one another. Does that mean something?
I also wanted to mention that a couple of weeks ago my crush looked upset , b/c i was talking to some other girl.

2006-12-05 09:27:50 · 9 answers · asked by dnice 1 in Singles & Dating

i have these really cute guy neighbors for four years never said anything to them besides hi and a few IM convos thats it and now i want to hang out with them what should i do

2006-12-05 09:27:09 · 2 answers · asked by calihottiehollister 1 in Singles & Dating

My BFF is starting to attack me all the time.First she say's I'm not supportive, that I unmotivate her to go to school;I spend hours helping her with her difficult subjects,never call her stupid,and sometimes even call her in the mornings(30min of my time)trying to get her to go.She still attacks me and say's I'm unsupportive, and in my face says I'm horrible at something while helping me with it.I confront her on this and she tells me I misunderstand and that it's a good thing that I don't let my life fall apart when helping others,then she attacks me again and says she does it on purpose becuase I'm unsupportive.I truly believe she is beautiful inside and out and will have a wonderful life.Men constatly hit on her,and ppl love her.She says Im lying and that I think she's ugly,don't believe in her,and want her to fail. I feel ugly and horrible around her"Ur butt is flat,ur 2 rude for that job,those catcalls were 4 me,ur SO selfish,u look so old but not me" She thinks im the bad friend

2006-12-05 09:26:29 · 4 answers · asked by MindyCindyLindy 2 in Friends

I had asked earlier about why my bf always wanted to talk about sex. But it wasn't too clear.. lately he's being going through a sex- threesome phase, and I'm really getting irritated//sick of it. He always wants to talk about it. It's scaring me, but he 'PROMISES' we'd never do it in real life. I yelled at him, and he started crying about how he was such an ***.


Could this be normal? He is 17.. And I love him to death.

help..............please!!

2006-12-05 09:26:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is he over reacting? I went over to their house and I bought his daughters some cute outfits, I got them some mini skirts, some cute tube tops and some cute thongs, I had them try em on and I put make up on em, they looked like models, I told them that when they grow up they'd be able to find a nice man with lots of money that would take care of them. He got mad at me and told me I'm not allowed around them anymore, is he over reacting, I think he is.

2006-12-05 09:26:14 · 23 answers · asked by Wendy Love Muffin 1 in Family

2006-12-05 09:25:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just wanted to put this out there, hopefully to get some more varied opinions on the subject. I noticed the other day that, with the exception of the occasional brush-past/up in the subway, I haven't been touched by another human being in almost a year. For the most part I've forgotten what it feels like, and I'm wondering if that's a bad thing. I'm curious to see how many people think physical interaction is actually a necessity of life (no I don't mean just sex, for purposes of procreation to continue the species or recreation) I'm wondering if it's vital to living or not; maybe it's just something we tell ourselves we need.

2006-12-05 09:25:34 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello,

I am 15 and my parents are splitting up. It's what is known a s a messy divorce constantly bickering and now an order has been set. therefor my father is unable to come within 500 yds of my house i have to walk or get dropped off to go with him.

I am constantly hearing 2 sdes of the story being told by each of them to do this and that....its driving me mad but i dont want to upset either of them, i dont thijnk they will understand.

This is driving me to tears and i cant take it anymore what can i do???

please give your advice

Thanks You

2006-12-05 09:25:23 · 3 answers · asked by jedi_master_bowlen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you want to chat for a while please IM me. It's cool to meet new people, but if you don't want to just please answer this question.

One of my best friends had been flirting with this girl we know, and he finally asked her out. I'm beginning to regret it, cuz he's changed a lot since they started dating. Always more worried about her, and I understand that, but every time we try and let him know he's changed too much he gets kind of ticked. So what can I do? I don't want him to dump her, just return to his normal self. Any suggestions? thanks

2006-12-05 09:24:59 · 18 answers · asked by D-Will 2 in Singles & Dating

How come it seems like I have to like someone. It's like after my crush for someone ends because they were unnattainable ar I was just way to chicken to approach them, I have to find someone else to like. It's like I am bored if I don't have someone to like and have to find someone as quick as possible to pine over and constantly think and fantasize bout. What's up with that?

2006-12-05 09:24:43 · 8 answers · asked by So'sYerFace 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 09:24:26 · 5 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Singles & Dating

my friend wants me to write this for results i have no idea why i have blonde hair blue eyes tan 36c 5 4 18 yrs old and 130 pds and almost every guy in school thinks im hot and the only thing on tv is porn videos and theres a shower in my room and a bed and i am wearing a really sexy outfit

2006-12-05 09:24:14 · 6 answers · asked by calihottiehollister 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 09:24:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous 3 in Singles & Dating

Iam a 30 year old independant black woman. My man gets upset because I dont have to ask him for anything. He says that he feels that hes not a man because i dont need his help financially . Should he be upset?

2006-12-05 09:23:54 · 6 answers · asked by woodardland06 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 09:23:49 · 9 answers · asked by carebear7 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am getting married next year in the spring.... A few weeks ago me and my best friend Dan, since our diaper days were hanging out playing around.... and he kissed me.... it felt so naturally i didnt know what to do.... this lead to sex and now i dont know what to tell him... I love him to death but I love my fiance too what should i do?

2006-12-05 09:23:48 · 7 answers · asked by Deborah C 1 in Friends

2006-12-05 09:23:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

truthfully

2006-12-05 09:23:24 · 2 answers · asked by antwan h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

so my best friends grandfather, uncle, and aunt passed away last year. Obviously a very hard year for the family and I was there for support at everything I could be. I go to her concerts and to her special events but when it comes to me and my events and deaths in the family she's not there. my granny died 3 months ago and she said she would be at the funeral and she never showed up. She said she was going to be at our concerts and she never showed up and tonight she calls and said she's not comin to the concert but didnt give a reason why. I feel like I try so hard but dont get the respect in return... What do I do?

2006-12-05 09:22:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hi i am new to internet dating and so far all the men I have got to
know have ended up being jerks. I was wandering from both guys and girls,what your experience's have been from internet dating,both good and bad :)

2006-12-05 09:22:37 · 7 answers · asked by kel s 2 in Singles & Dating

The boys all think she is nice but it's because she's a pretty girl who is very flirty. It's obvious that she just wants a father for her baby (she has no idea who the biological father is) and she can't raise it on her Sonic salary alone. She's a smart girl who knows how to network. We need to bring her down so she stops her crap.

2006-12-05 09:22:12 · 5 answers · asked by Paige A 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 09:22:02 · 5 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

as many deatails as you can

2006-12-05 09:21:46 · 4 answers · asked by antwan h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok now. i really like this guy, and i know he likes me, because he told me. well today he wanted me to go with him to this party, but i couldnt today, cuz i have a big essay due tomorrow. so im going with him to my friends party tomorrow. today at school we were like really close to making out...... but then the bell rang, dismissing us. i was kinda glad, because, well, i havent kissed anyone since march. so yeah, if you have any tips on making out id like them please, because im very sure we're going to tomorrow at my friends party. and i mean any and all advice. please and thankies!

2006-12-05 09:21:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating